Do you ask your BF about his Exes?

[twinkletown]

i did....masakit...may selos factor..at yun nga naging problem din namin eventually.

[chicgurl]

oh yes haha mala KRIS AQUINO ako eh.. pwede nga ata akong pumasa na replacement niya sa pagiging matanong hehe joke! in fairness kay boyfie sinasabi lahat. never naman ako nagselos sa ex niya BF is very honest about his exes..naging issue namin dati [textspeak!] ex niya although di naman ako nagalit talaga siya pa nga ang super sorry kasi the girl attended the birthday party of his mom eh ang alam niya di naman invited yun eh ang sabi nung girl ininvite daw siya so dalawa kaming andun. si girl super inis sakin until now kala niya kasi ako ang nangugulo sa kanya dati bintangera hehe joke.. bakit ko naman siya guguluhin diba? hehe gusto ko nga sana ok kami eh kaso siya naman may ayaw. hehe

[a_y_e_n]

ako din, lam ko about his exes. nagpakwento ako eh. sa akin wala naman selos factor, ako naman kase pinakamatagal niya tsaka pakakasalan in a few days pero di ko lang talaga matanggap na nakikipag buddy buddy pa sya sa mga yun and vice versa. naiirita talaga ako. parang respeto lang naman diba?

[mermaid668]

Yes I ask.  A lot of times and minsan nanganganak pa yung questions.  I'm not sure though if this is the right thing to do kasi most of the time, it either leaves me feeling bad or ends into a fight

[Shanejewel]

I always ask. Sabi kasi ng close friend ko na guy.  Kung meron daw akong pagseselosan un daw ay ang ex!  Kasi may feelings sila sa isat isa before na kung nagkahiwalay man dahil sa problem pag nagkita or nagkasama may konting spark pa rin run na pwedeng eventually magkabalikan kasi madali lang daw e.. Naninwala naman ako..

[justperfect]

yes. before he answers everything but nung may time na parang nagfeel bad ako never na sya nag eentertain ng mga questions ko about his exes. pinipilit ko na lang sya now to answer pero super tipid na ng mga sagot nya.

[geminilady1984]

YES i really ask. Pero di masyado makwento si bf about his exes kaya as long as malaman ko ang names di ko na pinipilit si boyfi mag-tell why. Kusa na lang ako nag-reresearch on my own. hehe....

[hersmart4ever]

Slightly. Hindi rin ako masyadong interesado.

[hannabishi]

Yes, I do. My motto towards this topic is simple. Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer.

[anir]

no... they just spill it out... though i appreciate the honesty... kesa naman nagipagbesobeso na pala ako sa ex nya di ko alam...

eh kon sinampal ako nun?

[whoammai]

I asked him pero hindi ko na inalam ang names nila... para hindi ako ma-tempt na magresearch tungkol sa mga ex niya. Hahaha. Super curious pa naman ako sa mga ganun. 

[caterpillar-girl]

Well my bf now is a widower. At 32 years old he's already a widower. I can't not know about it as everbody who knows him knows about it. As for his other girlfriends, nope. Don't care. I saw the pics though.  Mas maganda ako. Hehe. Tama nang malaman ko yun. 

[wkt]

i used to, nung before pa naging kami ni husband.  im not really interested about his past kasi i myself was a wild-child once.  enough na for me to know na wala na sila talaga nung ex nya and that was it.

[aishiteru008]

Ako i really ask him kasi gusto ko malaman what kind of person is he before with his exes, pero iniisip niya nagseselos ako everytime i brought this kind of topic.,

[lady_sunscreen]

nope.. pero before we became "we", we're super close friends.. so alam ko na yung history nila in detailed bago pa kami naging kami.. which is for me not advisable siya in some ways, kasi sometimes i compare it the way he react on things before with them and with me  now.. and it is so sad kapag he put more effrot dati kaysa sa kin.. hehe.. pero siyempre hindi ko na ino-open up sa kanya to.. i don't want to make a big deal out of it.. 

[ylisza]

Do you ask your BF about his exes?

no.. hehe! baka ma-hurt lang ako.. alam ko na ang mga exes nya ay a lot better than me.. kuntento na ako na ako ang present nya.. LOL! mamatay na lang sila sa inggit.. tee hee!!

[pumpkin13]

I did. Wala lang, out of curiosity. Gusto ko lang malaman how they started and how they ended para alam ko kung baka ganun din maging ending namin. At least, I could learn from what they've been through. Yun nga lang, I ended up really really jealous, as in ang dami kong naiisip, naiimagine tapos totopakin na ko. So i stopped asking na. I realized if they don't matter to him na, they should not matter to me as well. 

[Frozen Toes]

Yep. I always ask about the exes kapag dating stage pa lang kami. Red alert sakin kapag nagcheat siya on his exes or kapag tinrash talk nya any of them. Kung nagcheat siya dati, pwede nya ulitin sakin. Tapos kung tinrash talk nya, ibig sabihin apektado pa siya.

Ngayon naman, kung magsisinungaling siya about his exes eh magagalit talaga ko kasi hindi nya tanggap sarili nyang past. So how does he expect me na tanggapin yung past nya, di ba?

May kilala ko na during the time na friends pa lang kami, may ex siya na kinukwento madalas. At based sa mga kwento nya eh parang may feelings pa siya. Nastrestess lang ako dahil nung dating na kami, haynako, dineny ng husto ang mga nakwento na nya dati. Nakakabwisit sobra.

[Starlust]

Yes as part of the getting to know you stage. Not naman super poking around for nitty gritty details. It's good to know what went wrong with him and them so di ko ma-repeat haha.

[laviere]

yep. it gives an insight into his personality and relationship IQ. it also helps in determining if he's really over the ex or not