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fearich

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #500 on: March 19, 2012, 02:01:05 pm »
mas masaya pa siguro kung naging single mom na lang ako mas nagagawa ko pa ang mga gusto ko na walang kumukontra.  :(

mom_G

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #501 on: March 19, 2012, 02:02:12 pm »
no, i couldn't imagine life without him.

LLLA

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #502 on: April 08, 2012, 01:17:48 pm »
yes, kasi he cheated on me... pero napatawad ko na siya now..  :o

amalfi

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #503 on: April 08, 2012, 07:48:15 pm »
Yes, kasi natitiis niya kami ni baby. Umalis siya nung Thursday hanggang ngayon hindi pa siya bumabalik. Mukhang nagpalit na rin siya ng number kaya hindi siya natawagan.  :-\

zanabee

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #504 on: April 09, 2012, 01:30:02 pm »
yes, he is not the one i married before, he found happiness in humiliating me in front of my own family and others. ang taas ng tingin niya sasarili niya!

he brings out the worst in me, kung alam ko lang na magiging ganito siya kasama sa akin sana hindi ko na lang siya nakilala.

khengzky

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« Reply #505 on: April 09, 2012, 03:04:52 pm »
a big NO NO feeling ko im the luckiest wife ever for having a husband like him  :)

mitchal18

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« Reply #506 on: April 09, 2012, 08:17:08 pm »
nakakatakot naman mga nababasa ko XD

soft.talker

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« Reply #507 on: April 10, 2012, 01:45:26 am »
sometimes :(

9 yrs na kaming married, first live-in muna then after 1.5yrs, nagpakasal kami sa civil, si hubby ang mas excited na magpakasal kami since few months left na lang at aalis na siya for abroad, sabi ko naman after na lang contract niya sa abroad then later kami magpakasal. In the end, natuloy din civil wedding, pero family & friends lang nya invited, wala sa side ko, hindi rin naman siya nag-abala kase di siya close sa family ko bad shot siya, tiniis ko na lang impotant is magkasama kami.

After few weeks flight niya na for work abroad, I followed after 8 months with the advise na rin ng family ko plus pocket money that they contributed para lang makasunod ako kay hubby. So, i resigned from work here in manila and felt excited na makasunod kay hubby. ...pagdating ko dun, puro adjustment, hirap maghanap ng work, pero nakahanap din naman...kaso si hubby naging makasarili, sweldo niya is kanya lang, share niya sa house rent is half lang..yung pang kanya lang...groceries other bills puro ako...nagkasakit ako, he didn't even bother na samahan ako to my hospital visits and laboratories..palagi lang ako mag-isa nagpupunta hospital...until i came back  home sa phils. kase nagkasakit ako..I've had my treatment here in manila pero konti lang sya magpadala ng help..til i found out na tadtad na pala sya ng utang abroad..without my knowledge..

Haaissst financial infedelity as i may say..though wala naman kaming ayaw physically but emotionally talaga burdened ako sa attitude nya..

Noylabmay

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #508 on: April 10, 2012, 03:10:02 am »
ako every end of the month LOL tuwing dumadating ang mga bills hmm...ang hirap ayusin ng sirang finances nya pero dahil love ko sha un ang motivation ko and at least me improvement in our finances kahit konti

mrsdee

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #509 on: April 10, 2012, 04:40:08 am »
oh dear, this is by far one of my greatest fears - ang dumating sa point that I'd regret marrying him. we've been married for barely a year kaya too early to tell. pag dumarating yung ganung episodes, iniisip ko yung line na nabasa ko somewhere:

"reward the things you like, ignore the things you don't."

I'm not praying for a perfect marriage too (there isn't one), I'm praying for strength to stay and stick together despite sa aming imperfections at differences.

so to answer the question,
NO (as of the moment), and I hope NEVER in this lifetime.
« Last Edit: April 10, 2012, 04:43:22 am by mrsdee »

soft.talker

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #510 on: April 10, 2012, 09:51:50 am »
Well lucky for those mga sissess na talagang responsible ang husbands nila...ako kase sometimes feel ko na i'm falling out of love na yata...i need respect, time, attention & efforts...not always the money kase i'm also working, i have my own income din naman...after 2 sets of contracts nya abroad, bale 6 yrs lahat, here we are wala pa rin matawag na sariling place, gamit etc...kase si hubby tadtad ng utang until now di nya alam pano bayaran...2 months from now patapos na contract nya pero di sya sure if makakauwi sya, gusto nya mag-extend kase may training pa daw sya until november pero sabi ko.."aminin mo na kaya di ka makakauwi ng june kase di pa bayad lahat ng utang mo"...di rin sya umaamin saan niya nai-spend ang salary niya, eh monthly hindi naman siya nag-eentrega sa akin, kapag sinasabi ko yun entrega, sabi niya mukha daw akong pera...

