Mga magandang gawin after ng Breakup

[freelancer_babe]

There's nothing wrong in crying at the start of a breakup. It happens. Cry, feel bad, lash at the world then move on.

But don't dwell too much on sadness.

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travel.

find new friends. catch up with old friends. friends met online also count. try online dating.

do a lot of physical activities. fun run. climb a mountain. mountain biking.

get busy with work.

beautify.

if you can, move into new town/country, and even find a new but better paying job/business opportunities (lalo na kung kasama mo pa sa job)

cut ties with friends whom you both met (temporarily)

most importantly: never look back!

[chicafabulosa]

I agree with you Freelancer. But most of the girls I think is having problem with "Never look back" 

They tend to try hard to answer the what ifs and won't be able to move on. Or they are trying to win back their exes because they are afraid to face new life without them. I think scared of stepping out of their comfort zone. since they have build this when they were together. they are scared to explore new life and experiences without their exes..

[bear_touch]

Divert your attention and prevent your mind/heart from thinking him/her. Don't rush things di naman madalian or paunahan na kalimutan yan.

[|:AyemZia:|]

Divert your attention and prevent your mind/heart from thinking him/her. Don't rush things di naman madalian or paunahan na kalimutan yan.

tomo!!! spend more time mingling with other people or your friends. bawal magmukmok!

[annd]

gusto ko magpahula haha

[xtense_15]

magpaka busy sa work

shopping, spa.. anything that can make you feel relaxed and at the same time, busy.

talking to friends, going out with friends. super BIG help.

lastly, if you want to cry, just cry your heart out! mauubos din ang mga luha na yan.

been there done that. 

[preeetybride]

shux i hate this feeling!

buti im over this phase! but anyway... suggestion ko is to throw out all old photos. dati kasi pinupunit ko siya out of the picture.

then whenever i look at the picture, mas lalo akong umiiyak kasi parang may kulang! well kasi punit nga yung photo, so feel na feel ko na broken ako.

so suggestion ko, paprint na lang kayo ng bagong photos na kayo lang ang nasa picture. print happy photos of you and surround yourself with that para lagi kang hopeful na one day, you'll be smiling again.
mura lang naman magpaprint ng pictures ngayon, mga Php2 na lang isa sa tronix print box.

so ayun, surround yourself with positivity and if naluluha ka, dont ever think na kawawa ka. just let it out then try to smile as much as you can.

[culitte]

Divert your attention and prevent your mind/heart from thinking him/her. Don't rush things di naman madalian or paunahan na kalimutan yan.

Tama... yan din ang ginagawa ko... iwas FB para hindi matukso o aksidente na makita ang profile nya or profile ng mga dati naming mga friends na naka-tag sya or ako... toinkz.. hehe....

[culitte]

get into business... ^_^
and improving knowledge, skills and talents given by GOD... ^_^

[KaraVT]

Work hard, play harder.
Do not look back.

[tipC_shoegal]

L♥VE YOURSELF

Learn to see yourself as an important person and not someone who's gonna be broken forever because of the tremendous pain experienced.

Looking good and feeling good is the best revenge you could give your ex but that's not a really ideal motivation to recover.

It's still best to involve yourself in other interests that you've totally wanted to try (even way back).
Always think positively.
Be inspired and inspire.
Read books and watch good films.
Travel.
Immerse yourself with good/fun people and have fun.
Pray.

OF COURSE - Stop thinking about the past.

BELIEVE that you're worth loving.

[~sara~]

Spa/Salon Visit - Haircut, mani-pedi, massage

Bond with Nature - Beach, park = kung san masarap ang hangin para makahinga ng maayos

Iyak lang hanggang mapagod

Go out with friends

PRAY

[blackgreen]

I participated in various activities, it makes me busy and tired. So no time to think of him.

[Filipinasadhart]

I participated in various activities, it makes me busy and tired. So no time to think of him.

tama may ourselves busy. in that way makakalimutan natin. Saka magpaganda ng magpaganda. Samahan din ng prayers.

[Parissydney]

Sleep around! Chos! 

[ettevyvi]

NEVER CONTACT AN EX. Never, never never! Delete him/her on fb, twitter, etc. his/her fone, change your number... Because talking to your ex is pure torture. No reason for you to talk. And oh, you're really not "friends".

Shop. Therapeutic kapag alam ang limit. Although pag broken hearted medyo sablay sablay 'yan. For as long as may kakainin ka 5x a day, mababayaran ang bills,etc why not? ^_^

Iiyak hanggang magsawa. Do not suppress the feelings. It will just creep out. Do not deny the emotions like anger, just don't act out on it. Wag din maguilty kapag nalulungkot or depressed ka. It's perfectly normal as long as you won't entertain suicidal thoughts.

