paano mo malalaman na sincere ang isang guy sa panliligaw sau???

[carlos_uno]

^^ thanks guys.

I think parang kami na hindi kasi nga halos exclusive na yung labas naming dalawa.

Like this morning ako naghatid sa kanya sa mga relatives nya. Pero strictly as driver lang kasi hindi na ako pumunta sa condo nang auntie nya...

Pero syempre being the conservative girl that she is, hindi sya showy. Pero positive naman lagi invites ko sa kanya.

[twinkletown]

^ ok lang yan...at least she is letting you in her life...

feeling ko dyan, slowly but surely kasi ang gusto niya.. ayaw niya ng mediocre realationship

[Kotty15]

kung makakapag antay sya.. yun yun..

[abbey05]

^^^if you were to ask me, ayoko naman na maging showy agad sa guy knowing na nanliligaw pa lang sya at hindi pa ko 100% sure na sasagutin ko sya or magiging kami. sis twinkle is right, just be thankful na ineentertain ka nya at nakakasama mo sya. =)

[twinkletown]

^ tumpak abbey!

[carlos_uno]

well thanks ulit.

Tama kayo at least shes enjoying my company so much.

We have plans for gimiks and all and everything she does now eh may mark ako kahit papaano since ako nga lagi companion nya.

Nga pala, last nght i asked her if i could hug her before going out of her condo. She didnt say yes but she didnt say no either. Pero dahil feeling ko naiilang sya, i just made some small gesture like akbay para mag goodbye.

Para sa akin big deal na un kasi at least hindi sya nag rereact. Before hands lang nahahawakan now i think i can hug her na.

Slowly but surely im seeing signs na may pag asa ako.

Dont get me wrong sissies ha, i am not taking advantage of her being alone in that condo. Siguro kung another fling lang un i could have done and think of something else.

But this girl is special. And i really like to keep her, for good.

[twinkletown]

that's good to hear then...

[CHRiS†iNE21]

For me, I would know na seryoso ang isang guy sakin kung may guts syang magpakilala sa family ko, and pag ipinakilala nya ko sa parents nya as his special girl

agree ako [textspeak!] sis...kc un mga ex ko na hndi ako pinakilala sa parents nla...cla un nagkaron ng 3rd party nun naging kmi na.tsk tsk.

[provenance1800]

Malalaman mong sincere pag me consistency ang panliligaw (di yung palitaw), he gives you time, he listens to you (genuinely ha), he's sincerely into you if he makes you feel that he will always be there for you.  Ang aking significant other from the day we met, he has not stopped calling me and giving me surprise gifts at thoughtful..at pag me bagyo at nasa labas ako sinusundo ako....itsurang ma traffic siya...dati nag site ako ssa pampanga...he drove all the way from Manila just to fetch me at rush hour pa yon.

[carlos_uno]

Actually sissies wala naman talagang problema sa sincerity ng mga guys eh specially sabi nyo nga makikita nyo naman un through his actions (like being thoughtful and all). Well there are guys na players (thats what you should find out) pero ang problema madami ring girls na mahilig sa mind games. Minsan ang other party na de drain na ang utak kakaisip how to answer the puzzle.

So ang nagyayari na ooverdo ng guy ang panliligaw or sometimes tatamarin na ang guy sa panliligaw dahil hindi nya makita ang real score.

Tanong: paano nyo naman ipapakita sa guy na positive kayo sa panliligaw nila without giving an obvious hint na type nyo sila?

[twinkletown]

^ para sa akin, buy answering your actions...

[Juri]

...pag nakita ka nya in your ugliest look!...at tinuloy pa rin nya pagdalaw sayo...

[abbey05]

^^^kapag inentertain ko sya. ako kasi yung tipo ng tao na kapag ayoko sayo, hindi kita i-eentertain at sasabihin ko sayong ayoko pa magka-bf. =P

[twinkletown]

^ oo nga..straight to the point...para hindi masayang ang effort

[abbey05]

^correct. nakakaawa rin kasi yung guy. unless gusto ko manamantala ng kabaitan nya. lol.

[twinkletown]

^ hay naku...yeah...mahirap mag paasa...may kakilala ako na ganyan...sobrang naging ka close ko yung guy, though ang real friend ko was the girl...naawa talaga ako dun sa guy, kaya nung biglang ni girl si guy, yung sympathy ko dun sa lalaki bongga!

[Juri]

...inspite of several rejection eh hinintay ka pa rin nya at nagbakasakaling sagutin mo sya...

[sweetjen]

extra effort sa pakikipag-date

as in, will go a long way para makita ka lang, tipong ganun.
saka aantayin ka kahit gaano katagal ka dumating 

papakilala ka sa mga friends nya kahit alam nyang, ibebenta sya ng mga yun hehe

simple gifts, long telephone conversation - kung di ba naman sya sincere pag-aksayahan ka ng oras telebabad.

pero, ikaw pa rin ang makakaalam sa sarili mo kung sincere ba sayo ang tao o hindi.

1st hand experience, ika nga

[newsoul]

dapat consistent at di siya nagsasawa sa company mo. he always makes you feel comfortable at concerned siya sayo. other than that he can face your parents. only time will tell talaga

[IceAngel_007]

consistency and his time for you.