praying for your partner in life

[ilovezach]

naiyak naman ako reading all the stories here.

Mukhang galit pa ata saken si God 
I have been with this guy for 7 years, the first time I saw him kala ko talaga sya na.  And hindi pala 
I was already pregnant when he told me na he's going out with another girl na gusto ng family nya.
And just that, na sayang ang panahon ko sa kanya and my son will grow up without a father pa.

Ive been praying since I was young pa, my mom kasi taught me na kelangan nga pinagpipray kay Lord yun partner in life.
I dont know maybe matigas ang ulo, I did not listen to God or what, maybe there were signs na hindi ko pinasin, i dont know.

Now Im just praying na sana He will send me someone na mamahalin ang son ko.
I really cant understand why this happened to me and to my son.
BUt we will never understand God.
But I still hang on to Him, believe in Him just let Him be the center of my life.
I dont even pray for ex na bumalik sya anymore.
I just let God lead me where He wants me to be or who He wants me to be with.

I tell God na I will wait for Him kung kelan nya ibibigay samin ng baby ko yun talagang para samin.

[zaralicious]

 ^:'( awww... sis, naiyak naman ako sayo, kasi nakaka-relate ako. ako naman may daughter na. and like you, i'm also praying that the next one would be the right one na. yun mamahalin din yun daughter ko and tatanggapin ako ng family nya. mahirap kasi yun situation natin. pero alam ko may darating din para satin. i'm willing to wait kahit gano katagal, basta wag na lang ako ulit masaktan, especially yun baby ko. i'll pray for the both of us na rin. goodluck satin!

[ilovezach]

^ yup sis, meron dadating 
God is planning something for us and our babies 
God bless. Ill pray for us din and our babies 

[len_choi]

It's been 7 weeks since i ended my relationship. Too tell you the truth, Iyak parin ako ng iyak, masakit parin, memories keep flashing back, madaming "what if" in my mind, i know that i can't turn back time.

I just keep on praying to mend my broken heart, & i to find the right man, who will be strong when i'm weak, brave when i'm afraid, & willing to share his life with me.

[suPer girL]

^sis don't worry. in His time, makilala mo din ang right one for you. i'm sure He has a better plan for you.

yung mommy ko lagi niya sinsabi sa amin ng ate ko na nung dalaga pa siya lagi niya pinagdadasal na sana yung mapapangasawa niya kagayang kagaya ng lolo ko. God has been so good kasi my father is exactly the same as my grandpa. pareho sila ng sense of humor, pareho silang hindi mo halos makikitang magalit pero nadadaan niya lahat sa tingin, pareho sila ng approach ng pag disiplina sa aming magkakapatid. kaya kami ng ate ko, simula nung nagkaron na kami ng knowledge sa crush crush, palagi din namin pinagdadasal na sana yung makakatuluyan namin yung kagaya din ng daddy and lolo namin. yung ate ko ngayon happily married na at masasabi ko din na yung husband niya is as good and as genuine as my daddy and lolo.

[yaris]

My friend's sister got married at the age of 35. Now she's 51 and has three kids. Iba kasi sa Pilipinas pag 27 and still single old maid na dito hindi. Kaya me parelax relax lang. AYoko naman na pag nag asawa ako eh magdi divorce. Gusto ko pag nag asawa ako, yun na til the end. Wala nang balikan. Basta mahirap i-explain. But I like your stories. Keep 'em coming!

And her story nga pala, akala nga daw nya fate na nya yung maging old maid so tinanggap na nya. Fortunately, she's still hot at the age of 33 or 34. Then nagpunta sa club kasama younger co-workers. Di daw sya nagsayaw, painum-inom lang sa tabi. Then nilapitan sya ng isang guy na until now di nya alam kung sinet up sa kanya or talagang nakursunadahan sya. Then that started everything. So as you can see, kahit ganun pwede mo pa ring makilala si mr. right in a snap of a finger. Let's say, mag-i-end of the year na la ka pa ring bf then suddenly december 25 may nakilala ka tapos the next year kinasal ka na. Divah!

[rainbow11]

^sis, ang cool naman ng story.. love moves in mysterious ways nga naman.. i bet hindi na nya ineexpect na makikilala nya si mr.right nun..

ako naman, ang motto ko ngayon about my lovelife.. "let go and let GOd."

[choco_mint]

^^kung sa US, very typical lang naman for them to get married in their 30's kahit 40's pa.  iba lang talaga ang culture dito sa pinas pero i noticed a lot of women are now getting married in their 30's and mostly stable na sila and 'matino' ang choice of husband nila.    sayang naman di ba kung umabot ka in your 30's and you make a poor choice.

