Do you still get JEALOUS after being married?

[mikaela325]

^i agree natumbok mo sis

[fegloria1954]

Yes, I still get jealous every now and then if I have certain perceptions and judgments.

To think that we have been together already almost 36 years, including the dating years.

Mommy Fe

[chrlxmyot]

^i agree natumbok mo sis

 ;Dsapul ba sis?hehe...ako kasi talaga di emotionally secured from hubby..he never uttered the words we, women are longing to hear, kahit na di mo alam kung totoo masarap pa din pakinggan na sasabihin sa iyo ng partner mo yung assurance na there will be no other woman besides you..di ba? sarap pakinggan kahit papano you'll have a feeling of security...and a peace of mind...

[sylvericon]

well, I am although it's because yung girl hindi niya alam ang limitations niya

[candycanes]

di naman ako nagselos..perhaps my husband didnt give me any reason to be jealous of someone. 

[lyn]

We've been married for 5 years now...I really didn't feel that much selos actually after we got married. Yung bf/gf kami, nag se-selos ako sa mga ex nya. Ngayon di naman, just once in a while. I feel secure naman sa feelings nya sakin. But there are times na may mga babae nagfli-flirt sa hubby ko. Buti nalang di pumapatol hubby ko.

Nag seselos ako sa mga PC/Xbox games nya. Kasi dyan sya palagi nakatutok yung face nya.

But if I demand his attention naman he gave it to me. So okay lang, di naman cya addicted sa games.

[c00lit]

we've been married for almost four months pa lang, but yes, i still get jealous.  i even told my husband parang mas naging insecure yata ako nung mag-asawa na kami especially during the first few weeks.  weird pero kasi baka since feeling nya asawa nya na ako, mawala na yung thrill. 

[sistah_mom]

yeah when we were just starting... Pregnant tapos sa house lang ako.. grabe sobrang insecure ako that time!

but not now... i feel secured and loved by my hubby.   

[ayami]

Most of the time. Pano students palang kami in college when we got married. When I was preggy, he goes out with his girl classmates to bars sa Eastwood without even telling me where he's going that night. Umuuwi pa sya ng madaling araw. And the fact na he's been adding mostly female friends from his school sa FB that I do not know nor he bothered to talk about. Right now I still have these issues in mind. I really don't know how to deal with jealousy up to now 

[sistah_mom]

hi sis! maging open ka sa kanya.. tell him what you feel and try to establish an open communication relationship. its really difficult when starting.. kasi nandoon yung resistance sa part niya especially when you start opening issues. Konting tiyaga talaga pag umpisa. On our part, a lot of fight muna talaga kasi hindi ko din alam i express noon yung mga nararamdaman kong pain sa kanya. But then, naisip ko kailan ko pa susubukan... i don't want to have a broken marriage so i decided to be open to him.

Just one advice sis, dont' nag your hubby... ask nicely and you'll be surprise siya mismo mag-oopen up na din siya sa iyo.

[officebusters]

matagal na yong issue na selosan sa amin tungkol sa ex nya..

[ayami]

Ngayon naman sinabi ko na yung reasons kung bakit ganon ako nainis sa kanya, pero somehow kada ginagamit nya yung phone nya in a weird manner (ie magkatabi kami pero sa ibang direksyon pa haharap just to text plus yung log nya always clear) I can't help but feel this instinct na nagsasabing something's wrong. Anyway, sana lang sabihin nya kung sinusino kasama nya para siguro wala ring doubts :|

[swtgrl_bee]

yes, nakurot ko nga siya kanina eh He loves it naman, paminsan minsang selosan

[bluez]

yes nung early years pero ngayun deadma na

[twelvth_goddess]

I cant remember being jealous but i am very POSSESSIVE and TERRITORIAL. So far wala pa naman kaseng ginagawa si hubby na ikakaselos ko.

[knohrhyn04]

yes ofcourse! but not as much as nun bf/gf palang kame,,,yun selos ngyon more of lambing selos lang [textspeak!]

[ebbah]

Nope. hindi gaya ng magbf/gf pa lang kami as in lahat na lang yata pinagselosan ko. ewan ko ba o hindi nya lang siguro ko binibigyan ng rason magselos. i feel more secure now na married na kami. LOL.

[wkt]

im not really the jealous type pero possesive ako.
whats mine is mine alone.
ayaw ko ng may kahati sa husband ko, kahit ano pa yan like work/in-laws/etc.

[pinkstone]

buti pa kayo mga sis,ako sobrang selosa at possessive talaga,yun talaga ang parating issue namin ng hubby ko,unlike other married couples,na financial at more serious matters na ang pinag-aawayan,sa amin yun lang talaga,other than that ok naman kami,mas selosa nga ako ngayun na maried na kami kaysa ng bf/gf palang kami,hindi kasi ako secure sa part na yan kasi hindi niya sinasabi sa akin yung mga gustong marinig ng babae sa lalaki,yung tipong kahit parang binobola ka e,masarap parin pakinggan,hindi kasi vocal ang hubby ko eh,masyadong honest. gusto ko lang naman marinig na sabihin niya,na wala akong dapat ka selosan,dahil ako lang ang babae sa puso niya,at pinakamagandang babae sa paningin niya

[ayami]

buti pa kayo mga sis,ako sobrang selosa at possessive talaga,yun talaga ang parating issue namin ng hubby ko,unlike other married couples,na financial at more serious matters na ang pinag-aawayan,sa amin yun lang talaga,other than that ok naman kami,mas selosa nga ako ngayun na maried na kami kaysa ng bf/gf palang kami,hindi kasi ako secure sa part na yan kasi hindi niya sinasabi sa akin yung mga gustong marinig ng babae sa lalaki,yung tipong kahit parang binobola ka e,masarap parin pakinggan,hindi kasi vocal ang hubby ko eh,masyadong honest. gusto ko lang naman marinig na sabihin niya,na wala akong dapat ka selosan,dahil ako lang ang babae sa puso niya,at pinakamagandang babae sa paningin niya

alam mo sis, ako lalong nawiwindang sa sobrang pagka vocal ng hubby ko sa ganyang bagay, to the point na napaparanoid na ko kasi baka sobrang pambobola nya sakin. yung feeling ko kasi sinasabi lang nya yun dahil nagguilty sya :|