praying for your partner in life

[bibits]

hubby is my first and only bf:) actually ang prayer ko noon is sana one day at the right time bigyan Niya ko ng mabait, matalino at God-fearing na magiging bf or eventually asawa. di ako actively nag-seek, and di ko din ni-pressure ang sarili ko although may times naisip ko what if will ni God na di ako mag-asawa? pero hubby came along, mid 20's na ko and we got married 3 years later:)

[len_choi]

I just ended my 9 years relationship with my ex. ikakasal na dapat kami this december, arguments arises when he decided na dun kami tumira after the wedding sa parents nya, may pagka mama's boy kc & he have a very dominating mom. 3 months kaming ayaw-bati, after that nagsawa na cya sa akin.

Anyways, now i'm mending a broken heart, he's my 1st bf & i really thought he's the one. Everyday I still cry a lot, 9 years din kaming magkasama, ang sakit sakit parin ng mga pangyayari...

Now i pray to God to heal my broken heart, & pinag-pray ko rin na sana i could find the right person that will love me and will take care of me. (28 na ako, natatakot akong wala ng magmamahal sa akin.) 

[icegurl]

^sis that was so sad.
Isasama kita sa prayers ko.
Be strong.

[len_choi]

^sis that was so sad.
Isasama kita sa prayers ko.
Be strong.

sis icegurl...

thank you for your prayers & support..

[ericaberica]

len_choi, I am sorry to hear that.  I hope that in spite of the pain, you still feel the clarity that your ex was not the one for you.  That means that God´s choice for you is waiting for you to get completely healed so God will allow you to meet. 

I went through a heartbreak before H as well.  Without that pain, I would never have been pruned enough for H. 

I wish you well and I pray that you will have great support around you.

[numonorean]

sis len_choi, ang lungkot naman.   9 years is a long time.  i hope everything falls into place for you.

[len_choi]

sis dearheart, ericaberica, numonorean...

thank you for your support, kanina i went to a Priest (yung nagheheld ng marriage counselling), He enlightens me to stand by what i belive:

But from the beginning of creation, 'God made them male and female. For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother (and be joined to his wife), and the two shall become one flesh.' So they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, no human being must separate. (Mark 10:6-9)

lahat ng mga doubts, insecurities, questions about marriage nilabas ko kanina. 95% ng in-laws d talaga magkasundo, malaking problem pa if yung man is a mama's boy. Until, he learns to uncling to his mother, he will not become a man, but remains just a child. 

i just keep praying to heal my broken heart & to find a right partner for me.

[tata]

sis len_choi, be strong. you are in my prayers.

[icegurl]

^^i really believe that God has other plans for you. He has someone for you that will definitely be better than your ex.

It may also be a blessing in disguise kasi at least you learned those things before marrying him, mas mahirap pag if your already married, mahirap ng kumalas sa relationship pag ganun.
God is really good.

[a_y_e_n]

sis len_choi just be strong. hang in there and keep praying.

share ko lang. my 1st bf died days after we celebrated our first anniversary, of course i was so devastated kase pinagdasal ko talaga yun. lahat ng hanap ko sa lalaki nasa kanya.  flash back muna, that bf of mine had a premonition, we were talking about death a month before he died. when i told him that he was an answered prayer, sabi niya baka daw God was just using him to prepare me for the right person. syempre nagalit ako kase feeling ko i was being rejected. but then he died, so i mourned for 3 years. i prayed for Him to heal my broken heart and not necessarily to find another person.

But God is really the best kase may nakilala akong guy after 3 years of mourning. may nafeel akong kakaiba pero ayoko talaga mainlove ulit kase i really felt na patay na yung right man for me. nakakagulat kase after fighting my feelings for this new guy, i realized that my deceased bf was right. God just used him to prepare me for the right man. yung mga hanap ko sa guy na qualities ng deceased bf ko, di pala yun yung gusto ko. i realized that all the things i wanted and needed plus more, nasa new guy pala.

there will always be a reason for everything, even if we don't realize it yet. 5 years after i've met that guy, our love will finally be blessed with the holy sacrament of matrimony. 

[zaralicious]

haayyy... super nakakakilig naman ang mga stories nyo mga sis. Nakakakilig talaga kasi kahit parang mala-romance novel ang datingan ng stories nyo eh kabilib bilib because God is involved in the story. truly God has his plans for us. I hope one day makita ko rin yun guy para sakin. Or sana gawin sya ni Lord para sa akin. I know nakikita ni Lord lahat ng sacrifices ko and i know that he will let me find that right person who deserves me more. Masakit talaga if the person we love is truly not meant for us. But we should never lose hope and faith in God. Habang ayaw nya pa ibigay, kulitin natin sya.

@sis len_choi, so sad naman yun nangyari sa yo. napakasakit talaga, kasi matagal na kayo. Pero be strong. I'll include you in my prayers. Hindi sya ang guy para sayo. You know, God will replace him with a much better man. That's for sure. Like our other sisses here, just pray hard and hope. Goodluck sis!

