How do you handle being Single?

[jdash]

^ ang ganda naman ng message mo  tara pakasal na tayo  LOL

[chicgurl]

^ hahaha funny ka bro! sige pakasal ka sa sarili mo joke! hehe

[jdash]

 ^ LOL, matagal nako kasal sa sarili ko 

joke lang yun ha 

[purple_rain0721]

by simply being happy.   

[irish1031]

pasali ha 

ako i just keep myself busy with my work (workaholic acchhuuuuhhhhh!) 

pero tama kayo, its quite difficult to deal with being single especially if medyo matagal na din (like sa case ko, its been about 2 years na i do not have someone special). siguro naman sa pagkakataong ito eh ready na ako, yun nga lang ready na din ba yung girl for me? eh wala pa nga me nahahanap hehe..

by the way i'm a guy, 27 years old. happy being single pero happiest if i'll have someone special to be and enjoy life with. oh well, that would come naman in the right time, right? 

just keep smiling and do things what you are happy to do with. that's one secret of handling being single without getting affected by sweet couples around tee hee!

[chicgurl]

@jdash hehe ikasal na naten lahat sarili natin sa sarili natin hahaha oo let's just go on with life dadating yan in the right time.. lahat eh according to diving perfect timing

[irish1031]

@jdash hehe ikasal na naten lahat sarili natin sa sarili natin LOL oo let's just go on with life dadating yan in the right time.. lahat eh according to diving perfect timing

I agree with you hehe lahat e darating in the right time

[jdash]

@jdash hehe ikasal na naten lahat sarili natin sa sarili natin LOL oo let's just go on with life dadating yan in the right time.. lahat eh according to diving perfect timing

Tama rin, marrying oneself is like knowing yourself more. Discovering things you want to do in your life/future and then if they sense those in you they will find you more attractive.   

Let things go in place as you go along through Life.   

carpe diem 

[avesoriano]

im still single but not so single (kinda complicated) i still cant help but wish that there is a special man for me. Ive just reached the 30s na. I never had the problem with finding a man before. kaso ngayun looking back meron talaga ako hinahanap e- Mr.right.

a good advice i found... instead of finding mr. right i should busy myself with trying being the Ms. right. (i wonder how harder can it be?)


teka effective ba st. jude for singles? 

[irish1031]

Its better to be single than to be in a bad relationship anyway

Getting in a relationship (and if, unfortunate, letting go of it) is a continuous learning process. Being single in between relationships gives us time to evaluate kung paano natin dinala ang sarili natin sa past relationship. Maybe sa iba, ang pagiging single ay isang sumpa (lalo na dun sa mga di nakapag-asawa later on in their lives), pero for me, its a learning process. That is why I'm just patiently waiting kung sino man ang para sa akin.

OT: Moderator, sorry for the violations na accidentally nagawa ko here sa thread. Di na mauulit. Thank you 

[v00d00doLL]

carry lang. as long as i'm happy with the people around me.

[purple_rain0721]

a good advice i found... instead of finding mr. right i should busy myself with trying being the Ms. right. (i wonder how harder can it be?)

thanks for sharing this sis! love it! may nagsabi na din sakin niyan before na in order to find Mr. Right I have to be Ms. Right first.    para naman daw magpasalamat si Mr. Right kay God at nakita niya na finally si Ms. Right.  para naman daw sulit din ang paghihintay niya.    makes sense! 

[esor]

Just be happy! ^_^

Almost a year na ding single, and I'm loving it.

[Ms.Cacao70%]

25 years akong single noon before i got married. pero ni minsan, di ako naka-feel na may kulang. single by choice talaga ako. kahit nga ngayon na married na ako, i still miss my single life! ano bang mga ginagawa ko noon:

1. active sa church- member ako ng church youth group, sa dami ng kaibigan ko, bat hahanap pa ako ng bf? tapos mga community service sali ako ng sali. very fulfilling talaga
2. college friends- we hang out all the time kahit kanya-kanya na kami ng work. pag may occassion nagkikita  pa din kami.
3. self indulgence- hay naku ang dalas ko sa mga salons, pa-facial, pa-hot oil, pa manicure, pedicue, spa dito, spa doon. i like pampering myself coz i have all the time in the world!
4. mahilig magbasa ng mga magazines, self-help books, inspirational books basta anything that will uplift my soul.

sobrang miss ko talaga ang mga bagay na ito. masarap maging single

[krnmprl]

the last relationship I had ended 2.5 years ago. I've been busy with work and lately I thought about going into another relationship, which would have been another "pain in the ass" good thing we avoided it. so i've been busy with work and trying to think about all the important things i've learned thru my last relationship. minsan kasi i think i'm not really over it yet.  and over all just spending time on/with myself and my goals and priorities in life.

my next relationship will be for the long haul, ika nga. so i'm enjoying this time before i get into that. hopefully i find the right person.

