Naiinggit ba kayo, kahit konti, sa ibang couples?

[alice_alice]

Hinde na, kahit LDR pa kame mas napatunayan ko na even distance can't get in the way of what we have.
May moments na maiisip ko sana andito siya sa Pinas pero kaya siya andon sa ibang bansa eh para rin naman sa future namen so we can live comfortably so dapat ba ako mainggit? Naaaaah.

[nixiquita]

yes sometimes. siyempre may kanya kanyang flaws ang relationship, and may kanya kanyang shortcoming ang bawat partner. minsan nakakainggit vut nireremind ko nalang self ko na i dont know the whole story of the other couple. maybe im just seeing the good side or the happy moments. and idk what happens behind closed doors. maybe mas malala pa sila magaway or something. so in the end, im just happy and thankful with my own relationship with my bf. it may not always be just smiles and laughter.. but atleast, im happy. were happy

[simang]

Eto yung reason kung bakit hindi ako naiinggit sa ibang couples:

"When your friends complain about their significant others or the guys they've gone out with, you get kind of quiet because you don't have much to contribute. You don't want to brag, but you just don't have to deal with any of that nonsense because your significant other is great to you."

Story of my life.

[zarazan]

I just realized this now. I think I am somewhat jealous of couples who have MUTUAL FRIENDS. Yung common set of barkada. Hindi man to basehan na magiging mas succesful ang relationship, iba parin pag may common friends talaga.

Kilala naman ng boyfriend ko friends ko and I know his naman. Pero saktong friends lang. Iba parin kasi yung flow ng usapan pag kabarkadahan talaga. So what happens is that may silent moments pag kasama ko friends niya, and siya sa akin. Medyo shy type ba. Alam niyo yun?

Not really a big issue, random thought. Thankful for our relationship nonetheless.

[MissChievous]

^ I know right. The relationship between my bf and I flourished through this one set of barkada. And no, I don't get jealous of other couples because he is great great great.

[summer88]

BIG YES....lalo na kapag sobrang pinagmamalaki nun guy yun gf nya o wifey nya sa lahat ng mga kasama nya.

[x-y]

Yes. Namimiss ko yung may kakwentuhan ako  everytime uuwi ako from work. Yun may nagaask kamusta araw ko. Basta yung may companion.

[sugardrop]

No. Inggit sa other couples would keep you from appreciating what you have and you'll just end up yearning for what you don't have in your relationship.

[Girltalker2]

No. Inggit sa other couples would keep you from appreciating what you have and you'll just end up yearning for what you don't have in your relationship.

Minsan nga, worse, kasi akala mo masaya yung ibang couples, so inggit na inggit ka, yun naman pala eh babaero din pala yung lalaki.

When I was struggling with my marriage, I always avoid couples who I think were happy. Little did I know they have their own struggles too. Then as I share my story to others, ang dami rin pala ng may experience na naloko. Akala ko ako lang.

Kaya ngayon, kapag nakakakita ako ng akala ko happy, lalo na if the wife is so mayabang pa about her hubby pero hubby nya tahimik lang, feeling ko lang nasa loob ng kulo ang asawa nya na clueless pa sya na may tinatago iyan. Of course it does not mean na naexperience ko sa marriage ko eh na e-experience din ng iba, pero sa stats ngayon, it is more likely.

So now that I am free, I just mind my own business. I make my own destiny. I want to be happy and therefore I will be happy, regardless of my surroundings.

[sugardrop]

^
Exactly. We only see the "happiness" in others and little do we know that they could be struggling with something that could be worse than that of our own.

Bottomline is wag mainggit sa other couples. Mamaya for show lang pala yun to protect themselves from being tagged as failures or unsuccessful with their married lives or relationships. No one wants to be called that way. In other words, why would you publicize your dirty laundry?

There was a time na nainggit ako sa other couples who can go out as much as they want. Pero naisip ko, he is doing his best to see me as often as he can and gumagawa ng paraan to see me kahit umabot sa point na he has to call his ex and had her go to his house para bantayan yung kids nila just to be with me. When that happened, I realized na I should appreciate what we have. Kasi he never fails to assure me even though hindi kami araw-araw magkita.

[lirpa]

Yes, naiinggit ako sa mga couples na successful ang lalaki at nakakapagprovide sa wife nila.

[natlevi]

Ako naiinggit sa mga affectionate and intimate na couples. Di kasi sweet si bf e.
tsaka parang ayaw nyang hinahawakan sya.

[Cessiechu]

Naiirita ako sa mga OA na couples. Like ginagawang park yung mall. Gusto ko na sumigaw ng "get a room" Hahaha!

Pero I admit, I miss my bf kasi seaman siya. So most the time mag isa ako or with my girlfriends kapag lumalabas. Pero okay lang kase deep within me, alam ko yung saken pang tipong forever, so no reason naman na talagang mainggit

[Eunoia]

Yes. Wala kase ako mapagkwentuhan ng buong araw ko. Yun may handang makinig even the silliest kwentos.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

not really, wala na akong napapansin pang iba eversince naging kami ni bf 

although our relationship is not perfect and all, we dont even see each other everday but i'm always thankful of what we have and we make do and cope and manage the rocky parts. 

[Girltalker2]

Yes, naiinggit ako sa mga couples na successful ang lalaki at nakakapagprovide sa wife nila.

Don't be.  Ang lalaking may pera mas malapit sa temptation. I used to be one kaya may babae din ang ex ko kasi may pera sya.

[ajcruz]

yes, like:
zoren to carmina's wedding surprise
a sis here who gets married yearly, hayz
sisses here who are sahm that their family income are enough to sustain them and focus on hubby and children
- I find their hubby so sweet that would exert effort and money for their wives to be happy treating them as their queen 

[krystalB]

Hindi kasi masaya naman kami ng BF ko nagagawa namin yung mga gusto namin ng parehas kami masaya

[wildorchid]

I really admire chivalrous guys pero i want mine to be brusko, lalakeng lalake. Yan nga nakuha ko, as in. Hehe kaya no mga sis, di ako naiinggit. Magaan lang yun relationship namin.. tamang timpla lang, di nakakasawa

[Miss.Pancake]

Ako sobra. Pero it amazes me kung pano nila nagagawa at namamaintain yun healthy relationship.