Naexperience nyo n ba makunan or miscarriage?

[simpleemie]

Nung d&c ko katapat ng room ko ay nursery.. kamusta naman yun, sumilip ako nung viweing time.. umiyak lang ako ng wagas

[kim28]

^ naku sis ganyan din ako sa recovery room sa chinese gen rinig na rinig ko mga iyak nf baby na bagong panganak.  nakakalungkot talaga

[icedtallcoffee]

not sure if ganun sa lahat ng hospital, yung recovery room ng mmc, sama-sama lahat ng na D&C, na-CS, and normal delivery. So, I'm there -- separated with just curtains with other moms holding their babies. E nagising ako agad from the sedative. I wanted to get out of there asap!

[prettygretchen]

Hi sissies,

Delayed na ko mga 45days hindi ko naman inaasahan buntis ako eh natapilok ako kanina. As in double sprain una balakang ko, before ako uminom ng any pain reliever nag pa bili ako sa husband ko PT very very faint ang lines na dalawa.

Then I rest kasi sobrang sakit ng ankle ko pag gising ko nag CR ako may vaginal bleeding na ko mild lang naman so nag pabili ako ng PT again nag negative naman na. Ngayon i feel cramps sa puson ko.

Tanong ko lang pag miscarriage ba ng ganito ay need raspa o hayaan duguin? Kailangan ko pa ba nag pa check up or hintayin ko nlng duguin ako ng bongga.

[annamarie88]

^so sorry to hear that, sis. Alam mo there are OBs talaga automatic raspa gusto pag nakunan. May mga magsasabi pa na kesyo baka mainfect ka, magkafever ekek. Pero there are better OBs (better for me kasi ayoko iraspa, i want natural) na sabihin syo to wait it out kasi kusa talaga yan lalabas kahit na matagal pa. Hindi ka naman maiinfect because sarado yan. Depends syo sis if you want magpa d&c or hintayin mo.

[contala]

Hi sis prettygretchen,depende kasi yan kung ilang weeks na,sakin 5 weeks,pinaultrasound ako ng OB ko,then sabi niya sakin hindi na daw ako kailangang iraspa kasi manipis na daw,kusang lalabas na daw lahat kasi maliit pa naman pero kung fetus na siya ang alam ko irerequired ka talaga iraspa,ako din ayaw ko maraspa mabuti nlng ganon nangyari,imagine the emotional pain tapos you really need to undergo those procedure,ang hirap talaga ng kalagayan ng babae.but to be sure in your case sis pacheck up ka nlng sa OB.

[premiemommy]

sobrang hirap mawalan ng anak.. 👼🏻👶🏼
ako po 8mos naipaanak kopa sa normal delivery .. pero 2days iniwan din nya ko.. 😭😭

[airwaterfire]

^so sorry to hear that, sis. Alam mo there are OBs talaga automatic raspa gusto pag nakunan. May mga magsasabi pa na kesyo baka mainfect ka, magkafever ekek. Pero there are better OBs (better for me kasi ayoko iraspa, i want natural) na sabihin syo to wait it out kasi kusa talaga yan lalabas kahit na matagal pa. Hindi ka naman maiinfect because sarado yan. Depends syo sis if you want magpa d&c or hintayin mo.

True. Some OBs gusto ng raspa or suggest agad ng raspa kasi mas malaki makikita nila(like normal birth rate ng pf)-ito ay para sa less than 3 months pa lang ha. Sabi nga ng OB ko kusa siyang lalabas kasi gagawa ng paraan ang ating katawan para ma expel ang fetus kasi naging foreign body na siya sa katawan natin dahil patay na siya. In a span of 4 weeks. Tapos ultrasound na if manipis na ang lining ng uterus.

Although may mga cases din need ng raspa after normal delivery dahil hindi nakalabas lahat(sobrang nakadikit ang placenta-resulta ng pampakapit na iniinom at sobrang kapal pa ng lining). Kaya nga if mag spotting, mas maganda ultrasound na muna tsaka inom ng gamot.

[prettygretchen]

Okay naman ako hindi ako nag pa check up pero so far hindi naman ako nilalagnat sa ngayon hehe

[icedtallcoffee]

^^ sakin ganun. I opted to wait. Tapos medical management. Di talaga lumabas lahat. In the end naraspa pa din ako, tapos necrotic tissue na (sorry TMI).

[wahmjunkie2]

This is a long post about my recent mc so my apologies.

It was supposed to be our first. Here in the US, most obs prefer to see you on your 8th week for your first prenatal appt. The scheduler assumed I was on regular cycle and set me up 2 weeks earlier. Partly my fault because I didn't tell her that I know approximately what day I conceived.

On the first appt, the fetus measured 6w1d. We heard the heartbeat and saw it the first time via vaginal ultrasound. The OB wanted to see me again on my 8th week, we went on what was supposed to be my 9th week. She used an abdominal u/s first, then switched to the vaginal. Found out there was no heartbeat and it only measured 6w4d.

I was immediately sent to radiology for viability test and confirmed I miscarried. Ob called the next day advising me of steps to take. I decided the night before that I wanted a D&C since I was not experiencing any pain and spotting at all,

D&C was done a week after (8/28/15), 4 weeks of no indication that I was going to naturally pass. The procedure was quick, 10-20 mins perhaps. I was under local anesthesia, 2 shots in the cervix. An hour before that, I took 1 antibiotics and 2 Norco, then 1 ativan while OB was preparing her instruments.