[angeline24]

Same with Sis chicgurl I'm also turning 28 this June. Dami pa nga nagsasabi sa akin na batchmate ko nung highschool na ako na lang daw ata sa batch namin ang hindi married. And so? Pati mga pinsan ko pinepressure na akong magasawa coz almost of them are married na. And another So? haha.

I just broke up with my bf two months ago pero I can say I really do enjoy being single. I can go out with my friends without asking any permission. I can wear whatever I want to wear without hearing any comments na "ano ba naman yang suot mo? Pwede magpalit ka? Hindi tayo aalis ng hindi ka nagpapalit!!" and a lot more.

What do I do to enjoy being single? I pray, I shop, I go out with my family and friends, I go to beauty salon and I make myself more presentable to look good.

Now who says being single is boring?

[cherub.rock]

@jdash hehe ikasal na naten lahat sarili natin sa sarili natin LOL oo let's just go on with life dadating yan in the right time.. lahat eh according to diving perfect timing

this somehow makes sense. to "marry oneself".. meaning.. to get to know yourself more, find exciting things for yourself, please yourself, pamper yourself, comfort yourself,  basically love yourself how a married person should to his partner, only this time, your partner is.. well.. yourself!!! LOL. i try practicing this for my self-esteem and to overcome my loneliness that everytime i look at the mirror, i stare at the reflection and tell myself, "hey, that's my lifelong partner.. the one i can count on, one that will never betray or let me down. we can and we will do great things together!!! "

[chicgurl]

^ exactly! tumbok mo sis! pasok na pasok when all else fail all you have is yourself well of course God hindi naman Siya nawawala e.

[purple_rain0721]

There's a lot of things you can do para maging single and yet happy.    Next month I am planning to enroll in a language school.  I wanna take up French.     That would definitely kick the blues away. 

[cherub.rock]

girls being single is soo fun kaya LOL well i've been in a serious relationship for 7 years & we broke up 5months ago. it was painful, really super pero what to do diba?? i am enjoying being single now.. i go out with my GFs we party we shop we hang around most of the time.. surround yourself with people you love to be with.. read books, go to the gym, do outdoor activities, sports or whichever interests you do what you love to do.. promise lalabas ang positive aura mo. wag mamoblema about being alone etc or walang aakay sayo when you've got problems we can take care of ourselves let's not be dependent on men.. di naman ibibigay sayo ni God yan if di mo kaya.. in my opinion lang ha no offense meant.. kasi if we take being single as parang problem hehe nako walang mangyayari satin niyan papanget tayo sige kayo enjoy life lang.. happy people attract positive vibes thus people will tend to notice you ;p nakakamiss din yung mag someone special kaso we remember kahit na nasa relationship dapat meron pa ring individuality hindi yun dapat mawala sayo/satin. with regards to pressure sa family or friends wag magpadala dahil lang sa ganto na ang age mo etc etc lahat kinakasal na lahat nag aasawa na.. eto sabihin niyo i dont care! LOL kesa naman magkamali ka ng decision diba? look how many failed marriage ang meron sa pinas better yung super sure ka na, stable & sure sa partner mo.. just enjoy being single, carefree.. saya kaya walang nagbabawal sayo ng ganto ganyan, wala kang pagrereportan nasan ka sino kasama mo walang curfew soo independent soo woman of the new era diba? hehe sorry eto kasi ako ngayon nisshare ko lang oo tormented ako when me & my bf broke up pero ayoko naman magmukmok for life noh while he is having fun & he's having the time of his life im sooo loser naman non,, hehe and i believe na life is soo great to spend with misery resentment remorse & hatred why not celebrate life cheers to all the single ladies out there!! put your hands up hehe by the way i am 28 i am nearing my 30's and i dont care

THANK YOU! i always go back to this thread and re-read your post whenever i feel down, or empty or lonely. this fills me with positivity. and then i am reminded that life is so beautiful, single or not, grasp every moment !