How do you handle being Single?

[Ladee_16]

being single is a blessing. not everyone gets to enjoy their earnings, spare time, and skills...and im happy to be one

[nightingale]

^i agree. sobrang sarap being single.

[Bubblin]

hello to all the Blessed Singles...let's all have fun.... I love being single - it's all about the freedom.cynical man ako tungkol sa love,realistic naman.I don't believe in fairy tales.

[rlyn27]

happy being single blessedness dahil its my choice..... love love love

[rainbow11]

i'll be celebrating my 2nd yr anniv as single this summer. so far so good.. naaappreciate ko mag-isa. i mean, i spend most of my time with girlfriends, family and myself. wala pa ring nagpaparamdam na guy pero okay lang, di pa rin kasi ako nagsasawa sa "solo" time ko. 

[yellowkitten]

I feel like it's an achievement. Parang, it means i can resist mens' charms and I'm not willing to settle for less than I deserve.

I definitely think it's more of a positive than a negative.

[bella123]

naka auto pilot go with the flow na lang

[fidz]

don't get too serious of being single that made you sadden for being alone, take it as a blessing that gives you more time to beautify and improve yourself.

[BacMook]

True. Time naten itey to beautify ourselves muna para pag dumating na sya para sunduin tayo, good to go na!  LOL.

Eto lang yan eh --- We don't settle for anything less 

[lady_butterfly]

More time for my family, my self and career. I enjoy being single

[missreese]

^
amen amen amen..

i love being single... love love love.. =)

walang problema
walang stress..lol

single = beautiful

[cinnamongirl]

Yup, masaya hassle-free being single, though pagbigyan nyo naman ako mga sis, since di pa ako nagkaroon ng formal relationship with someone haha so I still wonder how is it---not to mention I grow tired sometimes people asking... why I still don't have boyfriend?

Kaya nga I agree with Sis BacMook, "We don't settle for anything less"

[missreese]

^
haha..


love ko pagiging single ko kaso problem eh... loner ako.. konti lang ang friends ko kaya madalas puro dating ang nangyayari..

[BacMook]

Yup, masaya hassle-free being single, though pagbigyan nyo naman ako mga sis, since di pa ako nagkaroon ng formal relationship with someone haha so I still wonder how is it---not to mention I grow tired sometimes people asking... why I still don't have boyfriend?

Kaya nga I agree with Sis BacMook, "We don't settle for anything less"

APIR tayo jan, sis! 



Ako I had 4 ex BF's and lahat yun short-terms lang 
Puro 2mos-3mos. lang. LOL.
Although 18y/o palang naman ako.

Masaya naman ang single.
Pero mas masaya at mas masarap pag may boyfriend 
Naiisip ko narin na what if pumasok na ko sa serious relationship?
What if yung long term na? Wala lang. Gusto ko lang maexperience. Gusto ko malaman yung feeling na antagal tagal nio na ng boyfie mo at sobrang kilala nio na ang isa't isa. Kaso siempre, ang downside nun is pag nagbreak kayo. Kung gano ka naging masaya, mas doble naman nun ang lungkot na mararamdaman mo 

Di ko kasi ugali na mag-effort kapag may bf ako.
Ang katwiran ko lagi is, BABAE AKO.
LOL. Plus, ma-pride kasi ako.

Pero siguro pag nakatapat ako. Titiklop ako!  LOL.

Sa mga single, magpaganda muna tayo sistersss!
 

[cinnamongirl]

^ Sis, haha such enthusiasm ah! 

Uhm ako actually wala pa ako tinawag na bf or can consider as ex, though there are guys I already dated or fling lang... haha with their corresponding codename pa! Ewan ba, I'll just give it some weeks or months next thing you know wala na---madali mawalan ng gana? Inconsistent? Yup... I am all that when it comes to romance, haha though I admit am hopeless romantic at times yet I believe there's much more to life.

Also, I guess I have a commitment issue uhm I refuse to be a fool when it comes to romance, hirap kasi ng part na binigay mo tiwala mo then all you know pinaglalaruan ka lang---and I've known guys as that... easily tempted and insincere... oh well sabi nga nila its a risk, which I totally understand... I just haven't found that someone worthy for me to take risk and give trust to... hay 

I do not grow tired being single, I grow tired as I've said on my last post.. people asking me why I am still single!? Haha

1.) Yung mga friend na excited pa sayo! 
2.) New acquaintance na next thing you'll know either boy or girl tatanong if may bf ka, then di pa makuntento sunod pa nila yung pero nagkaroon ka na? uhm oo nga pala meron pa yung... pang huli.. "bakit? why?" 
3.) yung mga cousins na sabay mo lumalaki seeing them married or have their own stable relationship then mga tito't tita tatanong kelan pakikilala sa 'kin haha

[feelpretty]

^ Sis, haha such enthusiasm ah! 

