Your ideal age to get married

[beatrize zuri]

gusto sana mga 28 kaya lang, napaaga haha! 26 na ko pero i have 3 kids na..haha! excited lang 

[Saint_Sinner]

when i was young, i wanna get married at the age of 25. and i thought i would have that first and last love, a happily ever after story.


but i'm already 23 at ni wala akong lovelife. at imposible na yung maikasal ako ng 25 so i moved it ng 28. sana naman by that time or kahit pag nag 25 ako sana magka boyfriend nako.

[xRylaine]

i wanna get married at the age of 27, basta before ako mag.30..
gusto ko stable muna ko, okay yung career at matapos yung masteral..:>

medyo OT: naalala ko sinasabi ng mga professors ko samin..
dapat may boyfriend na kayo paggraduate niyo..tapos ineencourage na kami mag-asawa by the age of 24, dahil uso ang single blessedness sa profession namin (teacher)..x)

[sixteen16]

35-40.. hehe..

[marge070407]

I want sana 25 kaso 29 na ako and still single with no hookups and lovelife at all so goodluck to me baka mga 50 na

[patchi2012]

during highschool dream age ko 26, but when i turned 25, feels like i'm just starting up, so i change it to 30, and i did, got married 8mos after i turned 30:)

[mischa04]

i wanna get married at the age of 27, basta before ako mag.30..
gusto ko stable muna ko, okay yung career at matapos yung masteral..:>

medyo OT: naalala ko sinasabi ng mga professors ko samin..
dapat may boyfriend na kayo paggraduate niyo..tapos ineencourage na kami mag-asawa by the age of 24, dahil uso ang single blessedness sa profession namin (teacher)..x)

Sis sinabi din ng professors ko dati yan, dapat daw may bf na bago magstart ng teaching career kasi pag nauna daw ang career kesa lovelife eh malamang magiging matandang dalaga lalo na pag naattach na daw sa mga students..hehe..kaya nga daw maraming single na teachers. Pero di ko inintindi yun kasi ayoko naman magturo..haha.

[jhenpretty]

Para sa akin walang ideal age, pero ideal status or condition in life siguro ang dapat iconsider when facing a married life. Sa hirap ng buhay ngayon dapat talaga bago magkaroon ng asawa at mga anak dapat meron na kayong napundar na bahay at lupa pati na din mga gamit.. Oo mahirap to pero siguro bago dapat ikasal meron na nito para hindi kayo mamroblema na wala kayong bahay at matirahan dahil hindi pa kayo nakapagpundar. lalo na siguro kung hindi mo gustong makisama sa iba maganda talaga ang may sariling bahay at lupa.. Dapat din handa na kayong harapin ang mga problema na darating sa buhay niyo.. Dapat emotionally prepared ka na talaga..Yung hindi ka lang iiyak, dapat alam mo iyong dapat gawin sa bawat situation at problema na dumating sa inyo.. Hindi lahat ng love story parang fairy tale.. Dapat din sawa ka na talaga sa pagiging single para hindi mo pagsisisihan na nag-asawa ka na.. Dapat din alam mo na kung ano at paano ang maging isang mabuting asawa at ina ng mga anak mo.. Dapat din meron na kayong stable job and savings para sa pagsisimula ng sariling pamilya.. maganda talaga na handang handa na talaga kayong pareho.. Dapat mapag-usapan niyo na bilang future married couple yung mga plano niyo at kung ano ano ang gusto niyong mangyari  kapag kasal na kayo at magkasama na.. Dapat din meron kayong magandang pinagsamahan at nagkakaintindihan kayo.. Alam dapat ng isa't isa kung ano ano ang mga gusto at hindi gusto ng bawat isa.. Pati na din yung mga ugali ng isat isa na positive at negative alam din dapat ng isat isa at alam niyo rin kung pano mag-aadjust o paano mo siya iintindihin at pagpapasensyaha.. Dapat din nakaestablish na kayo ng maayos na communication sa isa't isa kasi napakahalaga nun sa mag-asawa. Gusto kong ishare to para makatulong ako sa fellow sisses natin dito sa GT. I hope this helps.. ^_^

[sixteen16]

super like ko yung pinost mo sis jhenpretty.. sobrang tama.. 28 na ko at feeling ko talaga sobrang hindi pa ko ready.. gusto ko kasi mauna ang house and lot, business.. ang hirap naman ng may anak na kyo tsaka magpupundar ng bahay, etc. panigurado d na maiisip yun kasi nakafocus na sa anak. napag-uusapan naman nmen yun. ako na nga lang ang single sa barkada ko, ganun din si bf.. wala kami care kahit lagi kami niloloko na baog daw ako/sya.. ang importante lagi kami nag-uusap kung ano ang makakabuti sa amin. communication is important..

[jhenpretty]

Thanks sis sixteen16.. Okay lang yan sis kayo lang naman dalawa ang nakakaalam kung ano ang mga plano niyo.. Kapag kasi prepared na kayo mababawasan yung mga problema na pwedeng dumating sa inyo as future married couple.. Good luck sis.. ^_^

[devilish_einjel]

pag pareho na kaming stable ni future hubby ko pag 26 na ako.. go.. 

[madhez]

age 26-28  .. 27 na ko next year, may isang taon pa..

[cinco girl]

For me, siguro 4 years after I finish my graduate studies. Will be 32 by then.

[maldita29]

mine is 27. i got married 21 days before my 27th birthday. ;-)

[kawen]

When I was in college, I thought of getting married at 25 - ideal age.
Well now I'm 28 and single, parang hopeless.. kung mangyayari pa 'to.

[lizziebare]

^Ako naman sis 27 ang ideal age ko pero 29 na ko pero wala pa rin.

 

during my teen years, i set to get married at 27-30 years old. but when that year of my age came, i never noticed it na and still enjoying my career. at age 35 i told myself that marriage is way beyond na hehe and started to plan what to do in life as i grow more older as single. till one day at age 39, i woked up and realized that i am about to marry a wonderful guy i ever met. no regrets. sometimes, good things  really happen in a snap without plans. its a rule from GOd. He gave us things we thought we never wanted and need that makes us happy. He is the one who plans for us.

I will always think of your story sis everytime loneliness and hopelessness strike in.

[jtansanco]

I've been thinking about this since way back my college days and made my own timeline:

Age 21-24 -- Find my career path and get out of the quarter-life crisis
Age 25-27 -- Find a girlfriend
Age 28-30 -- Get married

I'm 24 now. I'm expecting my business to go full blast by next year in time for Phase Two of my plan. Only problem is, I still have no prospect. I've gone to dates but I seem to get rejected by the girls I like. I have a feeling this is going to be a long road to 30 for me but I guess I have to stick and trust my plan.

[fidz]

don't be in a rush guys. enjoy life, it will just come unexpectedly. have faith and seek for guidance for whatever you do.

mahirap din kasi kung pipilitin nyo, maraming broken marriages. stablish yourself first, God has a plan for you. No matter if you stay single or get married soon, as long as you enjoy life and guilt free, you will be rewarded.

[choco_monster]

25 sana but i'm turning 28 already and still single.

[Chinito]

There's no ideal age to get married; only ideal time.