praying for your partner in life

[ri-anne]

A mother's prayer is very powerful mga sis. I know, coz it worked for me & my siblings.

Of course i also prayed to God for my life partner. when i was still in college, i even wrote a long list of what i want in a partner (his traits, attitude, physical description, how i want to be treated, etc...yes i was very specific) in my diary...
kaaliw lang because when i finally got married i saw that old diary again kasi need to cleanup,collect & get rid of some stuff...lo and behold my hubby fit the description to a t!! even the height specified lol!!!

i actually forgot about it during the time na mag-bf/gf kami.. siguro subconsciously my prayers and list helped weed out the "bad" guys & players that tried to come my way...parang malakas ang intuition ko pag hindi seryoso ang guy or whatever iniiwasan ko na agad. then siguro nung nameet ko si A, kasi we started as friends, as i got to know him, unti unti kong nakikita yung gusto ko as life partner...

Pero mga sis kahit na we were already bf/gf, i was still praying for God's plan, His life partner for me.... I didn't pray na sana siya na yung life partner ko...but im thankful that God's plan na life partner ko is him
Just keep praying and have faith...

[rastagurl11]

I always do.

And the good thing about it is it doesn't take long for me to find out if he's the one or not. At first, I thought bakit puro short term ang relationships ko? Or if there was something wrong with me or siya talaga ang may issue. Pero if you analyse, maaga ko agad nalalaman that he is not the right guy for me so that means less deep emotions that would break you as a person, ergo mas madali mag move on.

[piatos]

Kakainspired naman stories niyo 

[snix]

i met my now boyfriend back in 2006, when we were both in first year college.. i was only 15 ng college ako sa bale wala pa sakin yun, parang neneng nene pa at hanggang crushes lang.. We met through my best friend..

My bf is a natural flirt lol.. Ng araw na yun na birthday ng beat friend ko i couldn't swim dahil meron ako sa tambay lang ako dun sa gardens sa may pool sinundan niya ko with matching guitar pa.. i got so pissed dahil parang ang hangin.. but we became good friends..

Ng 2007 niligawan niya ko but parang hindi seryoso so hindiko rin sineryoso. After that he met someone else and they became a couple nawalan na ko balita sa kanya nun. Ng 2008, nagbreak sila, sobrang down siya nun and dito kami naging close.. We would watch movies, hang out. He would send signals that he liked me parang MU so nagassume ako. This was also the year of my first heartbreak.

I fell in love with him kaya lang parang rebound ang dating ko. then yung day na kinakatakutan ko dumating.. He found another girl and inamin niya sakin infatuation lang daw naramdaman niya sakin, even thanked me for all the help pero pakiramdam ko nun sinampal ako.. after that he left for his ojt sa singapore and contined courting this girl he said he liked..

Sobrang nadepress ako nun and lagi alo umiiyak.. I always spent time sa church ad prayed and prayed na makaalis ako sa kinalalagyan ko and Asked God to help me forget him. Inabot nako 2009 hindi parin ako makamove on hanggang sa makabalik siya.. I avoided him at all costs even his texts and attempts to talk to me.. Para sakanya wala lang yungmagyari pero para saki hirap ako magmove on..I spent several birthdays wishing To move on from him.

I always prayed to God at nangako ako na kakalimitan ko siya..

2010, I saw him again dahil inaya niya ko sa birthday niya so sige kasi akala ko wala ng feeligs kaya lang meron pa rin.. pero naiwasan ko kasi busy ako nun sa graduation and review for boards..
ng october 2010 bumagsak ako sa boards, siya wala naman job nun.. wegot to texting again..

2011, he asked me to celebrate his bday with him ng kami lang so parang date.. Again I asked for guidance from God. Sabi ko sa Kanya, God eto na po yung last then please help me move on permanently.

