Do you ever regret marrying your Husband?

[honey_iya]

No and Never!

[passionfruity]

Yes i do regret na may halong panghihinayang.

[mgeoffrey_88]

No and i am hoping that it will never reach that point.

[aya_chan]

Hello.. Actually hindi pa naman kami married. But we're planning to by the end of this year. Nung una parang naeexcite ako na hindi ko maintindihan. Pero now, I'm having doubts and second thoughts. Mind you, we're also in a LDR. Ok naman kami dati eh. Pero now, things are not the same anymore. Wala na yung spark, wala na yung magic. I'm turning 23 this year. Maraming nagsasabi sa akin na bata pa daw ako and I should focus on my career muna. Nung una talaga pinaglalaban ko yung plans namin, kahit sa mom ko. But now, iba na yung nafi-feel ko. Hindi kasi siya nagbabago eh..
Siya yung tipo ng guy na kulang sa diskarte sa buhay. His turning 26 this year pero di niya na tapos pagaaral niya. Ayos lang naman sa akin yun eh, walang kaso. Yun nga lang, tamad maghanap ng trabaho. Kung di mo pupukpukin di kikilos.. Lagi pa siyang umaasa sa kuya niya na bread winner nila.. Last year pa lang sinasabi niya na sa akin na maghahanap siya ng work for us para paguwi ko sa Pinas eh may budget pang wedding. Kaso almost half a year na BUM pa rin siya. What breaks my heart the most is I'm doing everything that I could para lang makauwi sa Pinas sa Dec. Kahit gustong gusto ko na umalis sa trabaho ko at lumipat ng iba (sayang kasi ang vacation leave), di ko magawa. Hai ngayon nagdadalawang isip ako kung itutuloy ko ba.. Sabi nga nila wala naman nagsisisi sa umpisa, laging sa huli. I tried makipaghiwalay sa kanya kasi he's being so immature and our relationship is stagnant na! Stuck na kami sa ganitong phase, walang pagbabago. Kaso sa haba haba ng sinabi ko nung nakikipagbreak na ko, "OK" lang ang sinabi niya sa akin in the end.
I'm so confused on whether to continue this or not.

*Sorry if medyo out of topic. Pero sa mga nababasa ko kasi dito na they regret marrying their spouse, lalo akong natatakot at nagkakaron ng doubts. I hope someone can enlighten me. Thank you.

[khyerein]

yes & no..
yes kasi until now wala nangyayari sa buhay namen. sa pamilya nya p kame nakatira., so most of the time feeling binata siya. d niya p ako pinapapayagan maghanap ng work kasi wala magaalaga sa baby namen.so meaning asa kame sa magulang niya. by the way 2yrs. na kame kasal.

no kase i still believe na magbabago p lahat. no choice e. andito na to.

[sweet_innocent]

ooh definitely definitely yes!

[googalee]

Yes & No.

Yes nanghihinayang talaga ako and sometimes I wish I didn't settle - and the fact that his mother is such a pain doesnt help either.

No because deep inside I know kung mababalik ko yung panahon siya pa rin ang pipiliin ko.

On days when I feel regretful I just try to think and look back on why I love him in the first place.

I think ^female01 really explained it best for me... as thats how I also feel.

[leelou]

not that i regret but minsan naiisip ko na parang nagmadali kami. we should have discussed a lot of things before we got married. kase later on lang marealize na we differ on a lot of things. but marriage is decision and you just have to learn to deal with all those differences. minsan nakakapikon pero i just try to look back and think of the things why i fell in love with him. tsaka wala nang magagawa eh andyan na yan 

[kathon]

No, kasi we both love each other naman and dun din naman na kami papunta. Pero given a chance na ibalik yung dati siguro mas gusto ko kung di kami nagpakasal kagad. We were engaged na that time and planning to get married after a year pero i got pregnant so the next month kami kinasal and civil lang. Siguro kung di ako nabuntis at next year pa kami kinasal mas ok for me, kasi naiprepare nyo na talaga yung sarili nyo as husband and wife.
But then, ok na din, for the first year ng pagsasama namin madalas kami mag away siguro kasi pareho kaming nag adjust. Ngayon naman, ok na, nakapag adjust na kami and alam na namin ang mood at ugali ng bawat isa.

[cloudcean]

no, i can't imagine being married to another person. though he's not perfect and we are complete opposites i am happy being married to him and having kids with him.

[aquacharly]

At least once a week. 

[web147]

 ^natawa naman ako sayo sis bakit once a week?

[Mrs_H]

At least once a week. 

Apir tayo sis! Once a week

[rose_24]

Yes... I regret marrying him... Pagkatapos ng mga nangyari sa pagsasama namin pagkatapos namin makasal eh masasabi kong marrying him is the most wrong decision I've ever done in my life...

[pretty_lexie]

super yes!!!! after after 11 yrs of being together (7 1/2 yrs as bf-gf & now going 4yrs of being married), i just felt that its so unfair he left me with no choice. being married ang hirap kung nasa bf-gf stage ang dali magbreak but now that with child involve to the extent na ikaw magmumukhang masama sa pamilya niya at sa buong lugar nila. bucet na buhay to bakit ba pumayag pa ko pakasal sa kanya.


i just wish i could turn back time para maiayos lahat to, without him..

[janzphynx]

i don't regret marrying my hubby, pero i regret na nagmadali kami, sana kahit man lang 1 year naghintay pa ako nun bago ako nagpakasal sa kanya

[janecee25]

I don't regret that I married my hubby. But if I can turn back time, sana hindi ngmadali and ngplano ng maayos...

[crazymom]

ang hirap nmang sagutin..  oh well..i could probably say i dont regret marrying my husband kc he's the best man any woman could have..

[Hesterliness]

yes.

[$ale... seeker!]

before i can say yes, ngayon hindi na