praying for your partner in life

[chiqmom]

Nakaka-inspire naman yang "A Message from God".

[bebang]

ako, i am really praying for the man that God is preparing for me. I even asked my friends to help me in praying. I really want to have my own family. I really want to be a wife and a mother. Thats is what I am praying and claiming to God. I know it will happen and it will be very soon.

[super bratinella]

Sis, please continue praying and with prayers wait for God's perfect time, just have to be very patient and never be in a hurry. Prayer namin ng eldest daughter ko every night to have a daddy and a complete family, we always pray together for that, so just keep on praying.

I am now married with 2kids and I will not ever trade the gift of family to anything else, it is worth the wait.

[jepoy22]

I'm not really sure whats people stand in praying, but for me, since i pray, i pray for anything.
Thus, i believe that praying for "God's will' (as fondly called by my friends) is really the way to go.

Considering that this is the person whom you will be spending your life with, i believe that God's will, which is i believe is what is best for oneself, is something i would want to have. So, praying for 'that partner' that God is molding on one side of His hand (and you on the other), is not wrong.

Although, it still goes back to you having to pray with how God will mold you to be the person He intends you to be... because i think, when you're there, God will bring you two together.

[Filipinasadhart]

it is worth to wait. :=)

[design21]

share ko lang tips ng angkan ko: usually pagkapanganak palang sa amin our moms pray for our spouse to be already. san ka pa? at first tawa ako ng tawa when i heard what they have been doing for the past decades but now i realized it must be effective kasi lahat ng mga asawa namin mababait responsible god fearing everything you can ask for

[glamorosa_09]

^nakaka inspire yan ha, ganyan din nga  gawin ko sa baby girl ko, hehe.

Nung nagloko ang papa ko, I prayed, "Lord, if you want me to be married bigyan mo ko ng matino at ng mabuting asawa. And if You will do give that to me, I promise to be a great wife. Otherwise, wag na lang Lord, ayaw ko naman pumulot ng bato at buong buhay na ipukpok ko sa ulo ko."

And then I listed the qualities I wanted for a husband and prayed for it.

Non-negotiables

1. Catholic, has a desire to be close to God. check!
2. Came from a good and intact family. check!
3. Surrounded or grew up with friends na good influence. check! (laging nasa pilot section si hubby.)
4. Responsible (check!) hardworking (minsan oo minsan hindi eh, medyo nafufrustrate ako dito minsan, parang sumablay dito).
5. Hindi gastusero, marunong sa pera (check!) kuripot kasi ako and not brand conscious.

Negotiables (mga minor lang)

1. Kung di matangkad dapat gwapo or
    Kahit presentable basta matangkad. (check! 5'11)
2. Bunso (check!) Panganay kasi ako. Baka pag pareho kaming panganay, magsabong kami)
3. Graduate ng either UP, UST, DLSU, AdMU or Mapua-(Check!)
4. Either lawyer, doctor, businessman-(check!) or engineer-(check!)
5. Knows how to drive.(check)
6. Matangos ilong and thin lips (ekis!)
7. Makulit at nakakatawa (check!) Kaya lang minsan, nakakainis pala pag makulit tska pala joke. Kahit seryoso kang nagtatanong, jinojoke ka.
8. Kasama ko sya magserve kay God (check!) pareho kaming lector and couples group head.

Pero natural lang kasi na dumadaan ang marriage sa delusional stage. Minsan natatanong mo, tama ba tong napili ko? Kaya eto yung pinanghahawakan ko, na "OO! Eto bigay sayo ni Lord, review mo listahan mo. Pag may reklamo ka, live with it."

At oo nga pala, nagipagdasal ko pala, "Lord, mold him into a man that you want him to be." Haha, kaya pala ang colorful ng past. But God is continuously shaping and working on him, sakin din naman.

[dolcevitabebe]

Coming from a broken family, I've been praying for the "right" partner for me. Ayoko magasawa then just get separated. I know the effect on kids. But I've been with my guy for almost 8 years, and we have love-hate relationship. Whenever we break up I always pray for God's guy for me. But my boyfriend just shows up! It is always that constant. Yung tipong after breaking up we wont be talking for a month or two.. tapos when Im really praying hard, bigla sya magpaparamdam. What is up with that!? Hahaha... Dont get me wrong, I do love him. But he is not really ideal. He's clueless of me, not really that thoughtful, I mean para na lang kaming barkada actually. I don't know. I'm still praying now if it's him because we got engaged this year and I'm afraid baka it's not him

[aspau]

nakakainspire naman yun mga kwento nyo na nagrant yun prayers na gusto nyo at talagang specific ang request nyo

[glamorosa_09]

^sabi nga sis, kung mag-pepray ka, mas maganda na yung specific.
Most people don't get they what they want, because they don't know what they want.

At karamihan ng mga babae, mas pihikan pa mamili ng sapatos talagang lilibutin ang mall.
Sa beauty products naman, maghahanap talaga ng reviews.
Pero sa lalaking makakasama habang buhay, hindi.

