Kaya mo bang walang katulong/driver (househelp)

[cocoysmom]

kaya naman dagdag trabaho lang talaga. pero dahil sa one-sided na kasambahay bill, naku, wag na lang mag-maid...kung madaming employer na abusado, madami din namang maid na abuso sa kabaitan ng amo. saka bihira na ngayon ang may concern talaga sa alaga, bata man or kabahayan.
kaya wag na lang. so kaya.

[jjqxiv]

We got 4 helpers (one for my youngest, cleaner, cook and labandera). 3 drivers (for me and my kids) and our family maid who has been with us for 42 years. I seriously admit na hindi ko kayang wala kahit isa sa kanila. Kahit mas madalas na nasa house lang yung husband ko, he doesn't want to do any chores (hindi naman siya tamad, bossy lang talaga) so hindi talaga uubra na walang maid/s.

But hopefully, maging successful *fingers crossed* ang pagtuturo sa girls ko ng household chores. Kahit yung usual lang, kasi gusto na mag-resign ng cleaner namin.

[greenpease05]

Narealize ko kaya ko na siya. =))

now that I'm allowed to drive pwede na ko all around. =))

[Kady_14]

Lately narealize ko, kaya kung sa studio condo ako nakatira yung tipong accessible sa lahat. Kayang kaya. Walang bakurang kailangan linisin, maliit lang lilinisin. Clothes pwede naman ipa-laundry tpos maayos na pagkafold pagkinuha mo. Madali din mg-commute if ever aalis kasi paglabas mo madami nang masasakyan.

Kaso di naman ako dun nakatira. lol.

[nageinna]

yes kaya. my mom stopped hiring helpers when me and my sisters started attending grade school. kaya i am super proud of my mom. wonder mom talaga. she did everything for us, even sa household chores siya lahat. now that i am married, 3 helpers dito kina hubby. big family kasi sila. but if kami lang ni hubby tingin ko kakayanin naman without a helper.

[ikaela]

If it's just my husband I, yes, most definitely. Even with a baby, I can still manage. Our house is small, my work is at home and the laundry and general cleaning are outsourced. On a day-to-day basis, it's a piece of cake. But when guests are over, it's a different story altogether. Of course you have to cook and clean for them. I find that it drains a lot of my time and energy. Hindi ko kaya walang katulong if we always entertain at home.

[gorgeousmama]

Me hindi ko yata kaya, i hate dishwashing, once nawalan kami ng maid
Si hubby lahat, hahaha,  and palagay ko di kaya ng katawan ko,
I remember yung 7  yr oldboy ko took pity on me kasi  ako pa mg
Drive sa school  nila so sabi nya mom teach me how to fry hotdog  para
You wont wake up early kasi i know di mo kaya, the ff day nagising ako pinapakain na
Nya yung 4 yr  youngest bro nya  then ng grocery kami ayaw nya kong pagbitbitin
 Ng grocery bags , he really played a kuya role and the man ofthe house, ayan bad man
Naging favorite ko sya lalo ( kasi fave ko na sya talaga)

Driver, pareho naman kaming marunong mg drive saka masipag si hubby 

[kerolie]

kaya naman cya mga sis.. wag lang malandi ang mga anak at hubby kung minsan eh nadedelay ang paglilinis ng bahay. yun nga lang pagdating ng friday eh pagod na. fully automatic ang washing machine ko kaya sampay lang ako ng sampay.. si hubby naman ang taga tiklop kc malandi cya sa tiklop ng damit nya kaya cya na pinagtitiklop ko.. i drive my eldest to school tapos my youngest naman nasanay na hinihintay si kuya nya matapos sa school, during this time i do errands: grocery, mall time, pay bills - bonding time namin ni bunso. when the youngest was still a baby usually hanggang madaling araw ako naghou-house chores ngayon na pwede na cya bilin kay kuya (meaning pwede na sila maglaro dalawa), during this time pwede na ako magsampay or maglinis ng banyo or lampaso ng sahig. iniisip ko kc kung magkaroon ako ng yaya for the youngest/maid baka dalhin ko lang cya kung saan ako magpunta para di cya maiwan magisa sa bahay.

[jagranog]

kaya naman, time management lang tlaga IF u still dont have a kiddos. but if u and hubby are
both working then with 3kids need HH talaga

[px17]

Kaya naman basta may fully automatic na washing machine, di ako marunong maglaba. Sa pagpaplants hindi ganung kaayos kaya nagpapaplansta nalang.

