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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #40 on: July 09, 2009, 04:57:14 pm »
-bawal maghatid yung immediate family sa mga nakilamay pag paalis na > don't know why
-bawal magsuot ng red or bright colors > nagluluksa nga daw sabi ng matatanda bakit happy colors daw ang isusuot ano daw ba kami makikilamay o aattend ng party.. ::)
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #41 on: July 10, 2009, 04:45:52 am »
may kuwento ako about this.

yung father ng friend namin dito sa cavite namatay last week. nakita ko may hawak na 20 pesos sa kamay sa loob ng casket. tinanong ko para saan yun. nilagay daw yun ng taong unang nakakita na patay na siya. at babalikan niya yun sa araw ng libing para kunin..at magpapakalayu layo siya habang nililibing.at suwerte daw ang pera na yon.....well, its odd.

bawal din daw magabot ng food from the house ng namatay into another house, dapat daw sila ang pumunta run. weird.

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #42 on: July 10, 2009, 05:18:00 am »
kapag nakaburol sa bahay, bawal maligo sa bahay na iyon.
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #43 on: July 20, 2009, 03:09:40 pm »
bawal daw maglinis during da burol
sa oras ng libing,,pagkaalis daw ng patay dapat nililinis na yun bahay....
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #44 on: August 22, 2009, 07:53:42 am »
Eto- kelangan daw bumulong sa patay if you will make a wish... para ihatid kay Lord [textspeak!] wish mo, kung sa heaven sya mapupunta.. kung hindi, sorry na lang  :P

-As far as I know, kaya tinatawid ang mga kids sa coffin para isama [textspeak!] mga sakit ng bata dun sa hukay... Maisama nung patay sa ilalim ng lupa para di na magkasakit mga apo/anak nila. ;)

Ang bawat tuka ng sisiw sa salamin ng coffin ay pagbagabag sa conscience ng murderer  :o

Sa province, pag ililibing na, maghahagis ng palayok sa sand or basta malambot na lupa, not cement, kelangan mabasag, kung hindi nabasag, may susunod pang madedead

Kelangan talaga may nagbabantay sa patay kasi pag walang nagbantay, may ibang element/entity ang kukuha sa soul nung nadeads.


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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #45 on: August 22, 2009, 12:53:09 pm »
Bawal kumuha ng flowers na galing sa burol kasi may mamamatay ulit.

Bawal magwalis.

Takpan lahat ng mirrors sa house. Makikita mo raw dun soul ng namatay.

Bawal magsuot ng red clothes. I don't know why. But I remember nung elementary pa ko, namatay yung relative namin si Lola Tekla. After malibing sya, lahat ng relatives dun natulog sa house nya, malaki kasi. Tsaka may bagyo, brownout. Surprisingly, isa lang nakitang candle sa house. So we have to take turns para magamit sa paghanap ng damit pantulog. Know what? Paggising namin nung umaga, lahat kami naka-red shirt, as in lahat. Amazing! Haha! OT na pala ako
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #46 on: August 22, 2009, 08:26:26 pm »
may kuwento ako about this.

yung father ng friend namin dito sa cavite namatay last week. nakita ko may hawak na 20 pesos sa kamay sa loob ng casket. tinanong ko para saan yun. nilagay daw yun ng taong unang nakakita na patay na siya. at babalikan niya yun sa araw ng libing para kunin..at magpapakalayu layo siya habang nililibing.at suwerte daw ang pera na yon.....well, its odd.




ito yung isang pamahiin sa amin. swerte daw kapag money mo yung ipinahawak sa bangkay o kaya sayo mapupunta yung hinawakan ng bangkay.
it was said it the previous post na swerte sa negosyo. sa amin naman, hindi namin ginagastos but instead we keep it. at mukhang swerte naman nga talaga. i am keeping one from my uncle.

kung pangnegosyo, paano kung 20 pesos lang yung hawak?

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #47 on: September 03, 2009, 11:41:29 am »
Sa Leyte, pagtapos ilibing ang Lola ko, pagbalik namain sa bahay niya kung saan sya binurol, di ka makapasok sa bahay hanggan di mo hugasan mga kamay mo sa tubig na may mga nilagay na dahon :-)

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #48 on: October 11, 2009, 04:03:51 am »
^ah oo. parang ganyan din yung belief nung distant relative namin..may mga dahon2 na involved.

^^oo nga e baka idadagdag na lang yung 20p sa puhunan ..