[julietearjerky]

naku sis ilovezach and sis zaralicious. ako din naiyak sa story niyo because we all have the same story. I'm actually 6 months pregnant right now. i'l bee having a baby boy but during my 5th month my boyfriend broke up with me.. and at this day would be our 30th day of not being together! Honestly, I still love the guy.. not because his the fathe of my baby but I really loved him! I'm so sad.. and I'm really praying to God for him to still come back some day.. praying to God for him to realized that me and our baby needs him and loved him so much! But as what thy've said evrything happens for a reason! And I believe that God will never let us down. SO just hang on! He have better plans for us.. 

[sweet25]

Sis ilovezach, zaralicious  and julietearjerky naiiyak ako sa story nyo. Sometimes we can question bat ganito..But everything happen for a reason. He knows what best for us and in the future malalaman natin yan. Basta dont get tired of praying ibibigay din yan ni god sa tamang panahon.

[julietearjerky]

Sis ilovezach, zaralicious  and julietearjerky naiiyak ako sa story nyo. Sometimes we can question bat ganito..But everything happen for a reason. He knows what best for us and in the future malalaman natin yan. Basta dont get tired of praying ibibigay din yan ni god sa tamang panahon.

- thanks. I know right sa ngayon I need to think is my baby. by october i'l be giving birth na kaya dapat okay din ako para okay si baby ko!I'm just praying hard! and I'm praying in faith!

[yinandyang]

hi ilovezach, zaralicious  and julietearjerky, my cousin is going thru the same thing as you guys are. Although sad sya palaban din sya dahil she is taking legal actions to make the BF (*cough JERK *cough) help her out in raising and giving birth.

back to topic.. i have been asking the Lord in every novena and rosary pero nada talaga. katulad nung ate ni yaris, 26 na ako pero medyo tinatanggap ko nang old maid ako ^_^ kasi sa clan namin may token old maid ang bawat family e. *knock on wood* pero forewarned is forearmed.

[marose17]

I prayed hard and trusted God to find me the right man to marry.  I got married at the age of 33 to my first boyfriend.   I have been in the dating scene for a long time but it's either I was into a guy who was not into me or the guy who liked me was someone I did not like. 

My advice for girls is not to settle for just any one.  It has to be the right person!  How will you know?  You have to listen to what God is telling you.  It's easy to pray for someone you like to like you back but it's when you accept that God ultimately decides who is right for you when He will give you the right person who is more than what you have prayed for.

Value yourself, do not give yourself (your body, heart and soul) right away.  And choose a man of faith - somebody who prays and keeps a deep relationship with God.

[sweet25]

sis yinandyang can relate with you before. Gabi gabi lagi ako nag pray na sana makita ko na yung lalaki para sa akin. Years past wala pa rin , yung mga nakarelasyon ko didn't work.May naging bf ako na foreigner that took us 4 years. Seryoso na talaga and everybody expect na siya na soulmate ko but accidentally na discover ko na lang he has another girl pala.

Well, as what they said when the right time come dadating yung para sa yo. And yes its true i'm married a man na almost 1 month lang kami nagkakilala. And i'm giving birth this coming november. No regrets naman kasi mabait ang asawa ko. I know siya na talaga para sa akin the first time i saw him in person.

I can remember when i saw couple in the street and mall lagi ko sinasabi siguro yung maging partner ko hinahanap na nya ako hehhehe.. Kung ano yung nararamdaman ko na emptiness im sure nararamdaman din nya then i'll pray and wish na sana mag cross na yung way namin. Then when my husband and i talked yun din pala wish and dasal nya lagi na makita na nya yung babae para sa kanya. Well, prayer really works basta strong lang faith natin ni god and di tayo nawawalan ng pag asa.

[sweetubeng]

Im glad i found this thread, at least now di ako nag iisa, same here i just turn 30 lang and super worried na since single pa ako and no bf or suitor at all, i dunno what's wrong minsan ask ako kay God, am i destined to be alone? minsan naiisip ko din yan and super nalulungkot ako lalo na at only child lang ako dami na pumapasok sa isip ko what if di ako makapag asawa maiiwan ako mag isa balang araw?