Accept that it's over OVER. Tipong hindi na magkakabalikan EVER. Because, if you're secretly hoping that you'll get back together, even a TINY hope, it will kill out any chances of moving on truly.

SET HIGH STANDARDS. The reason why we settle is because our standards are set on low or we don't have one at all. No love can ever wash that standard away - EXCEPT your love for yourself. Standards are FOR YOU not for other people.

Love yourself - the good, the bad and the ugly. Accept the imperfections.

STOP STALKING THE EX. Facebook, whatever. You do not need to paddle your self esteem with his/her posts or whether or not s/he is in a new (old) relationship. Maybe the person is faking what s/he feels, too. Or a fake nonetheless.

Go out with friends and have friends readily available when you need to vent and call them @ 2am. Super helpful in times of need. Most friends never leave and partners rarely stay in your life.

Read, take up a new hobby, clean the house, basta keep your mind occupied.

It's okay to miss an ex and think about him/her. But do not give the entire time of the day. Focus the attention on YOU. You're broken up, you can't control him/her in whatever thing you do.

[Parissydney]

NEVER CONTACT AN EX. Never, never never! Delete him/her on fb, twitter, etc. his/her fone, change your number... Because talking to your ex is pure torture. No reason for you to talk. And oh, you're really not "friends".

Shop. Therapeutic kapag alam ang limit. Although pag broken hearted medyo sablay sablay 'yan. For as long as may kakainin ka 5x a day, mababayaran ang bills,etc why not? ^_^

Iiyak hanggang magsawa. Do not suppress the feelings. It will just creep out. Do not deny the emotions like anger, just don't act out on it. Wag din maguilty kapag nalulungkot or depressed ka. It's perfectly normal as long as you won't entertain suicidal thoughts.

Accept that it's over OVER. Tipong hindi na magkakabalikan EVER. Because, if you're secretly hoping that you'll get back together, even a TINY hope, it will kill out any chances of moving on truly.

SET HIGH STANDARDS. The reason why we settle is because our standards are set on low or we don't have one at all. No love can ever wash that standard away - EXCEPT your love for yourself. Standards are FOR YOU not for other people.

Love yourself - the good, the bad and the ugly. Accept the imperfections.

STOP STALKING THE EX. Facebook, whatever. You do not need to paddle your self esteem with his/her posts or whether or not s/he is in a new (old) relationship. Maybe the person is faking what s/he feels, too. Or a fake nonetheless.

Go out with friends and have friends readily available when you need to vent and call them @ 2am. Super helpful in times of need. Most friends never leave and partners rarely stay in your life.

Read, take up a new hobby, clean the house, basta keep your mind occupied.

It's okay to miss an ex and think about him/her. But do not give the entire time of the day. Focus the attention on YOU. You're broken up, you can't control him/her in whatever thing you do.

Sis ok lang ba i-delete ko siya sa fb? Baka sabihin niya bitter ako. Saka may nabasa ako na wag daw ide-delete para makita nila kung gaano tayo kasaya nung nawala sila.

[ettevyvi]

^Its your call pa din syempre. How did you two broke up? Saka kumportable ka ba na nakikita mo ang mga post nya na hapi hapihan din? If not, edi gawin mo na. Saka kung talagang magiging friends kayo, mangyayari at mangyayari 'yun.

Kapag friend mo kasi sya or may alam ka tungkol sa kanya, tendency lang noon pwede mo sya macontact. At least pag wala sya at natetempt ka, di ka magmumukhang pathetic. When the breakup is fresh, its better to be bitter than pathetic. Kasi in the end, after the bitternes, youre going to be better.

[Parissydney]

^Its your call pa din syempre. How did you two broke up? Saka kumportable ka ba na nakikita mo ang mga post nya na hapi hapihan din? If not, edi gawin mo na. Saka kung talagang magiging friends kayo, mangyayari at mangyayari 'yun.

Kapag friend mo kasi sya or may alam ka tungkol sa kanya, tendency lang noon pwede mo sya macontact. At least pag wala sya at natetempt ka, di ka magmumukhang pathetic. When the breakup is fresh, its better to be bitter than pathetic. Kasi in the end, after the bitternes, youre going to be better.

Sis, complicated eh. Kasi kahit isang taon na kaming hiwalay, magkasama pa rin kami sa iisang bahay di naman siya mahilig mag facebook. Sabi ko sa kanya, gusto ko maging friends pa rin kami at the right time siguro yung tipong kahit may gf na siya, yung di na ko nasasaktan kahit onti.

[ettevyvi]

^^ Kung may mahahanap kang arrangement na hindi kayo magkasama, gawin mo na ASAP. Masasaktan at masasaktan ka lang dyan. Hindi ba parang slow torture 'yun?

Magiging magkaibigan kayo in time. Pero now na nagmomove on kayo.. sobrang labo nyan. Stay away from him lang talaga katapat nyan.