Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?

[AltaVida]

nasabi ko to minsan sa best friend ko.. kala naman daw niya super happy kaming dalawa kasi hindi nga kami nag-aaway.. pero siyempre may mga issues kasing sensitive na ayoko na sabihin sa friend ko.. kasi ang ngyayari ngayon ako may sideline, siya regular work.. pero napapansin ko ako lahat ngbabayad ng bills, tapos yung sweldo niya napupunta sa gadgets, saka pamasahe nia sa work at pambigay sa mama niya, pag sinwerte ako may mabibigay siya sa food... nahihirapan kasi ako minsan feeling ko kapos na kapos kami.. may savings naman pero ayoko na kasi galawin yun... pinag-usapan na namin yun pero parang minsama niya na ibig ko raw bang sabihin eh hindi siya nagbibigay sa akin.. eh parang ganon na nga minsan ang dating.. parang 80% ng gastos ako ang sagot, siya 20% lang, kung tutuusin siya ang may trabaho.. pero maliit lang din kasi kita niya kaya iniintindi ko naman...

hindi ako nagsisisi na pinakasalan ko siya, pero naisip ko sana hindi kami nagmadali.. para nakapag ipon pa kami at napag usapan ang set up sa mga ganitong bagay.. ang hirap kasi pag pera ang issue.. hindi pa naman ako yung tipong kinukuha yung ATM ng asawa.. gusto ko kasi kahit paano may magastos naman siya para sa sarili niya kung may kailangan siya.. eh kaso ang ngyayari, pagbigay sa akin ng sweldo, bawas na, tapos babawasan pa para kay mama niya (na wala naman sa akin) tapos yung matitira yun ang para sa amin na bubudgetin ko, na parang kulang pa pamasahe niya sa work... hay... ayoko lang masira kami sa pera... napakawalang kwenta siguro kung ganon na hindi naman mapag usapan yun...

[babyphat]

dati oo but now hindi na. nakikita ko naman syang nag-eefort para magkaayos kami.

[cj_09]

yes, especially now na nagka baby kami! tamad sya mag-alaga!

hahaha natawa ako dito..nakakarelate ako sis..minsan naiiyak ako sa sarili ko dahil lagi ako nag-aalaga sa baby ko..pero sabi ng mother ko meron daw talagang ganon na lalaki..as long as good provider naman ok na din sa akin hehe

[axlrocksmyworld]

YES! i should have listened to my DAD! (sumalangit-nawa) 

[hyder0926]

sometimes.. because we came from diff family backgrounds, dynamics & values..

i can adjust to & understand some issues of their family but their life is soo.. different from mine

[joanniekiko]

No regrets, I love my husband so much! for me he's close to perfect.

[beatrize zuri]

hell no!  , wala na siyang magagawa. hindi ko siya pakakawalan! hahaha 

[kuliglig^^]

Sometimes. Lalo na pag di kami magkasundo dahil sa different backgrounds, beliefs and personality.

Pero alam ko namang we can work out our differences.

Kung maghihiwalay in the end, keber lang. Basta saken si baby. 

[babymine08]

sometimes kasi minsan pinaparamdam nya mga pagkukulang ko at mga pagkakamali ko noon bout my past. and sometimes masyado sya maiinitin ang ulo. hopefully hindi maubos pasenxa ko sa ugali nya

[curlyhair]

yes, i regret marrying my husband....sa napakaraming dahilan. but wala naman mangyayari if i keep on regreting. kaya i'm doing my best to be happy na lang by God's grace na din.... and doing everything for the sake of our kids. i love my kids so much kaya gusto ko buo pa rin ang family. iniisip ko na lang din na i'm there for my kids.....

[Nuriko]

Hindi. As in hindi. Wala naman kasi kaming major major problem at harinawa'y lagi kaming ganito: masaya. Nag-aaway lang kami pag nang-uungkat ako ng mga di dapat ungkatin 

[ceejhei]

YES! i should have listened to my DAD! (sumalangit-nawa) 

same here sis, though my Dad is still living and i know it hurts him seeing i am not in good hands. sana nakinig ako. mas magandang buhay sana nag iintay saakin.

[babypinkelle]

Sometimes YES, just like now. I don't feel important to him. I'm not even happy being married if someone would ask me. The only thing that makes me happy is my daughter. I can only feel his caress is when he wants to have sex with me. With that feeling, all I can think is how I miss being single! I became more hot tempered, easily stressed and uncontented which I'm not before I got married.  All I can think of now is I want to be alone and away from him! 

[bucketsale]

NO! NO! NO!

[dropdeadgorgeous]

a big no!

[kidsrepublik]

Sometimes YES, just like now. I don't feel important to him. I'm not even happy being married if someone would ask me. The only thing that makes me happy is my daughter. I can only feel his caress is when he wants to have sex with me. With that feeling, all I can think is how I miss being single! I became more hot tempered, easily stressed and uncontented which I'm not before I got married.  All I can think of now is I want to be alone and away from him! 

Same feeling sis, ganyan na ganyan den saken. My daughter is the only one making my day right and happy. I only feel important if he wants to go intimate, minsan nga I feel na humahan siya ng iba kapag Hindi ako pumapayag. sometimes I feel sad for my daughter coz Wala akong work pati si hubby, I feel lonely if naiisip kong Hindi ko mabigay mga kailangan ng anak ko. I told that to hubby, I want to start saving maybe an insurance for her and what's disappointing he said "next time na yan". magschool na siya next year, Wala pa ren kaming pera

[silverlilac]

NO. Never.

[kimmy13]

no!!! I'm happy

[gnrn_026]

YES

[Margaritabythebeach]

I'm not sure if I'm posting it sa right thread.. But do you ever regret getting married to your Husband? Have you ever thought na sana hindi na lang kami kinasal?

Lately, I've been thinking that. Na sana hindi na lang kami kinasal, siguro mas happy ako ngayon.

Kayo?

Thank you for posting this Complicated_liz. at least di ako nag-iisa. I've been married for 13 years now. I consider him my soulmate then. I gave up so much for him to have a good family. We were supposed to migrate to US but because his work is more lucrative here, di kami tumuloy. Now I don't have work, at sa kanya lang ako umaasa sa gastos. I have never felt to little and so lowly until now. Masyado siyang makwenta sa para. lahat ng sukli dapat ibalik. Pag ako me kailangan, walang budget. pag luho ng mga bata bigay agad. Nagusap na kami pero di niya ako naintindihan. siya daw ang kumikita ngayon. 

He is a very good provider to my kids and to us. t's only now that I feel that I should not have given up my dreams for him. Sana minahal ko muna ang sarili ko bago ko ibinigay lahat. now I don't have anything left for myself. I have never felt like this before. Parang trapped ako. If I pursues my dreams of migrating to Canada, young mga bata mawawalan ng happy family because I know they would be devastated without me.

Yes, I regret marrying him. I should have done things for myself first.