masama ba ang loob nyo?

[sonncza]

wow, parang support group tong thread na to,,

[sonncza]

masama din ang loob ko, palagi nalang ako ang brineak, bakit di naten ibahin, ako naman ang makikipagbreak!

[minikeyklush]

sobrang sama ang loob ko na palagi nalan akong chincheat or kung hindi man lagi nalan akong tinetake for granted 

[ashleyhan]

masama...after i moved on, he's comin back as if nothing ever happened...as if he doesnt hurt me and broke my heart into motherf*ckin million pieces....bat ba ganon mga lalaki....

[ishtiane]

to the highest level ang sama ng loob ko.
sa lahat ng naitulong ko sa kanya
ito pa igaganti nya.

[lizzete]

yes ..sobrang sama ng loob ko..bakit ganun siya..siya na nga may kasalanan ..binabaliktad pa niya ang sitwasyon..ang masama pa yan ..bakit di ko siya magawa isumpa at kalimutan na lang..bakit ..ayoko na..pagod na ko

[lizzete]

yes, sobrang sama ng loob ko. i just need to let this out..
sobrang nakaka depress lang talaga. 8 years kame ng boyfriend ko, mag 5 years na LDR. i can't believe lang na kaya niya pala mambabae. ako naging loyal sa kanya all this time. never ako gumimik, lahat ng pupuntahan ko,lagi ako nagpapa alam sa kanya. super strict niya pero lahat naman yun sinunod ko kahit malayo kame. then ma-didiscover ko lang na nagkaron na siya ng 2 gf kahit kami pa. pero ayaw naman niya aminin. meron ako proof pero ang dami niya palusot. hindi daw siya ang sumulat ng message nun. ayaw niya makipag break, mag suicide daw siya. nakakalungkot lang, 1 year na lang sana, pwede na niya ako ma-petition, then saka ko naman nalaman na niloko niya ko. ang hirap ng situation ko kasi ayaw niya aminin kasalanan niya, tapos naging dependent din kasi ako sa kanya at parang nanghihinayang ako sa 8 years na relationship namen kung i-le-let go ko din siya.
nakaka inis lang na kahit ginawa niya to, mahal ko pa din siya. sobrang t**** ko na hinayaang ko na kontrolin niya buhay ko kahit di pa naman kami mag asawa. sobra akong nagtiwala, kahit alam ko na mahirap ang long distance relationship. sinayang niya lang lahat, nakakalungkot talaga. 

i feel for you sis ang t*anga ko din

ako na nga ang niloko..ako pa ang nagsosorry..

i want to hate myself for being so stupid ..na minahal ko siya ..sana hindi na lang...bakit ba siya pa

bakit ba hindi na lang yun iba na mas mahal ako

bakit siya ba ...ano ba meron siya wala naman

[Sun005]

Oo naman. Masama din loob ko. Parang hindi man lang sinaalang alang un pinagsamahan nyo. Basta sya happy at ayaw magmumukang sya masama. Babaliktarin ka pa! Tao nga naman!

[gurlzat03]

sobrang sama ng loob ko kasi hindi ko alam ang reason kung bakit... pero thankful pa din ako na nangyari 'to, kasi alam kong malalaman ko din ang reason...

[anacdotick]

YES dahil sa lahat ng ginawa niya sa akin ito ang pinakamasama.. 

[ashleyhan]

ive moved on na ata....sana!

[anacdotick]

yes kasi akala ko ok na tapos biglang nagbagong lahat pati sya nagbago

at sana maka move on na talaga ko

[ashleyhan]

mdyo nabawasan na yung sama ng loob ko...after a few months, I've come up to the realization that he just did what is suppose to be done, and I admire him for that. But the pain, of course will always linger on me. I loved him so much that it will take time for me to heal completely. but to him...KUDOS, for choosing your family above your own petty happiness...mid-life crisis that is.