[Joycy]

Ako din...im praying for wholeness, peace, and love.  I just got out of a 10 year relationship (bf/gf and married life combined). He was my first bf too and i felt siya na nga. SO we got married. And he broke up with me almost 3 months ago.

At this point in time, ayoko ng relationship na walang meaning. I've never been into that. Gusto ko seryosohan talaga.  So im praying for healing din para when i meet the RIGHT one, im already whole. Siyempre, one thing na kasama sa prayers ko, sana parehas kami ng values.

Kasi, weak yong faith ng hubby (im filing for annulment pa) ko. He is of the principle na if he's not happy, then there is no point in staying. Wala siyang grasp sa word na commitment...na dapat panghabambuhay na, kahit ano pang mangyari. Hindi niya inisip na di ako perfect at talagang, there will be bad times in a relationship. The most important thing is not to give up.

AT this point, i know na di pa ako ready.  But i also know that when i am, darating din yong guy na para talaga sa akin. Im holding on for that. As of now, i lift it all up to God and trust in His will. 

[rainbow11]

^im sorry to hear that sis.. good for you, you're still keeping your faith.

@sis a_y_e_n: i can relate to you (although hindi naman namatay first love ko). yung tipong in denial ako na maiinlove pa ko sa ibang guy. feeling ko kasi yung first bf ko na yung "best". hopefully, mameet ko rin yung "God's best".

@len_choi: sis, nakakalungkot naman nangyari sa lovelife mo. keep on praying. someday, you'll find a man that best suits you.

[rainbow11]

i remember when i was a li'l girl, gusto ko first love ko na yung maging hubby ko. so never ako nag entertain ng suitors nung HS and college. pag may nagpaparamdam, pinagpepray ko na "if he's not the one for me, let him just get out of my life..". kaya lang hindi naman instant ang answer ni Lord di ba? May times na MU na kami ng guy to the point na parang gusto ko na rin siya tapos biglang mawawala nalang (went to US for good, etc.). hanggang sa nagwork na ko. i fell in love with my first love at the age of 23. that time, i was praying to st.jude na sana maging maayos ang lahat.. kasi nga my family is against him, im about to resign from work, etc. til after 8months of being together, we broke up. i had 2 bf after that kaya lang it didnt work. but i cant help myself hoping that God is just molding us both til we'll meet in His time...

[gemstonerainbow]

Ang gaganda ng mga love stories niyo and being the iyakin person that I am, ayan, naiyak talaga ako! haha Sorry... Kasi I'm 25 na and never pako nagka-bf, feeling ko never nako magkakaron ng bf and takot ako maging old maid. Hindi ko naman alam na kelangan pala ako magpray for the right guy although I know lang that God is preparing the right one for me at the right time. Weird and contrasting no? Paminsan-minsan nagppray ako kay Lord na sana dumating na siya for me kasi feeling ko ang tanda ko na tapos NBSB pa rin

[ayen]

@ sis rainbow11, i prayed for him for years eh   
but the answer to that one is NO. coz i heard he got married already. 

so im waiting for the right one now. good luck sa atin 

so meaning hindi tama na may specific person kang pinagdadasal for perfect partner?dapat specific character lang?ganon ba yon?

[rlyn27]

wow ang ganda nman ng mga story ng iba dito... inggit mode nman ako....

sana nga one of ds day ma meet ko na rin ang magiging soulmate ko... i also pray for my soulmate nman sana pag nag kita kami ready na rin cya..
honesly lately lang ako nag pray ni GOD about sa maging partner ko eh ...marami na rin ako napag daanan na relasyon pero hindi naging success sana right now maging ok na.. keep on praying nlang na talaga ...

[icegurl]

^^ayen, I think mas maganda if yung we will pray for specific characters lang and hindi specific person kasi we are not sure din naman if that person we are praying for is the right one for us.

[Andgid]

since 2003 whenever i go to Baclaran, Quiapo, Manaoag o kahit saang simbahan na pwede magsindi ng kandila at sa lahat ng prayers ko pinagdadasal ko lagi na kung sinuman yung itinalaga nya for me keep him safe, away from any sickness, sana maging successful sa career at sana pag nagkita kami we will keep our love and will do everything to make things work.

i have been thru a 4.5 years relationship, it was LDR and we were supposed to get married last dec 08 kaya lang hindi ko tinanggap yung proposal for lots of reasons.

naging distant ako sa mga lalaki, sa mga nagpaparamdam until i met my current bf. nung nagsimba ako nung easter sunday, i asked for a sign kung sya na yung plano para sa akin but after a couple of days he had an emergency leave kaya umuwi ng pinas. ngayon hindi kami ganun kadalas mag-usap. hindi ko tuloy alam kung pag-uwi ba nya yung sign o trial lang yun sa amin to check kung gaano namin kamahal ang isa't isa.

[inakisgurl]

i am in a LDR...im having a hard time din..pero he is worth the wait and the sacrifices...kaya im trying my best to shun allthose nega people who doesnt blv that LDR works...

may all of us have all the love that we trully desire and deserve

AMEN!