[lonelymiss28]

^i agree sa pagiging specific pag hihiling kay Lord ng makakasama natin sa buhay. ako ultimo kulay ng mata, height, age difference namin...sabi ko at least 10 years older and ang age gap namin ng asawa ko ay 10 yrs and 38 days. lol! lahat sakto....thank you Lord talaga!

[aspau]

^i agree sa pagiging specific pag hihiling kay Lord ng makakasama natin sa buhay. ako ultimo kulay ng mata, height, age difference namin...sabi ko at least 10 years older and ang age gap namin ng asawa ko ay 10 yrs and 38 days. lol! lahat sakto....thank you Lord talaga!

wow! lahat ng specific na hiniling mo talagang ibinigay??? ang galing naman...

[lonelymiss28]

yes sis lahat pati nga ako nagtaka eh. mga nasa 26 ako nun then my bf broke-up with me so super dasal ako then sinulat ko pa sa papel ang gusto ko sa lalaki eto yung list:

eye color: blue or green (green mata ng asawa ko).
height: at least 6 ft and up (6 footer)
age: at least 10 yrs older.
work: at least seaman (kasi malaki ang sweldo nila and my husband used to work as marine engineer).
hair color: brown (he's got light brown hair na ngayon ay salt and pepper na...lol!)

mabait, marespeto, marunong ng trabahong bahay, super sipag (super talaga eh no!), di naninigarilyo, di nainom (i dunno kung sablay dito kasi we always have wine and cheese with our supper). and most importantly mas mahal nya ako kesa ako sa kanya (ngayon patas na...i always believe kasi na tayong babae madaling madevelop pag mabait ang tao sa atin at respetado tayo kesa the other way around). all that: CHECK!

[Filipinasadhart]

yes sis lahat pati nga ako nagtaka eh. mga nasa 26 ako nun then my bf broke-up with me so super dasal ako then sinulat ko pa sa papel ang gusto ko sa lalaki eto yung list:

eye color: blue or green (green mata ng asawa ko).
height: at least 6 ft and up (6 footer)
age: at least 10 yrs older.
work: at least seaman (kasi malaki ang sweldo nila and my husband used to work as marine engineer).
hair color: brown (he's got light brown hair na ngayon ay salt and pepper na...lol!)

mabait, marespeto, marunong ng trabahong bahay, super sipag (super talaga eh no!), di naninigarilyo, di nainom (i dunno kung sablay dito kasi we always have wine and cheese with our supper). and most importantly mas mahal nya ako kesa ako sa kanya (ngayon patas na...i always believe kasi na tayong babae madaling madevelop pag mabait ang tao sa atin at respetado tayo kesa the other way around). all that: CHECK!

totoo ba talaga yan??? hehe let me try... sulat ko nga din sa papel.

[glamorosa_09]

^that worked for me too
you can check out my list on page 23
most of what I've written and prayed for came true.
prayer and law of attraction, galing ni Lord.

[aspau]

wow mga sis very inspiring ah! magawa nga din yan kasi 1 taon na lang il be out of the calendar... sana matupad din ang dasal ko... thanks for sharing yours mga sis it gives more hope.

[lonelymiss28]

ang ginawa ko kasi sinulat ko sa papel then nagpunta ako ng simbahan mega iyak (syempre kaka break lang nun). then hawak ko talaga yung papel habang nagpa-pray. but then noong nakilala ko asawa ko ngayon di ko na naisip yun actually noong mag-asawa na kami saka ko yun naisip na lahat ng nasa papel totoo nga or nagkatotoo talaga, parang di ako makapaniwala pero yun talaga sinulat ko eh, talagang in details. siguro unconsiously, yun ang hinahanap ko talaga kaya sya rin nagustuhan ko kasi dami ko rin naging relationship pero di kami nagkakatuluyan.

[aspau]

ang ginawa ko kasi sinulat ko sa papel then nagpunta ako ng simbahan mega iyak (syempre kaka break lang nun). then hawak ko talaga yung papel habang nagpa-pray. but then noong nakilala ko asawa ko ngayon di ko na naisip yun actually noong mag-asawa na kami saka ko yun naisip na lahat ng nasa papel totoo nga or nagkatotoo talaga, parang di ako makapaniwala pero yun talaga sinulat ko eh, talagang in details. siguro unconsiously, yun ang hinahanap ko talaga kaya sya rin nagustuhan ko kasi dami ko rin naging relationship pero di kami nagkakatuluyan.

naku sis sobrang thank you sa pagshare gagawin ko talaga yan kasi ngayon sobrang puro heartches na lang natamo ko until now di pa nakaget over kasi gigulo pa ko ng ex ko.. haay sobrang nakakadepress..

[Filipinasadhart]

praying pa rin ....

[somethingreal]

Me too. Still praying.. Parang so near yet so far kasi. But i know i just have to keep the faith.