Naka jackpot ka ba sa hubby or BF mo?

[flipflopz]

what if sometimes u feel like there's something missing.. u expect more from your bf.. although he's really really okay personality aspect etc.. but lacking in some.. na minsan ndi mo sinasadya na nahahanap mo sa iba un missing qualities na un..

I wanted to be satisfied.. but sometimes at the back of my head.. its telling me that i deserve someone better

[jellybean0516]

sis i think that's normal. mahirap talaga mahanap si Mr. Perfect.  i'm not even sure he exists. and even if he does, i don't think we could attain or keep him unless we're Ms. Perfect ourselves.

this is how we know if a guy is really the one for us: when we've learned to love him despite his shortcomings.  and the same goes for him too.  once we've found the guy who would love us and only us for who we are and not go looking for someone "better" then i'd say we really hit jackpot.

[Kady_14]

  Wala naman perfect partner...

I guess swerte lang kami sa isa't-isa. HS BF ko si Hubby.(11 yrs na kami sa Dec)

We fill in each other's gaps and compliment each other:

-Matipid sya - Gastador ako
-Tahimik sya - Maingay ako
-Di ako magaling mg-alaga ng kids - Sya hands-on dad.
-Di sya marunong mgrepair2 sa haus - I learned some from my dad. eldest kasi ako.
-Sweet sya- Ako di masyado showy
-Seloso sya - Ako hindi

So i guess it works both ways. 

[jeck43]

Hindi ako naka-jackpot kay hubby...goodluck mga sis...wag niyo ng pakawalan yan

[tinkerpot]

my hubby was my kabarkada before. sa sobrang comfortable namin sa isa't isa, wala akong naramdaman na "adjustments" sa married life namin. everything is just so perfectly fit. we fight and all pero it's really nice na we're very transparent. walang secrets at all.

[jazzlawyer]

I think almost everyone,  at the start of any relationship or marriage, truly believes she has met her perfect match and/or is the luckiest girl on earth.

But the reality is that people change.
We change with time, and our needs, priorities and preferences change.  Some people outgrow their partners/spouses; some get bored; some just want more....

If we are lucky now,  it is good to pray that both parties change at the same rate and in the same direction... so that the "luck" holds on and on and on and on.

the only constant in this world is Change 


Tanong ko lang: when you say "jackpot" how do you perceive this mga sises? jackpot in a sense sa ugali? like he is faithful gwapo and all? or jackpot when it comes to achievements he has in life? I believe kasi someties you cant have it all but nonetheless, you still think na naka jackpot ka sa hubby or bf mo.

I have an ex kasi i thought naka jackpot ako. He's well-off, responsible and all. A lawyer and ma PR sa tao. Mabait naman siya nung kami. Maalaga. Pero downside? he cheated. another sdownside is hindi siya ganong gwapo (the nerve nga to cheat! just because he has the money?)

I have this suitor na i like naman who is gwapo and has a good track record with relationships. A common friend of ours even vouched for his loyalty and faithfulness when it comes to relationships. And downside nga lang, he has low self-esteem, hindi siya agressive, super mushy to the max that sometimes i couldnt handle it and di siya achiever kasi for him kontento na siya kung ano meron siya. ALthough he lives in the states.

Did i hit the jackpot sa kanilang dalawa? think nalang na kunwari kami pa ni ex when i say jackpot and also think na din na si suitor nanliligaw now after kay ex

[aya_chan]

I'm lucky to have him pero I guess mas lucky siya to have me..LOL. Seriously, we're both happy and blessed to have each other.

[LeeQuid]

yeah.. he's the most patient person i know.. 

[jusette05]

For me, there is no such thing of jackpot when it comes to loving a person. If you really love a person, you must give them unconditional love. Jackpot thing is only a bonus to your life.

[bb]

i think we're blessed to have each other. my friends say he's lucky to have me. and his friends say i'm lucky to have him. so there... good for us. hehe..

[meegan]

Yep. super smart, bait ng husband ko.  we think alike and have the same interests. super good provider and responsible. super happy din kami sa baby namin. kaya we couldn't be happier.

[keisha]

yep, lucky to have him… my hubby loves me so much, kind and responsible though
mas madaming nag sasabi na si hubby ang naka jackpot for having me 

[isha17]

Yes, Gusto ko way of thinking niya, hindi mababaw at hindi makitid utak. =)

[doratheexplorer]

ako,oo he's everything i never thought i could have.. one thing na super thankful ako is [textspeak!] pagiging masunurin nya.. as in..

[starbitee]

yes my boyfie's very supportive of me and sees me as his future wife. I love it when he plans his dreams and future with me in every part of it. surely there are things I don't want about him but we manage to work things out. he very well knows how to listen and when to lower his pride for me.

[LOVEmyLIFE]

I think what "jackpot" means is you compliment each other pretty well like what sis Kady_14 said. No such thing as a perfect partner. It's how you see him/her that makes them suit you perfectly. Wala sa dami ng laman ng bulsa, profession, ugali, itsura. It will always fall how he makes you feel. And dun mo na lang masasabi that "Wow! Jackpot ako ah!"

[ilovefloat]

yes. i am lucky to have him. he gets me. and i can be ME when i'm with him. he's not perfect - but i love all his imperfections. and we're friends. i love that about us. i'm really hoping he's the one na for me. 


He tells me he's luckier. 

[satya]

my hubby always tell me...im lucky to have him daw well totoo naman..hes all i want and need.
but mas lucky sya to have me...naku naman....ganda ko kaya

[smiley327]

yes! but he's also lucky to have me 

[excessive baggage]

My man's not a perfect person, neither am I. But we're perfect for each other.  No relationship is flawless, but honestly, it's just a matter of perspective.

We compliment each other's personality and we fit perfectly like a well-matched jigsaw puzzle.

Therefore, I'm comfortable to say na naka-jackpot ako! 

I can list many of his attributes to justify my luck, but one most important thing that makes me feel like a real winner is that when things get difficult between us (even if it's due to small issues), I always want to let go and ran away from the problem. But he's always the one to chase after me and hold on tighter... always.

Letting me feel I'm loved and needed makes me feel like a true winner having my man!