i had past short relationship before di nagtatagal since LDR im busy working then and busy with my friends parang nung time na nasa 20's pa ako dko masyado inin volve sarili ko sa pakikipag relasyon or maybe wala lang ako matipuhan sa mga guy na nakikilala ko, wala naman akong standard na pinipili ang gusto ko lang dapat he should be responsible, smart, loving and syempre given na yong dapat good provider sya, pero parang mailap sa akin ang lovelife i always end up sa mga maling lalaki na sa huli lolokohin ka lang

naiinggit ako sa mga friends ko na settled na sila may mga anak na at nasa grade school na sila, while me im still single and alone, now i felt really empty and stress pero i always think and always pray to God na may inilalaan sya para sa akin, i don't know when and where ko sya makikita, basta i just believe and trust God though minsan nawawalan na ako ng pag asa, kasi i did naman my best to find that someone and give everyone's a chance pero wala talaga nauuwi lang sa lokohan and nothing the effort  and time are all useless and meaningless,

kaya mga sis, im happy i found this thread at least na lessen ang pagka worried ko, and dipa ako nawawalan ng pag asa and i hope na one of this days ibigay na ni Lord ang guy na narararapat para sa akin.

[rainbow11]

^sis, kaya ba ito signature mo? hehe. i understand how you feel. umabot na rin sa ganyan yung perspective ko few months ago. na-frustrate na ko nun dahil kahit 23yrs old na ko nag ka-bf, i had failed relationships.. yung last 2 relationships, hindi man lang umabot ng 1month. i thought that God allowed me to experience love in just a short time just for the sake of it and not because there's someone for me. i'm still single for more than a year now and it's the best time to reflect. i realized na kahit naman may asawa na, wala pa ring kasiguraduhan kung kasama mo siya for a lifetime.. you know what i mean? so ngayon, nagreready na rin ako to be whole and complete as a person-- someone who can stand on my own emotionally, financially, etc.
but then, God has plans for all of us.. may mga nababasa ko sa chicken soup for the soul/other inspiring stories, late na nahahanap ng mga single women yung lifetime partner nila-- mga past 30-40yrs old na, kusang dumarating. 

[julietearjerky]

that's so true!God is the only one who knows what will happen to our life!kasi He has plans for us.. good plans!He's the one who knows what's the best and what's good for us!Look at me.. I'm pregnant with our baby when he left me.. I don't even think that my ex can hurt me that much.. for our whole relationship he shows me and let me feel that I'm so much loved then eventually ganun nangyari!gumuho talaga mundo ko ng iwan niya kami ni baby namin!but I'm still fighthing and strong, not only for my baby but because I know sooner God will give what's really for us!just have faith.. a strong faith with Him!Just pray.. He answers prayer!

[sweetubeng]

^sis, kaya ba ito signature mo? hehe. i understand how you feel. umabot na rin sa ganyan yung perspective ko few months ago. na-frustrate na ko nun dahil kahit 23yrs old na ko nag ka-bf, i had failed relationships.. yung last 2 relationships, hindi man lang umabot ng 1month. i thought that God allowed me to experience love in just a short time just for the sake of it and not because there's someone for me. i'm still single for more than a year now and it's the best time to reflect. i realized na kahit naman may asawa na, wala pa ring kasiguraduhan kung kasama mo siya for a lifetime.. you know what i mean? so ngayon, nagreready na rin ako to be whole and complete as a person-- someone who can stand on my own emotionally, financially, etc.
but then, God has plans for all of us.. may mga nababasa ko sa chicken soup for the soul/other inspiring stories, late na nahahanap ng mga single women yung lifetime partner nila-- mga past 30-40yrs old na, kusang dumarating. 

oo sis korek kaya yan ang siggy ko..hehe oo yun na lang iniisip ko pero sa sitwasyon ko kasi mahirap kasi its just me and my mom na lang iniisip ko pano na lang pag wala mama ko mag isa na lang ako sa buhay yun palang parang dko na alam gagawin ko, ayoko man isipin pero darating yong panahon na ganun kaya im worried na talaga, sabi nga nila darating din yan wag mo hanapin yun nga ginawa ko pero umabot na ako ganito age sa kakaantay kaya i did my way naman na pero still end up nothing kaya minsan nawawalan na ako pag asa mahirap pero i need to trust God baka may mino mold sya para sa akin sana nga nagyon na bago pa mag expire ang matres ko

[julietearjerky]

You don't have to loose faith just trust HIM.. 

[mami violy]

mga sis share ko lang yung story ng Tita ko na talagang pinag pray nya yung magiging partner nya in life. She's working in Bahrain at tumutulong sya sa church at El Shaddai. ilang years din syang nag-pray bago dumating yung kanyang husband to be.

prayer granted naman at super bait, maalalahanin at maintindihin yung binigay sa kanya. super bait talaga ni Lord kasi He knows what is best for us