Uhm ako actually wala pa ako tinawag na bf or can consider as ex, though there are guys I already dated or fling lang... haha with their corresponding codename pa! Ewan ba, I'll just give it some weeks or months next thing you know wala na---madali mawalan ng gana? Inconsistent? Yup... I am all that when it comes to romance, haha though I admit am hopeless romantic at times yet I believe there's much more to life.

Also, I guess I have a commitment issue uhm I refuse to be a fool when it comes to romance, hirap kasi ng part na binigay mo tiwala mo then all you know pinaglalaruan ka lang---and I've known guys as that... easily tempted and insincere... oh well sabi nga nila its a risk, which I totally understand... I just haven't found that someone worthy for me to take risk and give trust to... hay 

I do not grow tired being single, I grow tired as I've said on my last post.. people asking me why I am still single!? Haha

1.) Yung mga friend na excited pa sayo! 
2.) New acquaintance na next thing you'll know either boy or girl tatanong if may bf ka, then di pa makuntento sunod pa nila yung pero nagkaroon ka na? uhm oo nga pala meron pa yung... pang huli.. "bakit? why?" 
3.) yung mga cousins na sabay mo lumalaki seeing them married or have their own stable relationship then mga tito't tita tatanong kelan pakikilala sa 'kin haha

Shoot, ako ba ikaw, o ikaw ba ako? Saktong sakto lahat nang sinabi mo, haha!

Seriously, wala namang masama sa pagiging single. It's just that the society expects a lot from us, lalo na respective families natin. Hirap silang intindihin na being single does not mean we're ALONE and LONELY. Aba, not at all! Nasa tao namn yan eh. If you continue to wallow, wala talagang mangyayari sa yo. 

[BacMook]

I just haven't found that someone worthy for me to take risk and give trust to... hay 

Ganyang-ganyan ako! 
I can relate talaga sa posts mo.


Siguro kung player/heartbreaker lang ako, dami ko na sigurong naging boyfriend.
Kaso hindi ko ugali magpaasa eh. Di ko ma-take na maging sweet sa hindi ko naman type!

I'm sure ganun din kayo. Hindi porket maraming nanliligaw/nagkakagusto eh grab lang ng grab.
I know someone kase na para lang masabing maganda sya at maraming nagkakandarapa sakanya eh YES nalang ng YES 
Wag ganun. Isipin din natin yung feelings ng boys kahit na kadalasan eh hindi nila iniisip yung feelings naten! Chos!

[cinnamongirl]

@Sis feelpretty: Haha yay, thanks for agreeing. Indeed, its not lonely though sometimes it gets so... yet I too think even if you are in a relationship there are times were you still feel alone.

Oo nga wallowing can gain you nothing---uhm somewhat weird mga sis, eventhough I can see my cousins having this stable relationship or even getting married yet I feel no sense of envy... or is just that their partner aren't that hot? haha peace---not to mention some I've known some who go ga-ga over some guy who obviously cheats yet ewan, I can't see myself being that illogical? Huh? Oh well ayaw ko magsalita patapos next thing you know I'll post a "help me!? I can't get over him" thread 

@Sis BacMook: same here, I can't get sweet for someone if am not really into him... you just can't fake it... for the sake na may masabi ka special someone. Siguro kasi if ganon, in the long run you get used to it na di mo na ma identify which is which, its like saying "awesome" about someone and pag dumating na talaga yung totoo "awesome" uhm what other word to use? to maximize or level it up? Just a thought though. 

[rlyn27]

sa case ko nman honestly may nanliligaw sa akin den yung sa tingin ko na guy s  ok nman at love ako at love ko rin cya pero hindi ko talaga mabigay yung boong tiwala ko sa kanila kaya ang ending hindi rin ng work ang relationship.. lalo na pag dumating sa point na minsan d maiwasan na sa mga naging bf ko s talaga gusto prove kung mahal ko talaga sila sa mga bagay na d ko pa kaya gawin lalo na bago pa lang ang relationship...waaaahhhh kaya nga sa tingin ko mas ok na yung maging single muna at happy naman ako kaysa mag regret ako at d end ....ayoko isipin maging desperada ako eh..bahala na mga frens na makukulit ..... kanya buhay lang yan eh....

[boogieston]

i must admit, nakakaingit nga naman makita nag mga happy couples, pero that doesn't mean that you can't be happy right? hey, more time to flirt and party kaya kapag single! if you're not, kailangan mo pang magexplain at magpromise na hindi ka maglilikot sa mga party, pero if you're single, you're free to do whatever you want! haha