Hands up! na talaga ako, but his mother is the one asking for forgiveness, kausapin ko pa rin daw anak niya kapag tumatawag, at si MIL pa nag-reremitt sa akin from pension niya, pangdagdag daw sa treatment ko.. madalas mag" I love you" ang mister ko halos ilang times in a day..pero sabi ko nga sa kanya dapat di lang sa bibig manggaling yun, it should come from the heart, it could have been said with efforts di ba? ...there are times i am thinking - i married the wrong guy -

stormy_princess

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #511 on: April 11, 2012, 08:25:54 am »
like now, i think i married the wrong guy. he is not the same guy i used to love. i feel neglected and rejected in so many ways. i cannot see the partnership essence in our marriage anymore. pag may gulo between me and his family, he opted to make kampi with his family kahit alam nya na ako na ang kinakawawa. with it, i found out na he dont have the balls to fight for me. now, im getting pressured for out daughter future but he seems to be very relax lang. when i ask him why he acted that way andito naman daw ako. marami marami at marami pang bagay which makes me think na sana marriage is contract based na lang para anyone has the right to renew it whenever they like it and just find someone who will understand and love and fight for them no matter what when the contract ends..

yrrageline96

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #512 on: April 18, 2012, 01:22:22 pm »
Im learning a lot here....for me, Hindi, siguro dahil mahal na mahal ko si Hubby (ang drama no ? ). At times nagagalit din ako sa kanya, my love is bigger than my anger talaga so parang kahit anong inis ko never kong naisip na sana di na lang sya. Sabi kasi namin nuon, we have to love eachother, no ifs no buts. I remember nuong mag BF pa lang kami....there was a time na talagang nagdadasal ako sabi ko Lord, sya ang gusto kong mapangasawa and I did promised na mamahalin ko sya ng wagas (chos!). Kaya pag naiinis ako...tinitingnan ko na lang ang mga anak namin na kung di sya....wala akong kegu-gwapong mga anak =) ( Love your own tee hee! !) 

adikako

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #513 on: April 19, 2012, 05:51:19 pm »
sometimes I'm regretting about marrying him.

I know it isn't fair, but at times na magkaaway talaga kami, it made me think what could have been kung yung EX ko ang napangasawa ko instead of him.

Dhee-Dhee

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #514 on: April 19, 2012, 10:17:10 pm »
at this very moment.. parang oo!  ::)

tashasabs

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #515 on: April 20, 2012, 10:02:50 am »
May times na kapag matindi yung away o tampuhan namin (bihira na 'to ngayon) naiisip ko yan o minsan naisusumbat ko pa. Pero I regret doing that kasi dala lang ng galit ko. I chose well in my opinion--I actually admire my husband for sticking with me. Bata kasi kami nagkaanak (as in bata! Haha!) and never kami naghiwalay sa seven years na kami hanggang sa naging mag-asawa na.

It's true I gave up a lot of things just to be with him--my being a daddy's girl/favorite, maraming material things na nabibigay sa akin dati ng tatay ko, yung amor ng tatay ko at relatives sa side niya, etc., pero kung ikukumpara ko yun sa relationship namin, kaya ko naman mabuhay na wala yung mga yun. So it's all good.   :)

ghichy

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #516 on: April 29, 2012, 12:20:12 pm »
yes, especially now na nagka baby kami! tamad sya mag-alaga!

FayeP

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #517 on: April 29, 2012, 02:50:58 pm »
sa ngayon masassabi ko na hindi ako nagsisisi, no regrets na cya ang kasama ko ngayon (un pala si hubby ang may regrets hahaha patay!!!)

hindi perfect si hubby pero inaalagaan nya ako, un anak namin, tapos patient cya, di cya mareklamo...

tapos cya pa ang nag aasikaso sa house at sa baby...pero kahit pagod cya ako pa din inuuna nya pag uwi ko, as in asikaso pa din nya ako, inaantay nya ako lagi umuwi para sabay kami mag dinner...

sweet pa din cya kahit matagal na din kami married...


babyphat

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #518 on: April 29, 2012, 09:20:09 pm »
now as in now, oo!

swtgrl_bee

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Re: Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?
« Reply #519 on: April 30, 2012, 02:25:24 pm »
Still... NO :)

 

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