Falling for a much Older Guy!

[stameygirl]

Might be going on a date with a guy who is 11 years my senior (He's 46, I'm 35 this year). I'm not sure what it's going to be like as my ex was 8 years my junior. So this is a whole new ballgame for me. Getting burned by a young guy made me wanna see what it's like to be with an older gentleman. He seems to be real established, has had his own practice for the last 15 years (he's a chiropractor) and owns an apartment in Manhattan Looks good on paper so far. Let's see how it pans out next week.

He's never been married at 46 sis?

[Girltalker2]

The problem with older guys... hindi ba most of them are married/committed. Kaya best to really make sure that they are single before going out with them.

[m_lim]

walang masama kahit gaano katanda. basta walang sabit si lalaki.

[tipC_shoegal]

^True. As long as he's unattached and is free, it shouldn't matter.

[ullala]

Older guys can show you the world and are much more patient -that is if they have matured as they aged. They are also in a more stable place and can help younger girls gain some stability as well lalo na kung medyo hazy pa yung future plans mo.

Minsan nakakatawa when I make kwento about my problems to my older guy, while making kwento and looking at his face I end up laughing at myself cause I realize that I sound like a drama queen by the expression on his face. He keeps on reminding if all I am worrying about will matter in a year or two. If it won't then let it go.

[sakura_bloom]

^agree sis ullala!

[prettylalaine]

^True. As long as he's unattached and is free, it shouldn't matter.

amen.

[FayeP]

dati sa past Bfs ko mas comfy ako pag about a year or 2 older lang un guy, but my hubby is 9 years older than me (I'm 28, he's 37)

when we got married back in 2008, I was 25, he was 34...but, he looks late 20s lang heheh di cya mukang 37 na even my officemates said na mukang bata pa si hubby

[katrinac]

my hubby to be is 7 years older than me. buti nalang baby face sya. kaya kala nila same age kami. heheh

[blackroseMD]

Ui sis grabe yung 15 years older, or worst 20! haha!.. For me 10 years is my max... My parents have a 9 year gap... Mejo may generation gap nga talaga... Most of the time gusto nalang ni dad sa bahay....

Yeah, sabi nila age is just a number, and its up to you guys kung paano nyo ihahandle ang relationship, as long as you're in love etc.....
But let's get real... Imagine...  If you are (for example 25.... +15 so he is 40) and you're planning to marry the guy tas nagkaanak kayo....

By the time na 15 year old na yung anak nyong lalake, tas gustong makipag laro ng basketball sa tatay nya, by that time 55 na si guy,... Mejo mahina na tuhod nun... Though there were some 55 that are still yummy... haha! Pagdating ng 20 ng panganay nyo, 60 na siya... Magkaiba na ang pangangailangan ni guy (60 year old) sa pangangailangan mo (45 yr. old)...

Tas pagkakamalan pang apo yun anak.... Ganun nangyari sakin, sabi nung bisita, "ah iha, nasan Lolo mo?" Di nya alam tatay ko yun. haha!

Well I'm looking into the future...

Siguro 10 years will be enough and still practical...

[shopaholic18]

10 would be the most for me, bf is 10 years older that i am and i'm definitely loving it. no other bf have made me felt so special unlike him. definitely for keeps...

[pinkadelic]

i'm also more attracted to older guys than to those around my age. i realized eventually that it could be attributed to my having daddy issues. i also experienced feeling like such a drama queen around them. parang my problems and drama in life all seem so petty when i share it with them. which is a good thing din kasi nare-realize ko na ang babaw pala, i shouldn't have let them get to me. yun nga lang, most men their age are married, hindi basta basta nakaka-meet ng mga single. so umpisa pa lang magkalinawan na.

[franc1sgmp]

Nice.

Ano ba kotse nya? Hehe 

[JINJIN:*]

goshh...im falling for waaayyy older than me..20years gap..pano yan?

[JINJIN:*]

in addition..

the guy is cool and young at heart..ang katakot ko lang, pag 50 na ko ehdi 70 na siya. I dont know how it will work.

Please enlighten me..

[Lady Blue]

^It will work out. It worked for me. Wag gaano isipin ang age difference. When I'm with my guy, di ko iniisip ang agwat namin.

Relax and enjoy the experience.

[misstisay]

^^ same tayo sis, kami 24 years pa ang gap namin Enjoy the experience.

goshh...im falling for waaayyy older than me..20years gap..pano yan?

okay lang yan sis, it will work naman even though malayo yung gap niyo. basta single si guy and walang sabit. wag mo masyado isipin ang gap kung mahal niyo naman ang isa't isa.

[JINJIN:*]

^It will work out. It worked for me. Wag gaano isipin ang age difference. When I'm with my guy, di ko iniisip ang agwat namin.

Relax and enjoy the experience.

sana nga walang maging problema.  Cool naman si guy kahit na malayo ang agwat namin. He is techie and into house music..and he goes out too. So I think magkakasundo kami. We will see. Thanks.

[bookworm_ako]

Di naman important ang age e. Ang importante, yung nagkakasundo kayo. My bf is about 14 years older than me, but looks like my dad hahaha. But we have fun kasi magkasundo kami sa maraming bagay.

[happyb2b.2014]

kami ni bf 7 years ang age gap namin.

mga ex ko before almost same age lang, kaya nung una medjo nanibago ako sa kanya. naniniwala ako na ang love wala sa edad yan. basta ba mahal nyo ang isat isa yun ang importante.

ang nagustuhan ko naman sa older na bf is mas matured sha and para kang akong baby at prinsesa madami na sila napagdaaanan kesa sa yo so pagdating sa relationships, naiiwasan yung mga maliliit na pagtatalo. i also believe na mas naging matured ako dahil sa kanya