minumura ba kayo ng gf/bf/wifey/hubby n'yo?

[ashara]

gandang hapon. OO grabe magmura ang asawa ko as in PI talaga. Tapos magaling syang manumbat na para bang wala akong isip. mahilig syang isisi sa akin lahat, as in lahat, kahit kasalanan nya akonpa rin ang mali.

Nagtitiis ako para sa anak ko..

Dahil sa kanya na demoralized na ako ng husto, nawala na ang tiwala ko sa sarili ko.

Itigil ko muna pag share , tumutulo na luha ko. Sana kayanin ko pa pinag dadaanan ko ngayon. Please pray for me.....

same here sis . ganyan na ganyan din hubby ko
baka isa lang tayo ng hubby hehe joke

smile na sis.pinapatawa lang kita..kya mo yan .. goodluck satin

[ri-anne]

it's a sign of disrespect if the husband does this to his wife (it goes both ways...i mean, mamumura mo ba husband mo if you love & respect him?)
besides, this is one of the things that should be nipped in the bud...something na at the first instance pa lang, hindi na tino-tolerate para hindi lumala.
you know the saying what you tolerate, you cannot change

to greinhabaluli: leave him asap. you got to have self-respect. buti nga bf mo pa lang sya. you deserve someone much much better than that a**hole! you deserve to be loved and treated well...easier said than done? go to your family and friends for help and emotional support...and pray..

to teng galing: prayer brings miracles...pero you also have to do something to change the situation..have you talked to your hubby & told him how you feel? since asawa mo na yan hindi rin pwede basta iwanan...build your confidence..maybe magpa-beauty ka, have a new hobby at home (i assume ur sahm and cant leave ur kid)......still try to be the best wife you can be..asikasuhin mo pa rin sya.....BUT once ginawa nya na naman yun, Assert yourself!  Can you threaten to leave him ba para mauntog or something? Anyway, be strong sis....get you strength from Him..and from your family..

ang haba na pala..para di OT: nope. he doesn't he can curse esp pg nabwiset sya sa traffic or ibang tao, pero grabe na if nangyari yun, & not to me. worst he said was yung unang away namin as bf/gf 15 yrs ago pa...h3 was surprised that i have a big appetite kasi slim ako..he said "para ka palang baboy kumain" jokingly...but i didnt like the comment...kaya ayun...never said anything like that or any demeaning comments even if it was meant as jokes..
was never really a fan of those kinds of jokes or humor..lol..one can be funny w/o bringing other ppl down right? ooopps OT na...

[brendzy]

No, never in our entire relationship na minura nya ako, no matter what situation is. And I do the same to him, in as much as possible we do not say such words kasi we ayaw lang namin  , I agree it's a sign of respect kung hindi ka sasabihan ng ganun.
try to assess your feelings, kaya mo ba mkisama sa ganyang tao, naku, baka maging breakfast, lunch, dinner at snacks pa ang mura. but cast everything to God, nothing is impossible to Him, tayo, hindi natin mapapabago ang kapwa natin, but it's God.

[greenpease05]

No. never. I will never do or let it happen.

Cursing your hubby or ka relasyon is not good at all. Respect should be one of your foundation.
Without it no, trust, understanding and love will grow.

 

 

[lisse]

Never, and I've never done this to him and we hope that it will never happen. we fight of course, taasan ng boses pero hindi pa naman full blown sigawan. no name-callings din. Respect lang and lagi kasi namin iniisip kahit na pissed off kami sa isa't-isa eh mahal na mahal pa rin namin ang bawat isa.

[googoo]

Not once that I can remember!

When you are being verbally abused, it's time to ask yourself if you're willing to live that way for the rest of your life.  It won't change once it starts.  Once you pop, you won't stop.

[roxy14]

No. sa 2 years nga namin siguro mga 3 or 4 times ko pa lang siya naririnig magmura. yung 3 siguro dun dahil nagulat siya, yung isa sa sobrang inis. pero hindi sakin

[whatswithjuly]

no. kasama yan sa rules namin na ako nag-set. bawal magmura. kaya kahit sira, t*nga, hindi pwede. kasi form of respect yan. para sakin, wala ng sense na magpasweet pa kayo specially infront of others kung pag nagka-away naman, wala na kayong respect. palamura kami pareho, pero expression lang naman. but we make it a point na hindi namin minumura ang isa't isa kahit sobrang galit.

