Girl to Girl Relationships

[blew_crush]

like how distant kayo?
nag-uusap naman kayo?

[illumine.db]

ahh... ingat ingat lang friend. mahirap at masakit ang repercussions ng pagiging bi.

like what?

[blew_crush]

@illumine: based on experience lang, may mga nasasagasaan in cases of love triangles. In case no love triangle happens, destructive na ang mga nangyayari.

[happycamper]

I don't have anything against lesbians ang bi. Mejo di ko lang magrab yung "bi" type. I know that you can be with a girl or a boy right? Is the feeling the same? In the sense of intensity to ha, or you feel deeper with a girl than with a boy? Kasi ako I'm showy when it comes to appreaciating the beauty of a woman. I tend to stare pa nga kapag may nakikita akong magandang girl. I never entertained the thought of being in a same sex relationship kaya I don't know if I'm "bi" or normal lang for a girl na maging very vocal when it comes to appreciating woman.

[kRiStAh]

^same goes for me sis. though sakin kasi medyo deeper than appreciation ng beauty eh. ako i can actually feel attracted. and i already experienced having a relationship with a girl during HS though saglit lang. and right now just like you medyo di pa rin sure kung "bi" ba talaga ako kasi malay natin pagiging curious lang yung nangyari nung HS ako. di ko rin alam e.

[blew_crush]

ang depth ng emotions ng g2g pag seryosohan kasi, there's more sweetness and intensity. but im not so sure about straights kasi experienced bi's kasi said pareho lang daw. probably sa circumstances.

[emo_diztrez]

sis kristah, sabi ng partner ko who is here beside me, bi ka daw... 

[kRiStAh]

^ah really sis? hehe. maybe... though right now I have a bf who's currently in Malaysia. Kaya nga ako medyo nagiisip eh kasi ngayong wala siya nagiging malapit ulit ako sa mga girls. sana wag naman. yoko na ma-confused eh. hehe.. thanks!

[honey-ecclaire]

is kritah what are you feeling ba sa mga girls?attracted?or just the clothes that they wear is kung ikaw ang nagsuot mas mabibgyan mo ng justice...

aren't you guilty about your bf?..
kaw talaga hehe

[blew_crush]

hi honey-ecclaire. so what's your opinion, feelings/experience about this kind of thing? hehe

[honey-ecclaire]

honestly i dont have any experiences on this issue..waaah!
it's a big NO-NO for me sis..
I cant say i'm against ha,kase sa man-man relationship keber lang ako eh...
I'm on the side of which and what can make other people happy..

basta wala kang inaapakang ibang tao eh,carry lang yun..
like boyfie,hubby,friends the likes.

kaw naman blew_crush?ano say ng beauty mo?..

masyado yata akong bakla magsalita ngayon..ngayks!

[kRiStAh]

@sis honey: of course i feel guilty but at the same time i feel that i really need to know myself before giving my whole to him. we cannot be happy if i'm confused like now. and as for your other question, i feel attracted to them. Hindi yung tipong inggit. Hindi ako mahilig magdress up. Pormang lalaki nga ako e. Like I don't wear dress except pag kailangan. I don't wear sexy shorts or sleeveless except sa beach. So there's no way na iisipin kong babagay sakin damit nila pag ako ang magsusuot. Maybe i'm a bi trying to become straight.

^you're right sis. like me, i'm not 100% sure na gusto ko i-pursue pagiging bi ko though i know i have the tendency to be one. I have my reasons and one is my bf kahit na nagkakalabuan kami due to LDR still i have a commitment. enough na siguro sakin na malaman ko sa sarili ko na i'm not completely straight.

Thanks sisses.

[gilenn]

^ baka naman attracted ka lang, simple admiration. Those that I know are really sure of themselves that they even dress like a guy and have thoughts of marrying a girl. Did this ever cross your mind? Kung hindi I suggest to leave it as that.

[honey-ecclaire]

Sis,kristah.. baka nafe-feel mo lang yan sis kase malayo nga si boyfie and ang nasa malapit ay ang mga girls. Admitted mo na sa sarili mo na bi ka and good thing na you want to be straight,because of your bf hindi dahil gusto mo?i guess you need to stop!sit down,think all the things that happened and what may happen if you do such acts. You need to find yourself sis. And no one may help you the best is yourself it’s an arhument between you and yourself.

Godbless!
 

[blew_crush]

so true, no one can get us through our hang ups but ourselves and our own prayers.

[honey-ecclaire]

indeed.kaya take your time sis anyway wala namang nagpapamadali sayo eh,kundi yung sarili mong timeline..wish you for the best sis!

to be the real you,what your heart desire and what you can be.

[foxy_lei]

ako, never ko naentertain sa isip ko na once magkaroon ng g2g relationship.
pero when i am in a crowd, mas tumitingin ako sa magagandang babae, rather than mag-boy watching.. lalo yung video ni christine reyes sa asap bora, grabe nakailang panood ata ako.. super attractive kasi sya.. basta magali ako magandahan sa babae kaysa magwapuhan sa lalake..
i just find this appreciation and not really liking the same sex..

[blew_crush]

I had a 2 year relationship with a girl, siya yung butch ako yun femme. Siguro when you're younger okay ang ganito pero at my age iba na kase nasa isip ko like having a family. Most of the people I know who are in this kind of relationship ay bata pa or single mom. I have a friend meron din siya ka-on na girl siya yun femme pero ayaw na niya. Nahihirapan lang siya makipagbreak kase medyo violent yun butch. Ganun din naexperience ko before, when I tried to break up with her or iwan siya nagkakasakitan na kame. As in!

I don't recommend this kind of relationship kung alangan ka sa sarili mo but if you're 100% sure na ito na gusto mo buong buhay mo go for it.

@gilenn at sa inyong lahat: bakit kaya pinapasok to ng mga single mom?

[blew_crush]

thanks gilenn.
but if the relationship ends, what does it mean?

[biancaLlanes]

my girlfriend and i are together for 8 years na. I am really so happy we're still in love parin kahit dami naming napagdaanan... Hay I love her so much and everyday pinapafeel niya sakin na mahal na mahal niya ako ayaw ko narin maghanap pa ng iba kasi happy na talaga kami