^ buti pa kayo mga sis LOL, iba talaga pag elite eh.. Kusang iga-grant kasi yan ng JP embassy eh, lalabas na lang yung passport mo w/ visa na.. Hindi ka naman mamimili o mag-rerequest for 15 o 90 days, bawal yun..
Kung na-grant ka ng 90days, eh di super ok ka nga sa embassy.. O baka pang 10x na tour nyo na yun (malamang nasa tamang edad ka na din para maka-afford ng paulit-ulit na tour sa Japan), meaning, more than a million peso na ang na-spend nyo sa bansa nila (w/c is good para sa economy nila)..
Kaya siguro you get "extra-ordinary treatment"
Pang elite lang talaga at para lang sa mga nasa right age na, tipong donya o don na, nasa mid na ng maganda at stable na pamumuhay, tapos na sa "pag-uumpisa".. Pag young naman, tipong anak ng donya o don (rich kid,heredero/heredera) -- Sarap naman ng ganun, you guys are so lucky!
--- I know some family friends living in Japan, more than 2 yrs na sila don, pero never pa naka-pasok ng DisneyLand, DisneySea o never pa naka-vacay sa Osaka to try Universal Studio.. To think eh, dun na sila naka-tira.. They're working kasi.. You can "never" survive sa Japan kung di mo seseryosohin ang pagta-trabaho (both immigrants and locals)
Parang sa USA lang din yan.. My classmate in HS (26yo,single) is always complaining to us (whenever we chat online) na she's not seeing her parents that often anymore.. Pero they're all living in the same house (mom/dad nya + sya) Nagkikita na lang sila pag sunday (mama's girl pa naman yun, only child eh).. Kung minsan hindi pa, kasi tulog sya maghapon ng sunday dahil gumimik/nag-party the other night (since subsob sa work the whole week, sa clubbing nakakapag-enjoy sya kahit once a week lang daw, para ma-enjoy din naman nya ang buhay).. She don't have any other option but to work endlessly, currently she have 1 full time job and 1 part-time.. Sabi nga nya kasi samin: She pays for her own sh*t , kaya di pede hindi mag-trabaho.. At kung di sya mag-work, ma-dead sya sa pagka-bored since lahat ng kapamilya nila at buong neighborhood eh working talaga.. So wala syang mkaka-chikahan pag daytime..
She always thinks na parang they just moved in to the states para lang maging subsob sa trabaho.. They're currently paying kasi for their newly bought house and lot (suburb), under loan kaya tulong-tulong sa gastos.. Kaya kung sya daw papiliin mas gusto nya sa pinas ulit tumira, kahit simple lang buhay, hindi masyadong stressed out, mas masaya mas balanced ang buhay.. Pero when she thinks of her future children/family once mag-asawa na sya, mas gusto naman nya sa states hehe.. Ang gulo
