paano mo malalaman na sincere ang isang guy sa panliligaw sau???

[justperfect]

hindi naman busted ang tawag sayo if you decided to give up di ba? kasi hindi naman sya nag no sayo. well it all boils down to your willingness to wait. if you are willing to wait no matter what,just go for it. but if not, just find somebody else

[carlos_uno]

Yep, you are right, hindi naman talaga ako bastes eh, but just the same hindi ko rin sya napa OO.

I need to think this over, nahihirapan ako eh.

[closet loser]

hey carlos_uno, guytalker here..

im reading your posts and hats off to you bro! just want to share my experience because i've been in your situation.

mahirap ang mind games ng courtship kasi hindi mo alam kung may pag-asa ka ba or nahihiya lang syang sabihin na friends lang talaga kasi masyado kang mabait sa kanya. parang nag-aabangan kayo ng next move.

sabi ko nga, galing na ako sa ganyang setup, mine took almost 10 months before she said yes, pero shortlived lang ang relationship namin. sa 10 months na nangarir ako sa kanya, andun naman yung masaya sya, nagkukulitan kami and syempre meron ding hotseat question kung kelan ba ako sasagutin and ang palagi din nyang sagot eh hindi pa nya alam. so ayun. sabi nga nila go with the flow. april 2008 ako nagstart manligaw and sinagot nyako ng december 2008.

pwede mong try yung ginamit kong pick up line pero dont know if it will work, depende din kasi eh. sabi ko pwede naman naming i-try, kung magwork out, then good, pero kung hindi naman, lets just stay friends. pero since hindi kami nagwork out kasi hindi naman sya nag eeffort na magwork ang relationship namin, nagbreak din kami and were back to being strangers. its just the consistency and showing her na andyan ka lang for her pero not to the extent na para ka namang alalay or utusan. and slowly but surely eh mapapasagot mo din sya, just dont rush things, sabi nga ng mga sisses natin dito na just take it slow and be a friend to her kasi yun ang foundation ng good relationship.

add ko lang din, sabi ng bestfriend ko na girl, nowadays kung gusto ka din ng girl hindi na nya patatagalin, yung mga wala nang games games. so try to reassess din kasi sayang ang effort, time and pera at syempre may halong emoness din diba?

hope i helped! goodluck bro!

[muahmuahmuah]

closet loser curious question. how much effort should a girl put in or what effort were you expecting from her?

[bella123]

hi i just i wannna share my point of view regarding your situation maybe she's waiting for something from you na gawin mo or sabihin mo na un makapagpapasagot sa kanya, or may time frame sya sa syo,do not think n pinapahirapan ka nya be positive maybe change your approach baka di pa nya nakikita [textspeak!] other side mo.Try to talk her about her family set aside mo muna topics about the two of  you,malay mo mag open up sya, maybe may problem sya na di masabi and going out with you is her outlet pero dont  think n she's just using you maybe my feelings rin sya syo pero ayw muna nya i complicate ang mga pangyayari if you really like her just stick with her and be her shoulder to lean on.I wish you good luck.

[carlos_uno]

Hay naku. Another story.

Nag away kami. Nagtalo kami sa fone. I reacted strongly. Nag sorry sya but she asked for space dahil nalilito daw sya at magulo utak nya.

I gave her the space and decided not to communicate with her.

Pag datin nung hapon, tumawag. Ok na daw sya at wala na daw problema.

Hmmmn.

any wild comments people on this never ending mind games with this lady that ive been trying to pursue over the last 5 months?

[carlos_uno]

^^Actually nawala posts namin dito ni twinkletown kagabi.

Anyways, sissies, help me with my problem now.

Actually masakit na ulot ko kakaisip eh. I want to decide whther or not to quit or to just continue courting this girl who ive been with for at least 5 months now.

Haaay. Hindi ko kasi alam real score eh, pero hindi nya rin naman sinasabi na basted na ako. Im tired chasing her. We dont have common friends so letting go will not be harder except that for sure ill be more than sad for the next week or so, mag ki christmas pa naman.

Aminin ko, kahit hindi pa kami, i have cheated on her na hindi nya nalalaman. Something happened between me and my friend but i know there is some spark na between us. Its just that I am dating this girl and I think she has some hang ups pa with her ex.

Now, im thinking of stopping dating this girl and be with my friend na lang. GUsto ko na talagang lumagay sa tahimik and to have a formal relationship. AYoko na rin ng dating games, hit and runs and all this hullabaloo in dating. GUsto ko GF. A gf of my own.

Nahihirapan na kasi ako sa nililigawan ko eh, for sure she has some quality pero lahat na yata ginawa ko to please her and yet ang lagi nya lang sagot eh 'I dont know'. But on the other side, parang ang hirap sa akin na mawala sya. Mahal ko na rin kasi sya and losing in the middle of this battle eh masakit para sa akin.

Im still weighing my options and you feedback will help me decide on my outcome dito.

PAgod na ako sa panliligaw sa kanya pero mahal ko na sya. Pero prang wala syang pagtingin sa akin.

 

[bella123]

@carlos uno- maybe you should talk to her and tell her na you're tired already with your situation,tell her na give up ka na in winning her as in face to face so that you'll see her initial reaction from there siguro may answer ka na makukuha,ang hirap din kasi na i judge sya  we don't know where is she coming from kung bakit sya ganun sayo. Good luck!

