do you read your hubby's text messages?

[Mommy•Shey]

Hindi ako mahilig magbasa ng mga text messages sa phone ni hubby. Siya dati  ganun. minsan naiinis ako kasi may nag text na pala sakin like Mom, sister or friend ko, tapos naka mark as read na lahat, nababasa ko lang pag nag check ako ng phone. Pero ngayon, hindi pa din ako mahilig magbasa ng mga text messages hehe..

[edskie1974]

yes i definitely read his messages pero in patago lang kasi alam ko ang dami din niyang tinatago sa akin,ang lakas ng kutob ko kasi pag natulog kami yung cp niya ilagay talaga niya sa ilalim nang unan kaya alam ko me sekreto siya tinatago,kaya ang ginawa ko tuwing maligo siya sa banyo dun ko kinakalikot cp niya kaya sapul!!!huling huli ko mga text niya sa mga sweetypie at babes niya!

[cinderella_322]

yes i do that ..  dati palagi ako nagccheck kasi nahuli ko na masyado silang close magusap ng officemate niya which is pinag awayan nga namin and he understood my point naman.

di naman sya nagagalit na pinakikialaman ko phone nya.

after quite sometime, di na masyado but i make sure  na once in a while eh macheck ko. minsan nakakaflatter pa nga mga usapan nila ng friends nya when he turned them down for a basketball play kasi may date kami   

and like one of the sissies told here. to check ano nangyayari sa office nila although palagi naman sya nagkukwento sakin.

but he never checked my phone before not sure lang if patago hehe.. but i wouldn't mind if he do that.

[jenie0519]

Yes, i read his text messages.

May mga nababasa pa nga ako na message ng mga lumalandi sa kanya.  Di naman niya binubura para nga makita ko, tapos minsan tinatawagan ko yung number inaaway ko hehe... Alam ni hubby, natatawa pa nga siya sa kin dahil ang taray taray ko daw..  Minsan siya mismo nagpapabasa sa kin.. there was this 1 time na may nagtext sa kanya na uber haba, overseas ang number, ganito ang sabi, "hi (name ni hubby), i miss you so much. Im so happy when i got your message telling me that you want us to get back together and that you still love me.  Im coming home soon, lets meet at our old meeting place. Can't wait to see you again baby, i love you so much." O di ba ang kire? hahaha!

Yan yung ex niya na nasa abu dhabi na ngayon, tinatawagan ko nga ang hitad hindi sinasagot, akala niya siguro magiging cause ng away namin magasawa, eh sorry siya...Sorry napahaba hehe

[beatrize zuri]

my husband has 3 different phones, 2 of them is for business and the other 1 is for personal use. most of the time yung 2 business phones niya ang binabasa ko pero yung personal phone hindi masyado, ako lang naman katext niya aside from his family and some friends. i trust him so much and i know he wont do any stupid things.

[Prunella]

No. It feels wrong.

[rae]

No. It feels wrong.

I agree.

Sometimes I don't get statements here saying, "I trust him but I check his phone from time to time."

I don't check my man's phone. Kahit pag may tumatawag, di ko tinitingnan kung sino and hindi ko sinasagot. Recently, he started casually checking mine. I'm not texting or calling anyone else but him, family, and workmates. Plus, tamad talaga ako mag-text.

Kahit confident ka na wala kang itatago, ang weird ng feeling na titingnan yung phone mo. It gave me a feeling na, "is there something wrong? are you doubting me? what are you looking for?"

Given the recent change, I still dont give a f* about his phone and phone activities.

[jhenpretty]

he allows me to read his messages so it's ok..

Binabasa ko.. pero hindi naman lagi kapag wala lang magawa.. si hubby ang mahilig magbasa ng messages ko and pati logs ko he would also check.. kakaloka..

[ivy u.]

Hindi ako mahilig magbasa ng mga text messages sa phone ni hubby. Siya dati  ganun. minsan naiinis ako kasi may nag text na pala sakin like Mom, sister or friend ko, tapos naka mark as read na lahat, nababasa ko lang pag nag check ako ng phone. Pero ngayon, hindi pa din ako mahilig magbasa ng mga text messages hehe..

same here.. hindi rin ako mahilig magbasa ng messages ni hubby..pag may mga text or calls sha ako ang pinapasagot lalo kung number lang, may tiwala naman ako sa kanya..pag ako naman ang may mga messages or calls never niya read or answer yung call.

[phatgirl]

Oo..minsan..kung di ko pa nga ginalaw phone nya,di ko malalaman plano nila manood ng sine ng mga office mates niya..di man lang sinabi sakin..mahirap yung masyadong kampante..pag masyado ka nag tiwala at nagiging mabait,aabusuhin ka..

[mrs.somerhalder]

Yes. He cheated on me. Once trust has been broken, you will never look at things the same way again.

[Prunella]

I agree.


Kahit confident ka na wala kang itatago, ang weird ng feeling na titingnan yung phone mo. It gave me a feeling na, "is there something wrong? are you doubting me? what are you looking for?"

Given the recent change, I still dont give a f* about his phone and phone activities.

I couldn't have said it any better. We still need privacy even though we're in a relationship. I trust my husband and it's up to him if he wants to break it.

[eekai]

yes, i get to read all of his messages be on the phone or email.  same goes with me.  we don't have anything to hide naman eh. 

it's not naman checking lang eh.  for me kase, it's just a phone, a message.  if he's in the shower or some place where he can't get to his phone, he asks/expects me to check it or to see if it's something important or urgent.

[pampam2]

yup but with no malice mostly naman text niya puro job related. no issue at all sa amin ito.

[BarefootBride]

I don't even if he doesn't mind it.   

[xhien]

yah.. i read it..wala lang gusto ko lang malaman kung sino mga nakakausap niya sa fone nya.. pero di naman namin pinagtatalunan yun..kahit mag ask ako kung sino yun sinasagot naman nya, may tiwala naman ako sa kanya eh..ganun din kasi siya sa akin, he always check my fone, mga logs..but its ok.. di naman big deal samin yun..nasanay lang siguro kami..

[ayka]

nope. dahil wala naman akong makikita and hindi pala-text si hubby ko. 

[aria]

Nope, and he doesn't do that to me as well.

[alexii]

Super Yes!  Usi ako ee.. Tsaka he allows me naman to check his phone at ganon din siya. well, mas usi siya kasi pati fb account and email accounts ko chinecheck niya. Its not that we don't trust each other. Pakialamera lang at pakielamero ang peg!  pero ok naman so far.

[allaboutpositivity]

Yes pero aware naman sya