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #49 on: October 13, 2009, 03:54:01 am »
probinsyano ako kaya napakaraming pamahiin sa amin, but halos lahat ng maisip ko na pamahiin sinuway ko. pati na yung pananakot na kesyo daw may susunod na mamatay pag ginawa mo... so what! i'm an orphan, may mas titimbang pa ba sa pagkamatay ng mother at ng father ko? ;) ... ayun, wala namang nangyaring mas masama pa sa death ng parents ko.


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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #50 on: October 23, 2009, 03:13:26 pm »
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1. bawal maligo sa loob ng bahay
2. bawal magsuklay
3. bawal magwalis
4. bawal tumingin pabalik kapag hinatid na yung patay sa libingan
5. magbabasag ng palayok kapag ihahatid na
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #51 on: October 23, 2009, 03:37:49 pm »
tama yon bawal bumalik balik pag nailibing na, tatay ko nun libing tita ko balik ng balik ayun wala pa 1 year sumunod na siya. :(
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #52 on: November 19, 2009, 04:06:01 pm »
my dad died this month lang, totoo bang bawal akong umattend ng parties for a year? this december kasi maraming xmas parties di ba, so as early as now i have to know if i can attend or not. parang kasing nagluluksa pa kami tapos mag pa party na ako, parang di yata maganda :(
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #53 on: December 28, 2009, 03:36:06 pm »
^dipende... samin bawal magsaya or pumarty for 3 years according to Chinese tradition. parang it's a form of respect to
the dead.

meron rin tradition na kailangan magalay ng manok sa patay pag bago ilibing, cut the head off and let the blood drip over the coffin, alay daw yun para walang isamang 3 family members yung namatay na, ang critical within 3 years, pag may sumunod na namatay sa pamilya sa loob ng tatlong taon, meron pang kasunod na dalawang mamamatay kaya dapat magalay pa. Katakot nung nangyari nga ito feel ko nasa horror film kami pero buti naman wala nang sumunod.

ang daming traditions that seems to work at nagkakatotoo sa family ko but i have yet to learn the logical explanations  ;D

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #54 on: December 29, 2009, 02:15:16 am »
Yung rosary na ilalagay sa kamay nung namatay dapat putol para hindi daw magkasunod sunod ang mamatay.

Bawal ding mag walis.

Bawal maligo sa bahay kung saan nakaburol yung namatay.

Bawal daw na yung ulo ng namatay ay nakatapat sa pinto.

Bawal maghatid ng bisita pauwi.

Bawal tumanggi sa pagkain ang bisita.

Takpan yung mga salamin sa bahay na pinagbuburulan.

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #55 on: December 29, 2009, 02:26:40 pm »
ay meron pa palang isang pamahiin regarding the food served at wakes

pag matanda yung namatay as in mga 80-90+ years old you should eat the food served kasi swerte yung taong nabuhay ng matagal tagal sa mundo so parang you're getting a bit of the deceased person's luck in hopes na mabuhay ka ng matagal tagal tulad niya.

pag mejo bata pa yung namatay and namatay coz of accident or health problems then you shouldn't eat much from the food served.

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #56 on: December 29, 2009, 09:29:06 pm »
^talaga? Ngayon ko lang narinig eto. Sabagay medyo malakas ako kumain, siguro naman naooffset lang siya no?

Yung bawal magwalis, maligo, maguwi, magsuot ng pula at kung ano ano pa.. Yan, familiar saken. (malamang excuses lang to nung unang nakaisip  ;))

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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #57 on: March 24, 2010, 09:12:09 am »
ang naalala ko lang, dati nung namatay lolo ko, tinakpan nila yung salamin na malaki..yung parang life size.. di ko alam kung bakit..
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #58 on: June 03, 2010, 01:01:01 pm »
Yung sanggol itatawid sa kabaong nung namatay tapos ibabalik nung pangalawa sa una ang sanggol.  ;D
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Re: Pamahiin during wakes / burial
« Reply #59 on: September 07, 2010, 11:59:03 pm »
Super dami naming pamahiin kapag may wake..

*Bawal mag red
*Bawal mag suklay
*Bawal mag walis
*Bawal maligo sa banyo sa bahay ng may wake
*bawal ang pakanta2 ng happy songs
*Bawal matuluan ng luha nag coffin
*Dapat may tao sa may coffin, kasi kukunin daw ng mga "others" pag walang bantay duon.
*Bawal i-count ang abuloy
*bawal mag thank you sa mga abuloy
*Nakaclose ang palm ng namatay
*No mirrors sa bahay, dapat takpan
*Pag Umuulan sa libing, ibig daw sabihin, hindi pa tanggap ng namatay ang kanyang death
*Pag Sobrang init naman, tanggap na ng namatay ang kanyang death
*Wag magdala ng food from the wake

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