Author Topic: Do you ask your BF about his Exes? (Read 62112 times)

mami violy · « **Reply #40 on:** August 20, 2009, 09:07:24 am »

nagtanong lang ako before me pero yung mga mas nauna pa dun sya na mismo ang nag chikka. yabang

mystella · « **Reply #41 on:** August 20, 2009, 04:01:51 pm »

i dont want to know every single detail of his past.
it's the unnecessary truth that could damage your healthy relationship.

gusto ko lang malamang yung brief summary, like bakit sila naghiwalay and gano katagal. just for the sake of knowing your partner's background. yun lang. pero the smallest details, the intimate moments, i dont wanna know. ever. i dont even know the picturee and / or name e. it's unnecessary info, irrelevant to the present relationship.

mystella · « **Reply #42 on:** August 20, 2009, 04:03:15 pm »

Quote from: angeleigh on August 16, 2009, 09:27:42 pm

As much as possible, NO. Ayoko rin kasi ng may malaman na ikakaselos ko. Kaya lang minsan, hindi mapigilan.

i agree with u!

hapi_prego · « **Reply #43 on:** August 20, 2009, 04:04:54 pm »

yeah, i do a lot

, lalo na pag inaasar ko siya

Chantzy · « **Reply #44 on:** August 20, 2009, 11:04:31 pm »

oh yeah just curious about it, not the intimate part though, he doesn't even want to remember that part cause he regret

tabularasa08 · « **Reply #45 on:** August 21, 2009, 12:49:17 am »

i do.. lahat ng nangyari sa kanya in the past talagang gusto ko malaman.. ayan tuloy, selos na selos ako sa last gf nya kahit he's telling me na wala naman dapat ikaselos kase she belongs to his past.

finally · « **Reply #46 on:** August 22, 2009, 02:41:04 am »

yes! it turns out hindi pala sya nagbago, whatever he did to his exes naransan ko rin laht.

IceAngel_007 · « **Reply #47 on:** August 22, 2009, 02:44:51 am »

yes minsan if nasa mood

bluegintonic · « **Reply #48 on:** August 22, 2009, 03:11:48 am »

Siya na mismo nago-open up...yes may mga details na syempre di ko na dapat malaman (like sexually) and hindi na ako nag-i-insist na malaman.Na nalaman ko rin kalaunan kasi nagkwento na nga rin.Ewan ko,kiss and tell ba pag ganun?

Sobra na yata ang freedom of speech sa aming 2.Hindi naman niya ako ni-require na magkwento din...
Lahat naman ng nalaman ko, he definitely learned from his previous mistakes.Yun naman ang mahalaga.And yes,okay lang sa akin kahit napaka-detailed nung kwento...what's more important eh they belong to his past na.Ako naman ang present and he definitley says mas may future kaming 2.Haay.

IceAngel_007 · « **Reply #49 on:** August 22, 2009, 03:57:35 am »

Quote from: bluegintonic on August 22, 2009, 03:11:48 am

Siya na mismo nago-open up...yes may mga details na syempre di ko na dapat malaman (like sexually) and hindi na ako nag-i-insist na malaman.Na nalaman ko rin kalaunan kasi nagkwento na nga rin.Ewan ko,kiss and tell ba pag ganun? Sobra na yata ang freedom of speech sa aming 2.Hindi naman niya ako ni-require na magkwento din...
Lahat naman ng nalaman ko, he definitely learned from his previous mistakes.Yun naman ang mahalaga.And yes,okay lang sa akin kahit napaka-detailed nung kwento...what's more important eh they belong to his past na.Ako naman ang present and he definitley says mas may future kaming 2.Haay.

ang hirap naman yan sis, i'd rather know certain things pero hindi blow by blow

mald1ta · « **Reply #50 on:** August 22, 2009, 05:16:54 am »

ang hirap pag alam mo din yung intimate moments nya w/ his exes.. kaso sa case ko mei alam ako kasi minsan napagkwentuhan namin about those nung usapang bestfriend kami.. like he used to ask me kasi kung ano daw gusto ng girls and what, while hitting the sack...

kaya nung naging kami at eventually mei anak narin, ang hirap lang minsan nagko-cross sa mind ko yung mga nakwento nya nung hindi pa kami.. minsan nga inaasar ko sya pag nasa mood ako, tas sa huli ako din naaasar... lol

twinkletown · « **Reply #51 on:** August 22, 2009, 05:53:14 am »

ok lang magsabi siya about exes...wag na lang yung intimate details...i dont need to know them, it was their time not mine!

mald1ta · « **Reply #52 on:** August 22, 2009, 06:03:58 am »

^yeah true true.. hayy sana hindi na nya nakwento yun, kaso usapang kaibigan kasi those times eh.. hehe

jellybean0516 · « **Reply #53 on:** August 22, 2009, 06:07:26 am »

we both decided not to talk about it..he doesn't want to rin although he answers me straight naman when i ask. the best thing with him na sobrang naappreciate ko is the way he shared the story with me. tipong indifferent na sya dun sa past girls pero respectful pa rin. hindi kiss and tell.

i know a guy kasi na grabe makapagkuwento about their past girlfriends. kainis! parang mga trophies. sabi ko nga sa kanya nung nanligaw sya, "i don't wanna be one of your trophies."

biancs · « **Reply #54 on:** August 22, 2009, 11:00:36 am »

Mahilig akong mag tanong tapos magseselos. Hehe... Masokista eh

gelei · « **Reply #55 on:** August 22, 2009, 01:27:49 pm »

Quote from: mystella on August 20, 2009, 04:01:51 pm

i dont want to know every single detail of his past.
it's the unnecessary truth that could damage your healthy relationship.

gusto ko lang malamang yung brief summary, like bakit sila naghiwalay and gano katagal. just for the sake of knowing your partner's background. yun lang. pero the smallest details, the intimate moments, i dont wanna know. ever. i dont even know the picturee and / or name e. it's unnecessary info, irrelevant to the present relationship.

very very true!!! kahit alam mong wala na sa kanya, and past is past di mawawala kasi na magseselos ka pa rin minsan.

aquacharly · « **Reply #56 on:** August 22, 2009, 02:03:12 pm »

No.

BUT he expects me to inform him if someone who was an "Ex", a fling, an "interested party", even a "person of interest" -- from my life before him -- should come into our business or personal circles.

I said yes, and I said I expect reciprocity.
He said yes.

Malabo nga naman if eto, may family friend kami, or new entry that he f*cked once upon a time di ba. Tapos he will not say anything, and well.. eventually I will find out coz secrets like these are never forever archived.
But if that person does not enter our circles... eh di nasa "history file"... spare me the details!

babyjapnurse01 · « **Reply #57 on:** August 22, 2009, 04:45:11 pm »

pag may BF,

I dont ask. I dont like digging stuff from the past eh. Coz i know ill just get jealous and be irate na after.

I just respect whatever he had in the past, if the situation calls for it, mapaguusapan, but not like ako ang magoopen ng conversation and would ask about exes and stuff.

Kahit past, masakit pa din, kakaselos eh.

empress · « **Reply #58 on:** August 22, 2009, 05:33:29 pm »

yes -- gusto kong malaman bakit sila nag-break

mkasj_rn · « **Reply #59 on:** August 23, 2009, 05:59:26 pm »

Quote from: biancs on August 22, 2009, 11:00:36 am

Mahilig akong mag tanong tapos magseselos. Hehe... Masokista eh

hahahaha, same here sis!!!ganyan din ako.

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