Laitera ka ba? Self-confessed Mean Girls

[t_r_i_s_h]

Yes pero pag mas kalait lait sakin. Never ako nanlait ng MAS sakin hahaha basta ganon!

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ Good point since you don't want it to boomerang back to you, so to speak

[imyourangel]

I'm a self-confessed mean girl. That is, if I'm with my best friend. Hahaha. Usually kasi kasama ko lang bf ko, so minsan hindi siya maka-relate sa mga pagka-mean namin. So good influence si boyfie. Hihi

With my bff naman, we tend to be mean to those who are also not nice to us. Eye for an eye ito, haha! Just recently we made pintas to the girlfriend of her ka-MU na mukhang tita, to think ang bata pa ng guy. And we made pintas din to the ex of my boyfriend who posted about me in facebook!

[estelle21]

di ako laitera. ewan ko kung bakit. haha.

ok lang sakin kung ano pa itsura, size, porma ng tao. di ko hinuhusgahan.

nanglalait lang ako kung me ginawang masama sakin o sa friend ko. e.g. nakikita ko lang na mukhang kabayo nga si girl nung niloko nya hal. yung friend ko. mga ganun.

pero normally, no comment ako sa mga tao. i accept who they are. 

[monikka sun]

depende! kung talagang kalait kalait sya e tapos masama ang attitude!! lalaitin ko talaga!! hahaha! ;)

[TysLolakins]

I guess the consensus is we're only mean and bitchy to those who have bad attitudes and already meaner and bitchier than us.

[traxxex21]

Hindi naman laitera, If you ask me to describe someone, I will be honest about it. Kung banlag naman talaga sya diba?!

[kristinebarrios]

prangka lang hehe

[t_r_i_s_h]

I guess the consensus is we're only mean and bitchy to those who have bad attitudes and already meaner and bitchier than us.

I agree! 

[minaco_aino]

Yes self-confessed laitera ako sa mga taong masama ang ugali. Alam nyo yung feeling mayaman pero baon sa utang. Feeling maganda pero butas butas naman ang mukha at looks 10 years older sa age nya. At lalaitin ang anak ko pero hindi naman kami close. Lalaitin ko talaga sya ng bonggang bongga. Haha. Sorry she's a b**** talaga!

[maye2k]

I was before, but when I started to read the bible and apply its principles bit by bit I have changed and avoided such deed, though human as we are minsan nasa isip then I will not utter na lang, then i-pray and I ask forgiveness.

Matthew 7:1-5

 “Stop judging that you may not be judged; 2  for with the judgment you are judging, you will be judged, and with the measure that you are measuring out, they will measure out to you. 3  Why, then, do you look at the straw in your brother’s eye but do not notice the rafter in your own eye? 4  Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Allow me to remove the straw from your eye,’ when look! a rafter is in your own eye? 5  Hypocrite! First remove the rafter from your own eye, and then you will see clearly how to remove the straw from your brother’s eye.

[jieunae]

Minsan may pagka mean talaga ko.  Depende.  Nilalait ko lang kasi yun masasama yun ugali at my attitude.Di naman talaga lait minsan pawang katotohanan lamang.  Maldita talaga ko aminado ako dun.  Kabaliktaran ng bff ko na super bait.

[ilykeee]

Laitera ako pero hinde ko kinukwento sa ibang tao, sa asawa ko lang. Pero kapag may ibang tao na nauna mag kwento about sa certain tao dun lang ako magkkwento, yung ako yung mauuna malabo.

[ri-anne]

I think depende sa kinalakihan. I grew up na wala kaming TV (yup!) so i guess i was not exposed to media's "standard" of beauty...lol! And people around me are also not laitero/laitera. I was also fortunate enough na puro positive words at compliments naririnig ko from people around me (parents, relatives, friends, teachers, professors, classmates, officemates etc)
So, hindi ako laitera..physically or ugali man nya ay hindi maganda. I don't really see the purpose. Putting someone else down doesn't make me feel good about myself. Maybe it works for others. Lol!

Eto ang irony --my husband is super laitero! Sinabihan ko nga sya before eh and medyo nag-lie low na sya..i think naging good influence ako sa hehe

Sabi nga nila pagiging pranka lang daw...yes, maybe, but i was taught kasi na if i don't have anything nice or good to say about someone, better not say anything at all....unless if it's a friend I care about, but i'm sure there are better ways how to tell someone about his/her shortcomings without coming off as mean diba.

[izabelle]

Usually kapag masama ang ugali, nilalait ko. Yun lang. Mas importante kasi sa akin ang ugali ng tao kesa hitsura.

Madali naman maging maganda, make up lang at editing katapat LOL pero ang ugali, walang photoshop na pwede mag ayos nyan.

[purple.strawberry]

Hindi. Even if, well, physically unattractive or talagang off yung fashion sense, di ko pinapansin kasi we're individuals naman e di ba, we're different from each other talaga.

There are few instances lang na kapag masama ugali, ayun nakakapagcomment ako ng medyo bitchy ang dating.

[redhead69]

Guilty af. Pero depende, pag siguro may kalait lait talaga like girls na nangmamaliit ng tao tapos super nanglalait and nagmamaganda pero pag tinignan mo mukha naman siyang maid. ewan ko ba. Naiirita ako sa mga ganon. Naawa ako sa mga bnbully nila pero di nila inaayos muna sarili nila.

Palagi ko lang naman nalalait yung mga taong bad rin. Its either i keep it in my mind pag masyadong offensive naiisip ko. Or talk to him/her directly and tell him/her what i feel about her. Kumbaga share ko lang para malaman naman niya ginagawa niya. Ayoko lang may nangbubully. Kasi nangbubully ako ng mga bully sa school namin.(bully=lait)

[krystalB]

ehem.

Kapag kasama ang girlfriends. Haha

[molybdenumstudios]

Guilty af. Pero depende, pag siguro may kalait lait talaga like girls na nangmamaliit ng tao tapos super nanglalait and nagmamaganda pero pag tinignan mo mukha naman siyang maid. ewan ko ba. Naiirita ako sa mga ganon. Naawa ako sa mga bnbully nila pero di nila inaayos muna sarili nila.

Hahaha. I know some guy who is laitero, pero mukha naman siyang chakang dugyot.

[twelvth_goddess]

I used to be but I've grown out of that immaturity. I still sometimes fall into that pit when I'm really mad and the person is super deserving but I try my best to keep the negative comments to myself.