I thought a had a high tolerance for pain but I was wrong. I let out 2 cusses while OB was vacuuming the tissues out. When it was done, I stayed in the room for another 10 mins to rest, now with hubby inside then got dressed, walked out. Everything happened in a span of 30 minutes or less.

That night, I cried my heart out. Hubby never let go of me all night. He wanted this more even before we were not yet married. Minsan napapaisip ka rin bakit yun iba unplanned pero they go on to have healthy pregnancies. Ikaw na gustong-gusto, ikaw un mawwalan.

I still am in the grieving period. I guess we'll try after 2 or 3 mos. I am 32, hubby's 35, there's not much time left. We're waiting for the pathology report. This time, magpapaalaga na ko sa OB for sure.


Tips:
If you really want to get pregnant, I highly recommend to have tests done on you and your partner first to make sure everything is ready for the baby. HAd I known, I would have gone to an OB first. Mas mahirap kasi na saka mo lang malalaman na may health concerns ka pala kapag buntis na and there's a need to resolve it, or else...

Buy ovulation test kits. We used Clearblue, very accurate. We did the deed once and tested positive,

[wahmjunkie2]

Cont,

For women who have negative RH or blood types such as B-, A-, and so on, check if you have developed an antibody. Ask for an antibody screen test. This is one of the reasons why miscarriages happen. Please read more about Rhesus factor and pregnancy.

[simpleemie]

agree. yung iba unplanned, and i know someone uminom ng gamot para malaglag pero ayun mag 1 year old na yung bata at normal. Pero tayo na planned, with vitamins at check up nami miscarriage pa.

[icedtallcoffee]

^ I can relate to this, too. As soon as I found out I was pregnant, I quit coffee agad. Cold turkey! I bought folic acid even before I went to the OB. I felt like I did everything "right" (my best, at the very least). It's even more annoying when I hear comments like "stressed ka kasi" or whatever else that when you read between the lines, it's as if ikaw yung may kasalanan why the miscarriage happened. I tried not to feel bitter when I saw a pregnant woman smoking. I mean, WTGDF!!!

Pero ganun talaga.

[fionaapple]

not sure if ganun sa lahat ng hospital, yung recovery room ng mmc, sama-sama lahat ng na D&C, na-CS, and normal delivery. So, I'm there -- separated with just curtains with other moms holding their babies. E nagising ako agad from the sedative. I wanted to get out of there asap!

^ganito din experience ko nung D&C ko. Yung room ko semi private.3 kami sa isang room. Separated by accordion doors. Yung dalawang kasama ko mga nanganak na mommies. Andun pa relatives nung isa, isang barangay sila ang ingay ingAy pa. They were very excited about the mommy who is still giving birth at the delivery room. They were talking and joking around very loudly and saying things like: sino kaya kamukha? Ang cute cute siguro niya?

Behind my accordion doors, I cried. Especially when they started gushing when they newborn was brought inside the room.

Sana hindi ganun ang policies sa hospitals. Hindi nila alam gaano kasakit makunan.

The visiting relatives were so noisy we had to ask the nurse to ask them to tone down their voices.

[bk]

I have something to share...I'm pregnant again! Yehey! If you'll backtrack my posts, nagpost ako dito nun July about my miscarriage. Tapos ngayon preggy na ulit. So sa mga sis na nawalan ng baby, wag mag-alala dahil pwede pa naman makagawa ulit. Siempre merong grieving process pa rin pero there's always sunshine after the rain.

I just have this fear na baka maulit yung nangyari (knock on wood). Super traumatic. Based on my calculation, 3 wks preggy pa lang ako. Naka 2 positive PTs na ko at til now wala pa period ko plus I can feel my boobs na medyo ouchie na just like when I was pregnant in May. I'm really praying and hoping na maging ok na pregnancy ko this time.

[fionaapple]

I have something to share...I'm pregnant again! Yehey! If you'll backtrack my posts, nagpost ako dito nun July about my miscarriage. Tapos ngayon preggy na ulit. So sa mga sis na nawalan ng baby, wag mag-alala dahil pwede pa naman makagawa ulit. Siempre merong grieving process pa rin pero there's always sunshine after the rain.

I just have this fear na baka maulit yung nangyari (knock on wood). Super traumatic. Based on my calculation, 3 wks preggy pa lang ako. Naka 2 positive PTs na ko at til now wala pa period ko plus I can feel my boobs na medyo ouchie na just like when I was pregnant in May. I'm really praying and hoping na maging ok na pregnancy ko this time.

same situation sis, D&C last April 28. tapos ngayon almost 10 weeks pregnant na ako.

[simpleemie]

happy sa mga na bless ulit.. doble ingat mga sis. i hope ako din sa tamang panahon God knows naman when Im ready na.

[emmylou]

I experienced miscarriage at 17 weeks of AOG last Nov 12, 2007. I was brought to the hospital because my bag of waters broke. Pinaglabor pa nila ako ng 7 hours. Masakit kasi lumabas siya ng buhay. Nakita ko pa na kumakaway siya. Siguro he was saying goodbye to mama. Sakit noon. He is now an angel baby for 8 years by November. I miss him terribly. Thank God I was given a rainbow baby after 3 years.

[krissy_629]

^im so sorry to hear that sis. *hugs*