You and your husband's money

[tink ^-_^]

^^ano un sis, for me parang hindi din tama.. yung money niya ay mapupunta lang sa car?? sis, when you talk to your husband about this, choose your words very carefully and let him know how you feel abt the situation para hindi  kayo mag-away.

[cassiopeia]

[textspeak!] money ni hubby samin tatlo..ako siya at baby namin,,pag may pera ako share ko din sa kanya pero talagang di rin niya pinapakialamanan..extra na namin un ni baby,.,bait sobra din mister ko eh.blessed ako sa kanya.

[twelvth_goddess]

My hubby got his 13th month pay na and I was a bit suprised na he volunteered to give everything to me muna. Sabe ko na lang sa kanya i-deposit muna namin sa savings namin then he can just get it there whenever he needs it.

[GabBeaMariz]

samen naman lahat ng expenses kay hubby  good thing hindi siya nagbibigay sa family niya  wala naman kasi ako work and ayaw niya ko pagtrabahuhin so dito lang ako sa house to take care of our 3 kids then may binigay siyang money saken para magbiz and ok naman dito na ko kumukha ng pambili ng luho ko at para sa anak ko 

[simplemind]

Di nakikialam si hubby sa money ko, but pinakikialaman ko money niya.

Siya nag babudget ng fund namin and  i trust him miski impulsive buyer siya , all my bills and my personal needs siya nagbabayad and he doesn't give me   an exact amount for a monthly allowance but everytime i will ask  hes ready to give naman...plus im allowed to spend at least 5 zeros a month maximum in credit card at siya magbabayd...oh well i prefered this set up than mamroblema kaka budget....

[gnela_21]

I resigned at my job at home so that I can come here in US with my husband. At the meantime, he's the sole earner. I do have a part-time job but I basically use it for my "needs". He pays for everything. Rent, insurance, utilities, bills, groceries, car etc. Although he wants me to be the one responsible for making sure that all the bills are taken care of. So I basically knows where everything goes.

I also created an excel sheet and notes every expense that we make so that we know how much we spend each month.

[Ishasophia]

sa amin ni hubby.. hindi namin pinakikielaman ang salary namin..basta he pays the bills and i pay for everything around the house..lahat ng need sa house and our baby sa akin..we don't look at each other's payslips..basta we do our part..kapag lumalabas naman depende kung sino ang meron money that time..

[mgeoffrey_88]

sa amin, alam ko flow ng money niya but regarding my expenses hindi siya nakikialam though minsan nagtatanong niya if I still have money or wala na.

every week since weekly salary nila, i give him the breakdown ng salary niya like for house payment, groceries, bills payment, etc. may share din ako sa grocery since both of us ay nag-wowork din naman but mas malaki share niya dahil may malaki salary niya.

nagpapadala kami sa family namin from our own sweldo. maganda sa amin kasi i would tell him kung magpapadala ako at kung magkano. same thing din sa kanya..

[sweet_sexy_thing]

since, both of us working with their family business most of the time ako may hawak ng allowance namin....nagbubudget ako for the two of us since wala pa naman kami baby.... i try to save some money kasi mahirap din kung ubos biyaya kami dalawa....

[sweet_sexythang]

Transparent kami ni hubby sa savings and expenses namin. He gives me all his salary and I show him mine. Then, sa savings alam nya lahat although he does not ask me. I just give him allowance and I buy him his supplies such as gel, perfume, soap etc. pati clothes nya kasama ako bumili kase ako may hawak ng pera. He does not complain, mas gusto nya nga daw ganon kase if sya may hawak walang pang 1 month ubos na pera nya..  whereas kapag ako nagbubudget nabibili nya gusto nya plus may savings pa kami.. 

[ceejhei]

^ Hubby's salary he is giving his net salary to me. as for his own wants, mag OOT siya para yung Ot pay niya para sa pang gastos niya sa sasakyan niya. pero his whole salary is mine. Sad to say, mas malaki ako kumita sakanya kaya majority ng gastos nasa akin, but i don't care, as long as alam kong nasaakin yung buong salary niya im good. Kaming dalawa nag bubudget ng money namin.