And that was it. Unexpectedly, he was starting to call me and text me all the time. This time daw seryoso na pero inoverlook ko pinabayaan ko lang. Though I was tenpted I kept asking God for a sign kung dapat ko ba seryosohin. Mga bandang June july, he took me to a church in Moa para sabay kami magmass and this is where he said "I love you to me" so i took that as a sign from God. Pinakilala ko na rin soya sa magulang ko, thefirst guy I eer brought and itroduced to my parents yung iba kasing nanligaw hanggang hatid lang. Hindi ko pa siya sinagot agad. But I think God gave me a trial which prompted me to be sure ofmy feelings. Sinagot ko siya ng October 2 2011 and we are now
a year going on two.

Kung papansinin niyo my bf was present during all those times, 2006-2010 pero hindi naging kami. When ai asked God to help me forget and move on from him, He had other plans which I didn't know back then. Naisip ko rin na may unspoken promise alo nun sa parents ko na no boyfriend and studies muna, I think God helped me to obey that promise.

it is nowthat I realize that this is God's time for me.. I am always thanking Him everyday for writing and continuing to write our story and strengthening us.Sana nga siya na talaga yung inilaan ng Diyos para sakin

[marge070407]

Parang kailan lang isa ako sa nakabantay sa thread na ito and I'm praying hard na makita ko na ang partner in life ko. Now I'm getting married na and he even exceeded my expectations. He's the best I ever had. To God be the glory

[green-aholic]

^nakakainggit ka sis! i'm soo tired meeting the wrong ones. i want, like and love him, the guy at present pero hindi yata sya talaga eh. so sad, i think i'm never goin to meet another one like him. tinitiis ko ngayon na wag makipagcommunicate sa kanya.. 

[PrincessC]

may nakarinig na ba sa inyo about making a wish when you visit a church for the first time?

ganun ang nangyari sa kin. when i went out of town and visited a church for the first time, simple lang ang wish ko... na mahanap na ako ng guy na magmamahal sa kin at mamahalin ko rin romantically. (simple but specific - marami na kasi akong na-meet na guy na minamahal ako pero hanggang friends lang talaga ang tingin ko so important yung part na "mamahalin ko rin romantically")

the funny thing is, usually, when i visit a church for the first time, i usually ask for good health..ewan ko ba kung ano naisip ko nung dumalaw ako sa church na yun at biglang love ang hiningi ko. eh hindi naman ako naghahanap ng boyfriend that time.

anyway, the funny thing is, pagbalik ko from the vacation, i suddenly saw an unread friendster (yes, friendster pa uso nun) message from a college acquaintance na nangangamusta. we started communicating and going out. now, we've been together for almost 4 years already.

the first year we were together, nag-rereminisce lang kami and napag-usapan namin yun and napaisip ako so out of a whim, i checked the date when he sent his message...it was the day after nag-wish ako sa church pala.

the kilig part is, the day he sent me the message para kamustahin ako, out of nowhere, he prayed din pala na sana mahanap na nya ang future life partner nya... at nahanap nga nya ako.

kinikilig na naman ako pag naiisip ko. hehe

[green-aholic]

ohh my!! sis nakakakilig!! ang galing naman nun!! gusto ko maiyak sa nabasa ko eh! ang oa lang pero totoo. ang galing naman ni God. sobrang galing talaga!! nakakainggit pero your story serves as an inspiration to be positive and hopeful at dapat na ipagkatiwala na lang ke God lahat dahil He will give everything we ask for in the right time. Sana mameet ko na din yung para saken. Nakakapagod na sa maling tao eh. Love comes when you least expect it talaga. I also believe sa pagwish everytime you go to a church for the first time at gaya mo, i usually pray for our health ng loved ones ko. Di ko hiniling lovelife ko ever kahit need ko. Baka sa ibang paraan yung saken, sana.