[cjanna]

Oo yes sobra..Sobrang sama ng loob ko.. Parang gusto kong isigaw sa buong mundo na sinusumpa ko ang Ex ko at ang suluterang yon...

Siya kasi 1st ever BF ko....Akala ko sobrang tibay na namin na nakaabot kami ng 1 year and 5 months..Akala ko kaya naming umabot hanggang 10 years or more or forever na..sobrang minahal ko sya..ewan ko nga kung totoo talaga yung paglambing at "pagmamahal" nya saakin dati...super sweet namin palagi...pero bigla na lang dumating ang panahon na Ipagpalit ba naman ako sa isang Class A whore na natagpuan lang nya sa bar!!  at iniwan lang ang isang katulad kong tunay na nagmahal,nagturo,tumulong at nag sakripisyo sakanya ng buong puso..aminin ko..simple lang naman ako..hindi ganun kaganda at sexy tulad ng Class A whore na yun...pero halata namang mas maganda ang background ko sakanya..at totoo ako magmahal..love talaga ang nararamdaman ko at hindi lust... 

[xxxloixxx]

It is just normal to have hard feelings towards someone who has wronged you. The most important thing to know is that eventually, you will be able to accept it, and once acceptance is there, you will be able to forgive him and yourself (in case you did something as a means of revenge ). Only then will you be able to move forward.

There was a time (not too long ago hehe) when I was full of resentment. After my plot of revenge, I was able to free myself of all hatred and started to forgive him and myself... My family and friends were my driving force. It helped a lot that my family never questioned me/him nor did they show resentment, instead they made me feel that they support me with whatever I had to go through. What really overwhelmed me was that it wasn't even my friends who consoled me more but his friends! And then blessings started pouring in... It's weird people would always notice how I "bloom" these days.  So right now, no negativity...only positivity! 

[daria]

ako oo sobra.. four years naging kami then he never proposed or anything then now after almost a year, I found out that he was getting married to another girl!!

Super sakit sobra.. numb na ako wala na akong mailuluha pa. Sana matapos na tong chapter na to.

-how are you na, sis? feeling ko ganito din ang mangyayari sakin. just broke up with my almost 4-yr relationship because "he can live without me" (he didn't tell me that pero, yun na rin yun, di ba?). now he's getting serious with another girl (after less than 2 months of breaking up with me) whom he calls "given to him by the universe".
how did you deal with the pain?

[ashleyhan]

Eto sobrang lungkot. I dont know when the sun will shine into my life...hahaha  ayoko na isipin sinira ko kase lahat im a big mess

[antooken]

Hindi, ako kasi yung nakipag break. Nyahaha! Ginawa ko yan para sa kanya din. May pagka selfish ako pero di lang naman puro sarili ko lang iniisip ko.

[rihito]

@ carmichael18 : nakakarelate ako dito, the difference is hindi kami nakatira sa isang bahay. The common thing is he is seeing another girl who is our ex-officemate. masama loob ko kasi it had only been three months since then ok pa kami, he even invited me to see his family. and i really though that he was the one i was going to be with for the rest of my life. we were starting to actually look for houses...nagtampo pa sya nung may nakita syang hawak ko na brochure of houses and lots sa laguna when he wanted a house sa caloocan. anyway ayun, he said masyado daw kasi ako busy. Pero sobrang bilis talaga eh, kung gano katagal ko sya tinulungang kalimutan yun past relationship nya, kabaliktaran sa bilis naman nya kong pinagpalit..hayyzzz...di naman masama loob ko sa girl since wala sya alam about us, pero everytime they post pictures and like each other's posts on FB, it hurts me. he also wanted us to be friends na lang, pero pano yun, gustuhin ko man, nasasaktan nya ako?

[krnmprl]

oo sobrang sama ng loob ko. pagkatapos ng lahat ng yon. parang wala lang nangyare? ganun na lang un? at wala lang sa kanya.

talaga naman. hay.