Do you ask your BF about his Exes?

[Starliiight]

nung friends pa lang kami natanong ko na siya about his ex's. tyaka makikita mo rin kasi yung character nung guy based sa comments niya about his ex's eh. kung nirerespeto ba niya, or kung aaminin ba niya yung mga naging kasalanan niya, etc.

[Frozen Toes]

^ That is sooo true.

[Shery]

i did.. nasaktan lang ako.haha

[ladee_s]

yes but syempre casually lang

[menice]

alam nyo you can ask your bf/gf about their exes. pero before nyo gawin nyo make sure na lahat ng maririnig/malalaman nyo hindi makakagulo sa current situation nyo.

1. wag maging insecure. kung nagawa na ng ex nya, lagpasan mo yung nagawa nila.
2. isipin mo na tapos na yon, past na. ikaw ang present.

di maiiwasan na mahurt tayo pag nagkwento sila, pero you need to open your mind, back to number 2. ganon lang.

Mas ok na magkwento na siya now na magGF/BF pa lang para atleast tanggap mo siya ng buong buo pati past nya, tama?

[hairt mini]

I do..

[ausie]

i did this before the guy said he doesn't like to talk about his exes. before he was giving tidbits but after awhile nagalit saken. sabi hindi na dapat tinatanong yun mas importante daw yung ngayon.

[lilmissprettydiva]

yes. we're both being honest on our past relationships. Saka daw para di ako clueless just in case lumabas kami with his friends na kilala yung ex nya eh aware ako

[Frozen Toes]

^ I like how your boyfriend thinks. Congrats.

[lilmissprettydiva]

^ thanks sis.

I guess my bf is more open minded than me. It's not easy at first kasi you keep on wondering about their past. Pero sabi nga ni bf, past is past. Actually I already met his ex twice dahil nga sa mga dinners or get togethers with their common friends. At first it was really awkward pero he did introduced me with his ex. Good thing yung ex nya eh marunong din lumugar saka mabait naman tapos yung mga common friends nila gusto rin na maging friends din kami ng ex nya, well at least civil

[annika]

yes then pagkatapos niya ikwento lahat aawayin ko siya with matching detective mode kung may communication pa ba sila. ..

[angel.of.mine]

yes, pero ako din naiinis haha especially when i asked him "minahal mo?!?" and his answer is "yes" ouch.

[lilmissprettydiva]

^ past tense naman yun sis. Minahal naman yung term nya, di naman mahal pa nya.

Kahit naman ako when I hear it from my bf about his ex, sinasabi naman nya yung totoo. Hindi naman daw nya magiging GF yun kung walang love na kasama, nagkataon lang di nag work out.

Isipin nalang natin na tayo ang present and future

[rychel07]

i didn't have to ask, she told me all about them before naging kami.

[Roxyisthename]

Yes yes yes.
Lagi lagi.
Para alam ko lang. Pero sila hindi nagtatanong. Ayoko pag usapan. Spell UNFAIR. 

[iishakheisha]

i always ask for stories nung sila pa (but that was histooory. i mean several years ago). then i even ask for pictures, there was his 3rd year class picture with a dedication from his ex saying "I love you so much Baby" at the back, i always tease him since then. haha, but it never came out to the point na we would have a conflict because of those, he always tell me that he didn't felt much LOOOVE before as he is now(with me). awwww   

[vanz20]

i knew all his exes and their past relationship. tropa nya kasi ako before naging kami, so yung ibang college friends nya kapag nagbobonding kami, medyo ingat magbanggit tungkol sa mga ex nya, ang di nila alam e alam ko lahat hahaha , they think im super cool na gf kasi di daw ako nagseselos sa mga ex nya. my point is they became part of him di mu maalis na marelate yun sa kanya somehow

[pink_stardust]

yes, syempre curious.

kaso one time, sobrang nagselos ako nung may nalaman akong info, nagalit ako sa kanya. LOL

pero he was really patient with me we talked that same night, and made up.

[shopaholic18]

yung last one lang, irrelevant kasi yung iba, the last ex he's been ayun, at first nagselos ako pero eventually na work out ko pagseselos ko sa girl na yun, siguro its helped na inassure ako ni bf, pero frankly speaking me and his ex are opposite, he thought the ex was the girl he wanted to be with not until pinakita na niya tunay niyang kulay, nagpanggap lang pala siya, now my bf sees in me the things he always wanted in a girl and we're both happy and contented with what we have now.

[Poleng]

well he opened it up, good friends kasi kami even before we became us. and well LDR kami ngayon what sucks pa is his ex is his neighbor. (as in tapat lang ng bahay nila) what hurts the most is when they split up, it wasn't exactly the "i hate you, you hurt me, i don't ever wanna see your face again scenario", they were really into each other pa, kaso complicated kasi eh. tapos he had a child w. her (pina adopt nila)

he moved naman to an apartment like 45mins away from his parents/old place pero yun nga when he visits his parents, medyo napaparanoid ako. kasi he was really in love w. her. minsan out of nowhere nakwe-kwento nya sakin, i don't rage when he does. i just listen quietly. pero yun matagal na silang wala and married na si girl. torture parin /sigh