[angelzero]

nung nag pray ako to find a bf, i asked for "the one". hiniling ko sya nung time na naka move on nako from my ex. i told god na ayoko na makakilala ng someone na waste of time lang. i didn't ask for any specific qualities kasi hindi ko naman talaga alam ang gusto ko. siguro nasabi ko lang somewhere along na sana hindi sya tulad ng ex ko na may ganito at ganoon na ugali. i prayed for almost 2 years. in those 2 years may mga nameet ako na total waste of time. pero ok na rin kasi every guy is a lesson learned. until i met bf. naisip ko maybe he's just one of them jerks. but on our first date, we were heading back to his car. he's about to drive me home, bigla nya ko hinolding hands. my instinct told me he's the one. since i was so sure of it, sinagot ko na sya agad after a week hehe.

[PrincessC]

ohh my!! sis nakakakilig!! ang galing naman nun!! gusto ko maiyak sa nabasa ko eh! ang oa lang pero totoo. ang galing naman ni God. sobrang galing talaga!! nakakainggit pero your story serves as an inspiration to be positive and hopeful at dapat na ipagkatiwala na lang ke God lahat dahil He will give everything we ask for in the right time. Sana mameet ko na din yung para saken. Nakakapagod na sa maling tao eh. Love comes when you least expect it talaga. I also believe sa pagwish everytime you go to a church for the first time at gaya mo, i usually pray for our health ng loved ones ko. Di ko hiniling lovelife ko ever kahit need ko. Baka sa ibang paraan yung saken, sana.

thanks sis! malay mo, sa next dalaw mo sa new church, bigla ka na lang ma-inspire mag-wish for true and lasting love... be specific pag nag-wish ka ha...

[green-aholic]

^naku sana nga kasi never ko iwish yun eh. ipapasok na lang siguro ni God sa isip ko pag tamang panahon na talaga gaya nung sayo na di nawish mo na lang bigla which you said is unusual of you. kelangan ba talaga specific? parang ang hirap nun sis.

[PrincessC]

^ haha. specific na realistic naman. baka mamaya, mag-wish ka ng magmamahal sayo pero because you weren't specific enough, you end up with a gay best friend who will love you unconditionally. hehe

[somethingreal]

buti pa kayo. pero nakakatuwa magbasa dito kasi nakakainspire. i've been praying for this for mga almost 3 years na. nagka-false alarm, akala ko siya na eh. pero hindi pa pala. so right now, i'm doing my best to move on.

[lady_avoidant]

still praying for the right man. Sana, God will not disappoint me this time... May prospect na kasi ako, hehe ini everyday ko lang pinag pray. Kanta nalang muna ako nito 'God must have spent a little more time on you' yay!

[chichi143]

di ko alam to kahit na pag nagsisimba ako lagi akong nagwiwish ng good health and fortune
for my family <3 i should remember this when i get to a new one
grabe!!! kakilig nman mga stories dito <3

[green-aholic]

Sis PrincessC, magpapakaspecific nako kung ganyan din lang. Hahahaha!! Naku sana mahnap na din natin mga sis yung saten!!

[Crissy]

I've been praying and wishing for years, hindi pa rin  binigay ni God :-( .... Senti mode na naman ako maybe because malapit naman Valentine....

[piatos]

ako naguguluhan pa rin haayst.  hindi ko pa rin matanggap yung totoo na ayaw na sakin ng ex ko.  Lagi na lang ako umiiyak.  Bakit hindi ko siya ma-let go.  Nainspire ako sa stories nyo sisses.  Sana maaccept ko yun katotohanan 

[clouds_1028]

^Sis don't despair. You'll accept everything in time. Ako I admit at times I still cry pero not that much kasi natanggap ko na talaga na my ex chose the other woman over me. Yung mga stories ng mga sis natin dito are truly inspiring. Just believe na your man is out there for you! God will bring him to you!  Happy Hearts day!

[piatos]

^Im hoping na maging ok na ako.  Sana mapatawad ko na siya at ang sarili ko at maaccept ko na rin ang totoo.  Thanks sis.  Happy hearts day!