Author Topic: Kaya mo bang walang katulong/driver (househelp)  (Read 130076 times)

kaythrielle

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Re: Kaya mo bang walang katulong/driver (househelp)
« Reply #560 on: November 06, 2018, 09:26:25 pm »
^When my kids were younger, we were living in Singapore then. Walang dryer and dishwasher doon.
Other families may mga kasambahay, kami wala. It is challenging pero kaya.
But yeah i can understand the need for yayas especially with younger kids.

But i have seen families din kasi sa pinas with abled bodies, older children, adult children, but still may mga kasambahay to do things for them. As i said, it is the culture.
Dont get me wrong mga sis, we were also guilty of that. Hanggang college na ako and working we still have kasambahay..sarap kaya ng kakain at matutulog na lang pag-uwi galing work. LOL
« Last Edit: November 06, 2018, 09:41:51 pm by kaythrielle »

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Re: Kaya mo bang walang katulong/driver (househelp)
« Reply #561 on: November 08, 2018, 09:27:35 am »
Lumaki akong wala kaming maid. We are  5 in the family, my parents and my two brothers.
As in hati hati kami sa chores from linis ng bahay, luto, laba to plantsa..

When I got married may tagalaba at plantsa sila hubby, hindi naman din ako inubliga ni hubby maglaba for us kasi nanliligaw pa lang sya alam na nyang sensitive skin ko sa detergent :D
Pero I can do ironing clothes from time to time and pag kailangan. I enjoy cleaning the house and cooking too but mga simple dishes lang pero dahil nga nakikitira kami kila hubby hindi ako masyado nakiki-alam ng mga gamit sa house nila, hanggang sa room lang namin.

When I gave birth and hubby's mom passed away a year after dun na kami kumuha ng helper. Hubby and I are working full time plus si baby so hindi namin kaya that time na walang helper.
Saglit lang naman yung phase na yun dahil nagpaalam din si helper mga 6 months after..
Akala ko hindi namin kaya..kayang kaya pala. Good thing malaki na din naman si baby nung umalis si helper plus marunong si hubby sa gawaing bahay.

Time management talaga is the key and also cooperation ng bawat member ng family. ;)
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Re: Kaya mo bang walang katulong/driver (househelp)
« Reply #562 on: November 10, 2018, 03:50:24 pm »
I grew up in a household with helpers so hindi talaga ko sanay.  Since my kids go to school, I need driver narin so I can work without concerns.
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Re: Kaya mo bang walang katulong/driver (househelp)
« Reply #563 on: November 15, 2018, 09:36:17 am »
Ako naman, lumaki  ako na may helper sa house since my parents are both working.

Now that I have my own family and since full time mom naman ako, hindi na kami nag hire ng helper except nung newborn pa anak ko, my on call labandera and taga iron kami once a week.

Now, my son is 5 years old.  Tulungan kami ng asawa ko sa lahat.  I am very thankful kasi my husband helps me with the dishes and pag handwash ng uniform ng son ko now na super sensitive ng hands ko at bawal masyado mabasa.

Driver? No need na rin kasi my husband knows how to drive naman and lately, natuto narin ako.  And I really am enjoying my newly earned freedom. Ako na naghahatid sundo sa son ko sa school.
Masaya din because you I do not have to depend on someone else pag may pupuntahan  kasi marunong na ko. Tsaka pag emergencies, your driving skill could come in handy.

Nakakapagod din minsan pero kaya naman basta tulungan. Also do not forget to unwind din para hindi masyado mastress..🙂
« Last Edit: November 15, 2018, 09:48:49 am by lordknight_aiz.18 »
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