[imbisibol_]

never ever has, never ever does, and never ever will- i hope. 

i did have a previous relationship where the poor-excuse-of-a-man had a FILTHY mouth.  it was pure verbal abuse and mental torture.  i got out of that relationship STAT!

[cloudzy_09]

Hindi naman kami verbally abusive to each other siguro ako minsan napapamura ako pag galit na galit ako pero kahit na nag aaway kami we still try be respectfull. Pero kung lagi ka minumura atndina down ng bf mo at iniinsulto pa e bakit ka pa mag titiis minsan kailangan paganahin din ang utak hindi lang puro puso.

@grainhabaluli

I think your family doesnt like your bf for good reason maganda din kung makikinig ka sa kanila kasi hindi ka naman nila gusto mapahamak. Kung angvrelationship mo with your bf is naging abusive na hangang kailan ka mag titiis I know you love your bf and all but you have to love your self muna.

[gharz412]

subukan lang niya kung hindi ibabalik ko siya sa nanay niya...

[sixteen16]

yes pero expression na nya yung mura,. sinasabihan ko kontrolin nya kasi pangit pakinggan lalo na kapag may nakarinig na ibang tao.

[donzski_doinks]

there was one time na namura nya ako. i admit i was at fault din. kasi, nawalan ako ng 100 eh sya, he has this habit of pulling a prank on me, so sabi ko ilabas n nya. sabi nya wala daw sa kanya, i did not believe him and kept on asking him to give it back. ayun, napikon ata, pumutak na parang manok and narinig ko nalang sabi nya sa akin "g*go" nagulat ako dhl never naman ako minura ni hubby before kahit pabiro so sabi ko "g*go ka din!" hahaha

of course it wasnt okay. di ko talaga cya kinausap for few hours. i only talked to him after he approached me and apologized to me.di daw sadya.napikon lang. pinatawad ko and i said sorry too because i know i was at fault din.

btw, kinabukasan, nakita ko din yung 100 sa inner pocket nung school bag ko. pero di ko na sinabi sa kanya. baka maalala pa ginawa ko na pambibintang at magalit sa akin. hehe

[swatchgotha]

we are married for 18 years.. before never talaga kahit sobra ang galit namin sa isat-isa kahit nung unang nabuko ang pambababae nya never kame nagmurahan.. but something happened na naman early 2011, and now grabe ang murahan namin kapag nag-aaway kame. Parang wala na nga respeto sa isat-isa. Pag nagagalit sya umaabot sa point na binabasag nya ang cp nya.. twice na nyang ginawa iyan. Ako din sobrang nagagalit na ako kaya ayun lahat ng mura lumalabas na din sa bibig ko..

[mspepot]

More on ako pag nag aaway kame pero hindi naman yung PI more on g**o, sira ulo bwisita ka. Pinagsasabihan niya ko kasi siya daw kahit pabiro or nag aaway kame hindi siya nagsasabi ng mga ganung word sana daw baguhin ko yung ganung ugali ko

[dropdeadgorgeous]

never.

kapag galit kami at nag aaway, sasabihin namin ang aming kanya kanyang dahilan pero never akong nakarinig ng mura sa kanya. i do the same to him kasi ayoko na minumura din ako. isa pa, mainam nga na ganito kasi kapag may kasamang mura, bukod sa maaanghang na mga sumbat at nakakadagdag lang sa sakit. so ipinagpapasalamat ko ito sa partner ko.

[tellycopter]

Si bf ngayon na daddy ni baby ko hindi pa naman so far. Pero I experienced being verbally abused by my ex bf. He always accuses me of having an affair with someone. Isang unknown number lang magtext or tumawag tamang hinala na sya kaagad na may iba ako. He keeps on checking my Friendster account, my inbox, call log, anything na mode of communication. Kahit hi lang yung message super laking issue na kaagad. Sorry for the terms pero lagi nya akong tinatawag na b*tch, sl*t, wh*re, malandi, makati, sinungaling. 3 years din kaming nagsama.

[reb_woods072683]

If "bwset ka" is considered as mura, then yes.

[elle_888]

Usually yung mga guys na nag tatamang hinala agad sa gfs nila or wife ay yung meron mga kabit or ibang dinedeskartehan either at work or somewhere. I used to get accused a lot by my insecure bf before but it i later on found out that sya pala yung may iba. Ako pa yung namura at napag salitaan.

[chinkywinky]

never, and I don't think he would say that to me. Pag nangyari yon, wala na kaming respeto sa isa't-isa, hiwalayan na