live-in or not?

[charitea]

I still think one should wait till marriage before living together 

[shopaholic18]

^ i agree with you sis...marriage first...you won't give your self to someone else besides your husband right...and kahit saang anggulo mo tingnan lugi girls pag pumayag makipag live in...that's just my opinion...i have nothing against those pro live in...its their choice and its their life...

[wednesdei]

Okay lang sa akin ang live in. Basta with the right person. 

[cosmochick]

I don't see anything wrong with living in together as long as you both have plans in getting married someday.

[aussie]

In my case, 3 yrs na kaming live-in. Dami na naming napagdaanan together. Sabi nga ng iba lugi ang girl sa case ng live-in but for me it's an opprtunity to get to know ur partner. Actually the 1st reason why I moved to his apartment is that we thought I'm preggy already. I got sick and showed some symptoms of a pregnant woman. My strict ate who's with me in manila (our parents are living in the province)told me that after getting into a rel. with my bf I always come home late that's why she told me that I should live in the province with my parents. Then, my bf and I got scared so we decided to live in together. Then after a week, we realized that I'm not preggy after nia ko pagbigyan sa lahat ng gusto ko cause he thought I'm pregnant natawa na lang kame but at the same time disappointed kc kala namin may baby na kami. To make the long story short, mukhang di naman ako lugi kc lagi sya nangungulit na pakasal kami pero ako ang ayaw muna. At yung parents ko wala na silang magawa sa set-up namin. They let me live w/ my bf so long as hindi alam sa province ang situation ko sa manila dahil maganda image ko dun haha

[heavensent]

7 yrs na kaming live in ng partner ko.. i dont think na lugi ako sa set-up namin since parang same lang naman sa married couples, mas nagtagal pa nga yung relationship namin unlike dun sa friend namin who got married.. and i agree with gilenn mahirap magpa annul..

[showermist]

when i was in my early twenties, no-no ang live-in.  but when i was exposed to th ereality/ies of life, it doesn't matter anymore.  but it would still be great to end in marriage. marriage that really works and ends forever.  not end in a few years.

[mishmish]

Ako, marriage talaga, pero I have nothing against people living-in, meron kasing mga couples na mas ok talaga sa kanila ang ganitong set-up 

[ysa.belle]

Pro live in ako. Mahal ang annulment eh. Pero whatever rocks your boat. Kanya kanya naman kaseng opinion yan eh.

[cristal28]

marriage muna but like me nothing against to those who chose otherwise. i looked for partner na same ang gusto sa akin, that is no living together unless were married and he is fine with that.

[a_y_e_n]

marriage saken instead of living in.  siguro kase ayoko din ng sobrang daming maririnig sa ibang tao. madali naman ignore yun pero kung madalas baka di ko din kayanin.

[kcjane]

my partner and i are living together for 4 years now. di kami makapagpakasal because inaantay nya pang makuha sya ng sister nya sa canada. mas mahihirapan kasi syang makuha kung magpapakasal kami so stay muna sa ganitong set up temporarily.

[imnuttz]

ok lang naman ang live-in, papel lang naman ang pinagkaiba sa kasal. ako nga college palang live-in na ako, kasi kasama ko BF ko nun sa apartment with our other friends na may BF din. haha!

[[-c-h-a-]]

Personally, I would have never lived in with a guy. Kasi my whole family is conservative so shempre I was raised conservatively too.

It's not worth the trouble I would get into and kaya ko naman maghintay so it didn't really cross my mind.

[larxy]

tie the knot

[mooncake and leaves]

Baliktad kami ni showermist. Well, I'm ok with living-in in general pa din naman. But I was more open into engaging in it a few years back. Now that I'm older...I crave security and stability na. I realized that I thrive, I am my best self when everything's secure. And I need to be in a relationship, in a setup wherein I can be my best self. And I want to enter a relationship with as much enthusiasm and optimism that I was raised with. If and when I do get married, I fully intend to stay married. No divorce, no annulments. Just blissful disappointment. Nyaha kidding.

Saka babaw pero ayoko umalis sa piling ng aking Papa. I'm his younger, his baby daughter so I want to be with him until I'm legally bound to leave him (huhu).

[angel.of.mine]

just follow these rules

rich partner -> marriage
not so rich -> live-in

 

tama si kuya.

nyahahaha!!!

[FrogPrincess]

I used to think this act is such a no-no. Then I realized, sa Pinas lang pala big deal 'to. If you live & work in other countries, you would think otherwise.
Personally, kung na sa Pinas lang ako, I would never consider this. But living abroad, I woudn't mind for practicality's sake. And besides, this is fine lalo na kung may marriage plans. 

[rainbow11]

Ako naman ayoko mag take ng risk like chismis, unplanned pregnancy, etc. Tie the knot nalang muna, di na kelangan ng "dry run". :-)

[izabelle]

whatever works best gorabells dun! hehe!

but kung ako, syempre it's a NO for me.. simply because i have high regards in marriage and i dont see the point bakit kailangan pang itest ang isang relasyon eh habang buhay naman kayo itetest ng challenges e

PERO.. for people na kilala ko na ginagawa ito, ok lang kung yun ang gusto nila at sa tingin nilang ok eh di go lang diba.. hindi ko man naiintindhan ang reasons nila pero i respect their choices in life. iba iba kasi ang tao.