[trig]

bakit ba kase kayo mga ladies pag kayo nililigawan e pakipot pa kayo. Tapos pag gusto nyo naman guy kayo naman humahabol.

Ang gulo.Parang magnet na magkaiba polarity

[twinkletown]

@ oo nga! nawala mga post natin carlos_uno lastnight!

Well...tell her what you feel face to face. tama si sis bella, hindi din kasi kami makapg judge where the girl is coming from, side mo lang ang naririnig namin. hmm..it would be better for you to tell her in all honestly and directly na you're tired of your cat and mouse chase. tignan mo magiging reaction niya at ask her na din what keeps her from being your girl. maybe she is waiting for a moment like that to happen in order for her to admit na she does have feelings for you too.

[carlos_uno]

^^Mods nasan na po post namin ni twinkletown?

Actually kung ano man sana [textspeak!] last post mo, un na ang rallying point mo ko eh, to decide for the outcome.

Siguro naman 5 months of doing everything i could is enough for her to gauge me. Lahat naman kasi talaga nagawa ko na eh.

I swear im very very very tired na. Pati utak ko pagod na.

[muahmuahmuah]

ako din sumagot....nawala.


ulitin ko . sabi ko pagod na rin ako sa inyo. harhar.

oa masyado eh. love is a decision a woman knws if she wants to fcku, kill or marry a guy it doesnt take that long to go for it. kabaliwan na yun if shes comfrtble having u as a friend whod run to her rescue at her every bck and call she maybe seeing you as just that. wag ganun. if u cant be real dont play me.

nakakapagod. u may still love her just because of all the waiting u may not really be in love with her at all. pero magsasawa ka sa tao kasi eh its not the love at all.

go date other women. pwera joke. or just stop. totally stop ng bigla. unless e pamasko nya sa iyo ang matamis nyang oo on christmas. hahaha.gawd.

[teresahundana]

mahirap yata malaman kung sincere ang isang guy, kc nanliligaw palang eh, karamihan jan may halong pambobola

[twinkletown]

^^ haha,,eh di pag nagakataon, merry ang christmas at happy ang new year si bro carlos! harharhar!

[bugoy]

kaya mo yan hehe

[carlos_uno]

ako din sumagot....nawala.


ulitin ko . sabi ko pagod na rin ako sa inyo. harhar.

oa masyado eh. love is a decision a woman knws if she wants to fcku, kill or marry a guy it doesnt take that long to go for it. kabaliwan na yun if shes comfrtble having u as a friend whod run to her rescue at her every bck and call she maybe seeing you as just that. wag ganun. if u cant be real dont play me.

nakakapagod. u may still love her just because of all the waiting u may not really be in love with her at all. pero magsasawa ka sa tao kasi eh its not the love at all.

go date other women. pwera joke. or just stop. totally stop ng bigla. unless e pamasko nya sa iyo ang matamis nyang oo on christmas. LOL.gawd.

I didnt date lang actually. Somebody happened between me and my 'friend'. Siguro it was bound to happen. Dapat gf ko na ito eh (kasi quality wise, mas marami syang positive traits more than dito sa nililigawan ko), kaso walang seryosong ligawan pang nangyayari, puro lang kami pakiramdaman. Hanggang may nangyari na nga.

Naisip ko lang na sayang ang time and effort na naubos ko sa lady na ito kaya nag decide muna ako na iforego whatever is happening.

Dont get me wrong i like the girl but im troubled na. yoko kasi nang sobrang isipin eh, nasa states naman [textspeak!] 'friend' ko. Kanino ako pupunta if i stop seeing this girl? Magtalukbong na lang sa kama? hehe....

[twinkletown]

oh well mag hanap ka na lang ng iba!

[carlos_uno]

^^In short i suko ko na?

[twinkletown]

^ talk to her first as in face to face, diretsahan! see her reaction, give her a couple of days, give her an ultimatum. tutal you've been true to her, well somehow, if she doesnt get talk to you, then that's it. move on..dami girls dyan who has the quality na you've been looking for.

ika nga - set her free, if she comes back, she is your truly, if not she never really was.

[shane_ganda]

@carlos_uno ay matanada ka pala hehe..eh what happened dun sa ka-flirt mo? hehe hindi mo ba siya iniisip malay mo na iinlove na yun sayo?

^ yes tama ka sis!

@ carlos_uno, i think you need to step on some break fluid here..hold your horses my man! kaya mo siguro sinasabi na you tend to over-do your panliligaw kasi you think about it too much. YES its ok for you to plan things, pero not naman every step, gets mo? let it flow dude and let the course lead you to where is should be. ang mahalaga dito now is your showing your true feelings about her and she responds to that emotions, ma-feel mo naman kasi kung she is just trying to be nice to you dahil nice ka din sa kanya...enjoy mo lang, you are not technically over-doing it, BUT you're over-thinking about it. kung baga, sa pag-sangla ng gamit, you need na agad collateral para sureball ka na...wag ganun...

kaya ang hirap maging nice sa guy eh.. akala agad may gusto sa kanila. well not all the time hehe. off topic na ata