Mga magandang gawin after ng Breakup

[gumpaste]

Travel 

[mommycute46]

Move forward.

[sugardrop]

Cry if you must, sleep, pamper yourself, get busy, pray.

[10don]

travel, read, magpaganda

[t_r_i_s_h]

Magpaganda, Magpasexy at Magsaya 

[sugardrop]

Depende sa break up and cause ng break up din.

There was this time na after the break up, I texted all my friends who knew about our relationship, "I'm free!" and that was on a Christmas day.

Most of the time iiyak muna to release all the pent-up emotion then matutulog. Then pagkagising, magmo-moment sandali, and after that, move on starting with retail therapy.

It helps to pray and ask for the strength to accept and move on.

Then say, "Next please..." OR "Time out muna".

[wangwang]

travel

[lovely_carrot]

this is what i've been doing lately

umiyak ako ng bonggang bongga for a day or two para lahat ng sama ng loob mailabas na tapos
nagpapasexy
nagpa new hairdo
i'm going out of town on my birthday
i'm going out of town again on his birthday
i deleted his phone no. (at least its new so hindi ko pa memorized)
after posting "may pinaghuhugutan" quotes, i stopped na. i realized ayoko munang "magpainterview" sa friends namin, for sure makakaramdam sila e we have common friends pa naman. basta after nung isang malupit na post ko, i suddenly stopped. up to now, nothing new on my timeline.
i limited myself from checking my FB updates, i unlinked my FB accounts sa phone ko
i stopped talking about it with friends and family
i'm trying to listen to "uplifting/positive" songs para di na depressing
prayer helps a lot

[estelle21]

this is what i've been doing lately

umiyak ako ng bonggang bongga for a day or two para lahat ng sama ng loob mailabas na tapos
nagpapasexy
nagpa new hairdo
 

sis lovely_carrot, naka move on ka na ba?


mag exercise. pampaalis stress.

magpa-beauty.

gumala with friends.

makipag chat and text with friends lalo na kung madalas ka chat o text si ex.

[TysLolakins]

depende,  if you got dumped,  cry your eyes out, if you're the dumper,  laugh it out until your sides hurt.


get a new 'do,  preferebly something totally different like color and cut.


take up running, running gives a different kind of high,  a good high,  it clears the head,  you sweat out the toxins

[iska-hazel]

magsimba, magdasal para tulungan ka ni lord alisin yung hatred sa puso....magandang start yun
in no particular order

1. checkup sa puso
2. checkup sa salon hehe (pagawa lahat ng pampamper)
3. magleave sa trabaho mga 1 week
4. magstock ng ilang "comfort food"
5. magrunning/ mag gym
6. magpakabusy, magluto, magbake or tumanggap ng freelance works (after ng bakasyon)

[killbill]

Mag pray, maglabas ng sama ng loob, umiyak ng umiyak, makipagchikahan sa mga friends, mag post dito sa GT. Mag boxing, magpaganda. Makinig kay pink, katy perry, adele.

[brandi]

^ travel sis. Soul searching 😊

[killbill]

^gusto ko yan. Kaso mahirap mag travel pag single mom at walang oto.

Pumunta kay senyor anthony vivero.

[purplegravity]

Go on with your life. Be sucessful in your career.

Travel.

Do sports.

Do something new.

Do charity work.  Effective yan.

Enjoy life, your friends and family.

And then ifriend mo si ex mo sa fb, then, hayaan mong manghinayang sa pinakawalan nya. Pero dapat wala na kayong feelings ha.

[annd]

do charity work. and climb the mountains. or study. read a book.

[momentum]

And then ifriend mo si ex mo sa fb, then, hayaan mong manghinayang sa pinakawalan nya. Pero dapat wala na kayong feelings ha.

for me lang po..hindi na siguro kelangan gawin ito it is like proving to him kasi something..dapat it is for oneself ang i-prove na you are strong and can have a better life w/o him and no need for him to see/believe it..just my opinion

[sugardrop]

^
Agree. The way I see it, parang may hint of bitterness pa din and hindi pa totally over. In the first place, why the need to prove a point? Is it him you really want to show that you're better off without? Or are you trying to convince yourself that you are indeed better off without him and that you've moved on?

[trishnottrash]

^i also agree. no need to add him again in FB. dapat wala ka ng pakielam and baka ikaw lang din masaktan kapag nakita mo na  he's happy with someone else.

[ziontrec]

not sure if mentioned already but here are a few things id suggest.

1. Pray - talk to the author of love. just when you feel like all is lost, He is always there, you can trust that no matter what happens "28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who[a] have been called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 (NIV)"

2. Stay - I mean you should give it time... acceptance doesn't happen overnight, all the emotion built through time wont go away so easily so cry a river or better yet an ocean... but make sure you take note of the reason you are crying and learn from it.

"Once Is A Mistake Twice Is A Choice"


3. Try new things like getting into sports - can also be considered as keeping yourself busy, the physical exhaustion help release stress, win win situation, burn fats as you burn out all that negative emotions you have. plus its a self improvement, who knows you may find something you would really enjoy and find "the one" while you're at it *wink*


4. Don't rush - meet new people but don't fall for the next guy/girl that comes around and makes you feel good/special, good things come for those who wait.


Time doesn't really heal the wound, you just get used to it.
Scars are there to remind you what you've gone through and what you should have learned