Do you still get JEALOUS after being married?

[jesrora]

Ok lang na magselos, basta yung pakilig lang. 

[fegloria1954]

I agree with jesrora: it is okay to get jealous, even after being married.

I think it is a feeling to ensure that both spouses are always aware of how the Lord has defined a marriage to be:

From the First Letter of Paul to the Corinthians 7:1-5 (Chapter 7 verses 1 to 5):
1
Now in regard to the matters about which you wrote: "It is a good thing for a man not to touch a woman,"
2
but because of cases of immorality every man should have his own wife, and every woman her own husband.
3
The husband should fulfill his duty toward his wife, and likewise the wife toward her husband.
4
A wife does not have authority over her own body, but rather her husband, and similarly a husband does not have authority over his own body, but rather his wife.
5
Do not deprive each other, except perhaps by mutual consent for a time, to be free for prayer, but then return to one another, so that Satan may not tempt you through your lack of self-control.

If only these verses were also highlighted in pre-cana seminars, and during the wedding ceremony - then married couples will become more aware that neither of them can give their bodies to any one else other than the person they are married to.

This was the bible reading that struck my husband's cold heart and brought him to the point of remorse and he sought my forgiveness, when we did the RETROUVAILLE July of 2008.

Mommy Fe

[PINKAHOLIC]

Yes naman lalo na at band member sha and manager.
Andyan ang mga girls na maaarte..
Recently lang nagselos ako sa lady singer nila, imagine tinatapik yung hubby ko sa legs na nakatawa, and take now sa harap ko pa.
Nakikitawa na lang ako pero sobra na asar ko nun,
kapal nya, 35 na sha at si hubby 30, ako naman 20,
oo't bata ako, mas maganda, mas maputi pero kasi mas sexy sha at maarte by nature.
Revealing din magdamit kaya minsan nakaka insecure.
May anak na nga sha pero walang asawa in short malandi talaga feeling close pa sakin.

Kaya nga nate-tempt na akong magpasexy ulit kasi un nalang ang kulang,
ok naman ang skin tone ko, di naman ako pangit un nga lang tumaba talaga ako nung na preggy sa 2 kids, haays..
Siguro babaguhin ko din attitude ko kasi i admit medyo childish / selfish and nagiging immature & unfair sometimes.

Tapos nadagdagan pa yung inis ko ng makita ko picture sa Fb na tinag sakanya,
pics ng banda nila na ,
5 silang member pero sha ang nakatabi kay girl na gurang.
Kaasar lang kasi kuha yung pics sa batch reunion nila,
dapat kasama ako nun kasi wife nya ako pero wag na daw,
un pala yung banda pala nya ang tutugtog at hindi yung dating banda nilang magkaka classmate.
Talagang gigil ako sa babae kasi umasungot na naman,
kala maganda boses e boses palaka.
Ang pangit pa nya talaga ang itim ng lips kayoyosi at baduy magdamit na labas na pati kaluluwa.
Bad na kung bad pero ayoko talaga sakanya.

May tiwala ako kay hubby pero sa kalanturan nya, WALA!

[hedonista]

eversince selosa ako, and seven years kami naging gf/bf..kaasar kasi sobrang friendly sa mga babae ..mejo binawasan na nga niya but still selosa pa rin ako ...mejo masakit din sa dibdib mag carry ng kutob..nakakacardiac!

ako rin going 4 years kami and last month lang kami kinasal. laging yan issue selos.

friendly bordering on flirty kasi si mister by nature. ako possessive na selosa talaga. pero kung wala naman ako napapansin at kutob walang selos. tsk. lason talaga yang selos sa relasyon!

[jpsv72]

Dati yes, first few years of our marriage but 'got tired of it na. . .

Now???

Nope, actually it's the opposite, kadalasan nasasakal nako sa pagiging seloso nya 

[lulay17]

Yes I still get jealous all the time. Maybe because we did not have that solid background that can support a healthy marriage. Adjusting period talaga and we are both trying to make things work pa kaya I am always unsure of his faithfulness. I guess I am not that comfortable yet. maybe in the longer run, if we are still together. I am comfortable enough to let him be

[meyzteryouzah]

i still get jealous, selosa kasi akong tao. i dont want him having drinking sessions if may girls silang kasama. its either, puro boys or he stays at home. lol. good thing sinusunod naman niya ako.

[anna1120onate]

Nasa personality naman tlaga ang pagiging selosa e. They say it is born out of being insecure. I admit this!

I'm just thankful to have a very patient and understanding husband. One who reassures me that I'm the only one for him and I can see that it's true.

Pero, as I said being jealous is a bad habit to die when it's innate in you. It will take a very patient,loyal, & loving person to help you conquer this.

Til now, i'm learning to curb this trait. Sometimes I win, sometimes not hehe

[issey]

its normal to get jealous lalo na LDR kami ni hubby 2 years na... mahirap... pero sabi nila its all the TRUST you give him.. the last time i got jealous sa friend niya na girl na nakita niya dun for sooo long, sobra ako naging praning.... i deal with it, with the help of my friends, lumabas ako.. nagpakasaya saya... friends who are truly a blessing to me... hindi nila ako iniwan..

[cecile**]

minsan lang kapag tipong nagpapasikat sya sa mga dati nyang naging gf at crush

[iam.janedoe]

It depends. 

[krazeekat]

No...thank God I'm blessed having a wonderful husband 

[mheliza_09]

^yes.. ang gwapo kasi ng asawa ko.  Honestly speaking, feeling ko kasi hindi lumebel ang kagandahan ko sa kagwapuhan nya, ayun tuloy, insecure much. Buti na lang patay na patay sa kin si hubby! hihi. 

[mimii]

im not really selosa but after we get married feeling ko selosa nako, siguro kasi alam ko married na kami at hindi nako pwede basta basta humiwalay unlike before na madaling sabiing break na tayo. nakakainis sya naman tong sobrang seloso dati na ngayon pa'easy easy na lang. haay.

[prettypreppy]

yes, 13 years together and still very selosa 

[smoothie]

selosa ako before but now mas naging selosa na ako.

[Dacian]

sometimes.

[MNG]

Before, when were still dating kung 300% ang pagiging selosa ko,ngayon 50% nalang

[Periwinkle25]

Yup, i still do..sa ibang naging bf ko, hindi ako selosa..sa kanya ako natuto then lumabas na pagiging selosa ko..lol..Ngayong kasal na kami, parang mas naging selosa ako but he didn't give me any reason naman..and he's vocal na ako lang talaga..dapat lang kasi siya lang din talaga 

[Analene3]

I have to admit, I do get jealous sometimes but it rarely happens. Even though my hubby is malandi or making pa-cute with pretty girls, or mostly sight seeing some chicks, I know he wont cheat on me. I'm not pretty, and I know his type, so more often I tend to get insecure but jealousy is a different thing for me.