How do you handle being Single?

[rox_cute]

ngayon medyo hindi ko nagugustuhan na kasi.. wala na ako masyado ginagawa tapos wala akong mga gala and then yung mga friends ko almost lahat either busy or in a relationship kaya nakakalungkot at time.. nagstart na rin na mainggit ako sa kanila pag may mga double dates etc.. haay..

[purple_rain0721]

i'm still in the process of moving on so right now, I'm focusing on myself, on my career, famiily and friends.    I also work out to shake the blues away. 

I promised myself na once I get a job, magpapa-book ako agad ng flight papunta sa kung saan man.  I owe it to myself.    basta itong remaining months ng 2010 naka-focus ako sa pag-improve ng sarili ko.  then next year, try ko na makipag-date.    susundin ko yung sinabi ni Bo Sanchez.  5 guys a week.  need not be romantic na date.  kahit platonic lang.  friendly date ganon.  ang purpose lang eh is to meet as many guys as you can.  who knows nga naman, baka isa kanila pala si Mr. Right. 

[Sun005]

I'm just new in the Single's World. Actually ngayon lang ako totally naging single.. I'm having a hard time. My parents are away from me. I'm living alone talaga. I have lots of friends naman kaso yun nga nakaka-miss may kasama. How do you handle that?

me too. I'm living alone. Ive been single for bout 7mos. and before that, naging single din ako for 3 yrs. I spent most of my time wit prens. movies. keeping myself busy. but at the end of the day, nakakalungkot. but i keep my hopes high. ayoko naman kasi pumasok sa relasyon na makakasakit lang din saken.

[angeleigh]

Ang mahirap sa pagiging single, eh yung nasanay ka na every weekend aalis ka with the bf. Ngayon biglang wala ka ng ginagawa. Kapag weekend, nasa bahay ka lang, kasi hindi rin sanay ang mga friends mo na yayain ka dahil nasanay sila na lagi mo sila tinatanggihan. All of a sudden, you have all the time in the world.

What i did? --I enrolled myself in a gym. Kaya everyday i have something to look forward to. Pati weekends nggygym ako.

Ang medyo nagaadjust ako ngayon is yung kung pano makihalubilo sa guys ulit. Hindi na ata ako marunong magpaligaw e. Lahat ng nagattempt ngayon e basted agad. Parang nakakailang na. Hindi ko na alam kung pano ihandle.

[purple_rain0721]

yup, ang hirap pag nasanay ka na siya ang lagi mong kasama sa loob ng maraming taon.  pero when I broke up with him para kong nabunutan ng tinik.

aside  from the things I've mentioned in my previous post, this time I am also making it an effort to be friendly with guys.  everytime may lumalapit, kumakausap etc, warm na ako makitungo. hindi kasi ako friendly sa mga guys dati, I used to question their motives.  but I've broken the barrier now.  it's liberating. ^_^  sarap ng feeling.

[trizh]

  -- ako naman, okay na okay sa akin yung hawak ko ang time ko. pero minsan, namimiss ko rin yung may nagaalala sa akin, may nagaalaga..

[iamtsina]

nagpapaka-busy. =)

[young_maiden]

1 year and 2 months na ako single. puro aral na lang inaatupag ko. hindi na nga ako nagkaka-crush man lang. pakiramdam ko manhid na ako. hindi na talaga ako kinikilig. parang bato na ako.

[damen]

When I'm at work, I work, work and work. When I'm at home, BURLOGS!!! that's how I handle my being single

[missreese]

food trip ginagawa ko sa ngayon... =) and dating with my malaysian friend =) ngayon naeenjoy ko kasi wala masyado pressure, di  ako nagiging paranoid.. hehe

[BDV]

Enjoy lang. I put premium to myself. I pamper myself and make sure I will always put myself on top of everything. I have to learn how to please myself first before I can start working to please someone.

[@pichness@]

It's hard. I don't wanna sound like a pathetic woman but I feel that even though I'm so much occupied with lots of work to do (I have office work and home-based work as part time), at the end of the day I still whine why am I still single for almost 3-1/2 years. It's hurting me...

To answer the question, I handle singlehood sadly. I mean, nagseself-pity ako. I'm also doing my hobbies like going out of town pero iba talaga, may calling na ako ng marriage life but it seems the right man isn't knocking my door yet..

[OD]

^^couldnt be more true than that. I also realized that this late. We have to learn how to really love and accept ourselves first before we can accept and let someone in to our lives. Coz if we do not, we end up being unfair to ourselves and the other person.

[graezieylicious]

Sometimes i feel Im alone, pero SINGLE ROCKS! I love being single, shopping with friends and Im busy establishing my career. Im taking up law and i really freaking want it...so i have to focus and concentrate. So sorry guys haha..

[bubuli]

2yrs+ nako single and i enjoy it make your self [textspeak!] to for get your past relationship.

[bubuli]

2yrs+ nako single and i enjoy it make your self [textspeak!] to for get your past relationship.

[alt+f4]

Simple just being happy by enjoying life to it's fullest. Keeping in touch with girlbarkadas and some sort of guys na rin so that di ko mafeel masyado ang loneliness, thinking about how to make my dream come true and putting lot's of plans for me and my family. Work work!

[purple_rain0721]

i bond with my family and friends.  being single doesn't mean being alone and lonely.  when i got brokenhearted, i turned to my family and friends.  every time may lakad join kung join ako palagi.  now my relationship with my family and friends is better than ever.  you lose some, you gain some. 

i am also focusing on myself and my dreams.  they've been in the back seat for so long.  it's me, myself and i this time. 

[deliciously_ridiculous]

enjoy lang with my friends. "if you have wonderful girl friends... who needs a boyfriend?" sabi nga ng fb status ko hehe

[angeleigh]

True yung sabi ninyo na friends and family naman ngayon ang focus. My relationship with my family, specially with my mom vastly improved. Ngayon, i can talk to her about how i feel, specially my fears. Dati kasi, i never talk to her about my problems, kasi mostly are about my ex. Ayoko naman na sumama ang tingin niya sa ex ko. Ngayon, since wala na akong pinoprotektahan, mas open na ako magkwento sa kanya, hindi na guarded yung mga sinasabi ko.

Ang nakakalungkot lang minsan, almost all of my friends are committed. So kapag may gathering, either i bring a date, kung hindi, ako ang magiging taga-bantay ng mga gamit nila, or ng mga kids nila.

Minsan din, kapag gusto ko manood ng sine or kumain sa kung saan, or gusto mo lang ng kalambingan...yun yung mga nakakalungkot.

But anyways, okay naman..getting by...