Mga magandang gawin after ng Breakup

[mitchal18]

1.  salon spree! - mani pedi foot spa hair color THE WORKS!
2.  shopping
3.  take lessons - cooking, second language, make-up, photography.  bagong paglilibangan and at the same time dinedevelop mo yung sarili mo.  malay mo you'll stumble into your hidden talents na pwede mo pa gamitin to earn additional income.
4.  travel - local and international
5.  go out with friends and family
6.  read a good book
7.  go on a retreat - mala-karylle. 
8.  join church organizations

in no time at all limot mo na si ex!

saan maganda maglearn ng second language?

[len_choi]

1. Keep urself busy
2. Mag pa spa
3. Salon, hair cut, manicure , pedicure
4. Learn new things, enroll in cooking class, driving class etc
5. Pray ( it works for me, found my now husband because of this )
6. Wag muna pumunta sa mga lugar na pinupuntahan nyo ni ex
7. Go out with family and friends

[snix]

Nahihirapan ako ng sobra magcope.. My best friend lives so far away and my other friends naman are so busy with work though they find time to talk to me. I don't feel like going out dahil parang lahat ng lugar napuntahan namin dalawa.. Yung iba ko naman friend common friends niya which is what i want to avoid dahil ayoko rin na magtanong sila.. Haaaay ;(

[piatos]

^sis, naramdaman ko din yan..kahit lumalabas ka kasama friends mo, nakasmile pero deep inside nalulungkot ka pa din.  Ipagpatuloy mo lang sis makakapagenjoy ka din

[sundae]

Sunugin lahat ng binigay niya. LOL.

Yes, prettify!!! Make him drool!!! Mamatay siya sa pagsisisi!

Hahahaha. You're sooo right!

[shesanmigz]

This is what worked for me:

Mag-out of the country o kaya somewhere na malayo and totally wala kayong memories sa lugar na yun, pero dapat may friends ka dun and make sure you'd always go out.  Stay there for about a month or more.  Mas preferred ko out of the country kasi:
1) Hindi ka mate-tempt na i-text sya kasi mahal, manghihinayang ka
2) Lalo namang hindi mo sya tatawagan kasi mas mahal
3) Since you've never been there together, maliit lang ang chance na may magtanong sa yo kung kamusta na sya or what.  Hirap makalimot pag maraming nagtatanong about him.

Pag nagparamdam sya sa kahit anong paraan, deadma ka lang.

Get a totally new hobby na hindi mo sya maaalala dun.

I-delete mo sya sa fb, twitter, ig, linkedin, ym, skype, etc.

Isipin mo wala ka nang babalikan at hindi na magiging kayo ulit kahit kelan para wala kang choice but to move forward with your life.  Drill this to your head!

Don't look back.

[piatos]

magmakeup, magayos at rumampa 

[Trianna]

pamper yourself, look prettier than ever, be with friends and family, spend time with the Lord, pray and travel

[piatos]

^super like sis  .  Dahil sa help ni God, Nazareno and St. Jude nakapagmove on ako 

[lex_mom]

pamper yourself, look prettier than ever, be with friends and family, spend time with the Lord, pray and travel

this is the best thing you can do. I'm still getting over a breakup and plan ko talaga, as soon as i give birth, i will go through a major makeover. the money that i was supposed to use for our wedding I will spend for all sorts of treatments

[iseenessie]

find a new hobby. something that you never thought you would do. you might surprise yourself and end up liking it.

[Trianna]

@lex_mom go for it, girl! you deserve all the pampering 

[pinkadelic]

ibalik ang dating glow. enjoy na muna natin being admired now that we're single! 

[purpleme]

KEEP BUSY.

read a book.
fun with the girls.
watch korean dramas.
cook.
learn new stuffs.
find a hobby.

[Romina]

This certain ex boyfriend i was with for over 5 years, and decided to marry a girl he just met..

I lost weight. From 190lbs to 135lbs. My routine before was wok, home then gym, or run at least 3 miles a day.
I moved to a bigger city, changed my career, stopped drinking, and start socializing again.

[princeza08]

if you are working: work work work!!!! if still studying: study study study!!!

go out with your friends!

try to meet someone/ a new friend

eliminate lahat ng makakapagpaalala sa x mo

magpaganda! magpaparlor!

pray for a new love life!

[holli_may]

 
* Getting active in church activities
* Commit myself to church ministries
* Join community outreaches

* Travel
* Food Trip
* Join those hiking/trekking escapade
* Have a new do (overall ha from hair to the whole wardrobe )
* Try out new things that you have never done before (surfing, rock climbing, backpacking, cooking, etc.)

[Prunella]

Prettify yourself.

[akthung]

i think the best way to get out of a "bad" state in life, whether depression or bad breakup, etc etc

is to find something BETTER.

that is to be in a better position. or if a person is involved - to have a better significant other.

KEEPING BUSY is just a stepping stone to other opportunities. it helps keep your mind off the past until you reach the better position.

but make sure it leads you to a better path, at hindi lang nililigaw ang pag iisip mo, as for sure, it will bite you the moment your mind becomes idle.

i think a good way is to enter passionately into a new hobby or sport.

and when i mean passionate i mean that you'd the put in the time researching, practicing, finding the best buys for all the goodies needed in your new hobby. then joining groups, forums...

do this until the day you realize that you have healed; that the past is a simple memory. you don't think much of your 1994 Toyota Corolla if you have at least a 2013 one that is far better right? tatawanan mo na lang ang nakaraan as if someone pulled a good prank on you.

for 90% of the time i think this will work. Unless under God's eyes, eh you already have what it takes to be happy, content, na tulad ng iba, best friend lang pala nila ang sagot sa hinahanap nilang kasambuhay; or yung gears mo pala for mountaineering ay more than enough pala.

ika nga ni Lebron James nung nanalo ang miami heat sa nba championships: i'm no one. who am i? i'm lucky enough to be in the championships (alone). so it doesn't matter what they say.

[purple.strawberry]

The old-age advice: keep yourself busy! Wala talagang tatalo dito. Tempting magmukmok at mag-emote mag-isa sa room, but you'll feel lots better if you go outside.

- Reconcile with your friends. Madalas you lose time, even contact, with them kapag nagkaroon ka ng relationship. Now's the time for catching up.

- Meet new friends.

- Enjoy being single. After several years of being in a relationship, super naappreciate ko maging single. Like gala ng gala, magbabar, pwedeng makipagfriends sa guys ng walang nagseselos sa side. Haha.

- Do things you've never done before.

- Travel, local or international. You'll get to discover new places and unwind, try new adventures.

- Reinvent yourself. Get a new haircut, update your wardrobe. Feel good about yourself.


Kung serious at long-term yung relationship niyo, try going out with different guys. Or better yet, try being single for a while. Darating at darating din naman yung bago e.