Tatlo kami magkakapatid and we all grew up with yayas tapos 2 maids for other household chores at isang driver. Pero hindi pwedeng hindi kami marunong ng gawaing bahay. Ganon kami pinalaki ng mom ko. I think she has obsessive disorder nga eh hahaha lol. Paano ba naman kasi super organize ng bahay namin (which is okay naman talaga) Na sa tingin ko unti-unti ko ng namamana. Nagiinit ulo ko makita ko lang na wala sa proper place yung gamit tsaka hindi ako mapalagay. Pero syempre iba padin yung level ng mom ko. Kasi siya magugulat nalang kami galit na. And my closet siya nag aayos akala mo yung cabinet ko yung mga nasa botique ang ayos ayos! (eh kaso nasa abroad siya ngayon. Kaya ako in charge sa bahay namin. Dalawa lang kami ng bunso kong kapatid)

dati kapag inuutusan niya ko maghugas ng plato sobrang sama ng loob ko. Umiiyak pa ko nun (ang arte noh?) pero ngayon ko lang narealize na tama ginawa niya kasi I have friends na hindi marunong sa gawaing bahay. Tsaka laging niyang sinasabi sa amin noon na time will come na you will live on your own hindi namang pwede na parang basurahan bahay niyp.

[gorgeousmama]

Lately narealize ko, kaya kung sa studio condo ako nakatira yung tipong accessible sa lahat. Kayang kaya. Walang bakurang kailangan linisin, maliit lang lilinisin. Clothes pwede naman ipa-laundry tpos maayos na pagkafold pagkinuha mo. Madali din mg-commute if ever aalis kasi paglabas mo madami nang masasakyan.

Kaso di naman ako dun nakatira. lol.

sis kady I live in a condo na very accessible sa lahat, katabi ba banks and everything but ewan ko
ba, I still can't survive without a maid for a longer time,, di ko talaga keribels eh!!!

 di talaga kaya ng powers ko!!!

driver nga, Im thinking of hiring one na , napapagod na din akong mg drive,  ako yata sis JUanang tamad eh

[vain_kixie]

No maid for 2 weeks now. Kaloka wala akong social life. Linis ng linis kami ni hubby. All day, every day cleaning. Buti nalang fully
automatic our washing machine or it could have been worst. Parang I wanna buy a dryer na nga kasi
pagod na ako to make sampay the clothes and remove them. We have two t&b in our townhouse and I told hubby
to use mine nalang para I maintain the cleanliness of one and isa nalang lilinisan ko.

Now we have tambak clothes to iron. I cannot for the life of me iron all those clothes. I can yung paisa, isa.
Pero 2 baskets full, gawd!!


Hay sana makahanap kami ng experience na yaya na magaling mag linis and marunong magluto.

[quinone]

^sis kapag may mga parts ng bahay na hindi nagagamit for long-periods of time, masisira rin yun. so open your faucet and flush the toilet also kahit hindi ginagamit yung isang t&b. try rin a good brand na clothes steamer, baka mas okay sayo yun kesa iron.

[vain_kixie]

Thanks for the tip sis. Ahhh oo nga noh, clothes steamer! I like that idea. I've always wanted one.

[little_princess]

akala ko before i can't be the times na kami lang ni hubby, kaya naman and we just divide the chores. nag away ro inaway ko siya about the laundry kasi he ruined some of my clothes na so now, will get a labandera if we move in our place.

vain kixie, OC ka ba about your clothes? kasi there is a big difference with the steamer and iron. steamer is pang pwede na lang. we have this kasi i refuse to do the ironing because i have a phobia as a kid. so no choice kami.

[vain_kixie]

I believe I am not super OC na dapat no wrinkle. Or super pantay yung line sa jeans and slacks. The clothes gets wrinkled when you sit down anyway.
I just want it to look decent. What brand of steamer do you have?

[little_princess]

^ah that's good, a steamer would be fine then. i use conair, there are 2 kinds and i got the blue one and it's a bit more expensive. ok naman, malakas lang sa water at first when you are not used to it and you have to be careful with the steam kasi super sakit

[homebuddy2]

Kaya naman , pero kung may pagkakataon kukuha pa rin ako nang HH. Iba pa rin ang may katulong ka sa gawaing bahay pwede kang mag relaks kasi kung wala ang ina ng tahanan ligo lang ang pahinga.

[sixteen16]

lumaki akong may yaya/katulong kaya di ako marunong sa household chores pero when i met my bf tinuruan nya ko sa lahat ng bagay. even magcomyut hindi ko alam. dapat ko daw matutunan ang mga ganung bagay kasi hindi habambuhay may yaya/katulong. ngayon happy naman ako sa tinuro nya dahil nung nag-US ako i'm so proud sa sarili ko, kaya ko naman pala. at ngayon nagpaalam yung maid namin na magbabakasyon sya ng 3 months.. hindi na ganoon kahirap para sa akin.. KAYA KO PALA!

[merchee]

kayang kaya! it's been few years na since our maid left. lumaki ako with yaya/maid pero there's some changes with our lives na minsan, meron kaming helper or minsan wala. the first time umalis yung una naming helper...we learned to do chores.

Now, malalaki na kami and we can do things around the house, except for laundry. hehe. I think, if you have kids around the house, mas mahirap na walang help. Pero pag gaya namin na malalaki na kami. we can cook for ourselves, clean the house and stuff