If we go shopping most of the time, yung salary niya napupunta lang sa leisure namin, my salary for the expenses.

[candid_girl]

i am newly wed mga sis, ngayon pa lang pinaguusapan na namin kasi mahirap na baka magkaroon na kami ng anak saka doon palang paguusapan... there are certain amount to binibigay niya sa akin at the same time ganun din ako, then ako ang magbubudget...i also include sa budget ang saving namin hopefully masunod, specially iyong paggastos kasi minsan we set some goal lalo na sa budgeting pero hindi nasusunod ka pag may nakitang damit,food etc..

[a_y_e_n]

samin, everything's transparent. every payday withdraw namin lahat ng sweldo, then ako magbubudget, syempre i make sure na yung 30% ng sweldo namin napupunta sa savings namin.

[mango]

sis kmi transparent lalo pag financial matters para hindi pag umpisahan ng away.

[sexyvamp]

wish ko lang transparent si hubby sakin. di ko nga lam exact sweldo nya e, binibigyan nya lang ako ng budget di pa every month, its like 50 thou nedd ko pagkasyahin within 3 months, kasama na dun budget ng baby namin, ang hirap nga kasi kulang talaga. stop ako sa work kasi wala ako yaya o mapag iiwanan kay baby. and na fefeel ko na meron ssyang di sinasabi sakin, lagi nya dahilan nagbabayad sya ng loan nya na pinampagawa namin ng house, nung christmas nga di na nagpadala ng pamasko para samin ng baby ko e, wala na daw sya pera, kainis lang kasi feeling ko kaya nagkukulang pera nya kasi regular sya nagpapadala dun sa parents/sis/ nya may inisponsiran yata syang pamangkin sa pag aaral, di naman masama tumulong sa family nya e sana lang e he makes sure naman na ok kami ng anak nya. sensya na mga sis naiinis lang talaga ako sa hubby ko.

[honey_iya]

^mahirap 'yan sis. ok lang naman magbigay sya sa family nya pero dapat may hangganan naman. kayo dapat ang priority nya. hangga't di sya humi-hinde eh akala ng family nya ok lang.

[chubbybaby18]

he pays for all the bills and gives me my personal allowance

Sana ganyan din asawa ko. My husband now pays for everything. Before, i share a certain (small) amount for the bills. But naisip ko, since di nya naman ako binibigyan ng allowance and its his duty as a husband and father to provide, sya na lahat. And since im (still) working in a school, free yung tuition fee ng anak namin.
Reading your comments make me sad. hehe..wishing na sana ganyan din asawa ko.

[Cheesecak3]

Sa amin naman pinagsasama namin ang income namin tapos don na kunin ang allowance, bills and investments namin.

Wala namang problem kay hubby kasi pinapakita ko naman sa kanya kung saan napupunta ang pera at mas may tiwala sya sa akin sa pagmanage ng pera.

[prettygurl00001]

We have a joint account where we put all our salaries every payday. Then yung mga bills na dapat bayaran naka-autodebit na sya dun sa joint account. Yung credit card bills, celfone bills, etc. ni hubby, he gives me the billing statement every month then ako nagma-manage ng pagbabayad. We both know our userID and password sa joint account namin, even sa payroll accts namin. So basically, parang share talaga lahat, walang tinatago. Yung allowance ni hubby going to work, humihingi sya sa akin coz we keep a separate account where we pull all our daily expenses.

[rexyloise]

parang wala ko nabasa na same set-up as ours.  my husband and i have been married for over a year now with a 4 month old baby.  ang set-up namin is we have assigned gastos per month.  i take care of bills (electricity, water, internet), palengke and grocery budget then sa kanya yung rent and expenses ng baby.  equally distributed yun.  then personal expenses like credit card kanya-kanya pati extra money kanya-kanya na din even pag may bonus.  i don't mind that i don't get his money, first and more importantly because mas marunong sya humawak ng pera than me.  mahilig lang ako mag-budget, di ko naman nasusunod from my end.  secondly, my salary naman is twice his