Is he proud of you?

[DrQuinn]

Does he show it? How and to whom?

[cher.liman]

He does, it shows in his face naman. Sometimes I hear him talk about me when he thinks I'm not around

[baby_blue]

Yes!

He always makes me feel special..Sa Family nya, sa family ko and including his/her friends.. Wala pa atang time na lumabas sila ng mga friends/barkada/officemate nya na hindi niya ako sinasama and isa yun sa mga assurance na happy sya with me and wala syang tinatago..

[sistah!]

yes i think so. he introduces me to everyone in his family, his friends and he shows my pictures to his friends abroad.

[kurengkeng]

i believe so. less than a month pa lang kaming bf-gf year 1997, he introduced me na to his family and friends. pati gimmick nya with friends ganun laging kasama din ako.
and now that we are married for 7 years na ha, he makes me feel "reyna" pag nandun kami sa house nila. he makes me asikaso, kasehodang mapagkamalan syang "ander". he doesn't care. as long as di natatapakan ang pagkalalaki nya (and i dont do it naman) ..tlagang mega silbi nya ako pag andun kami sa house ng parents and siblings nya everytime we visit

[saqqara]

 Yes so much I can feel it kasi I was so happy yung pic ko wallpaper sa cellphone niya.
If he meets some of his old friends he introduced me as his wife  hehe kahit Bf/Gf pa lang stage namin.
 

[alinkshel]

i think so... i can feel it.

i remember our chat a few days ago when i opened a topic about his beauty-queen ex and her equally beauty-blessed friends. sabi ko, i know she's more beautiful and it's a fact naman that i acknowledge. sabi nya, she's nothing compared to me. for him daw, i'm the most beautiful of them, and the most accomplished in terms of career and life in general.

he also introduces me to anyone we meet. he's proud of my accomplishments and even boasts it to his colleagues.

feeling ko, it's a clear manifestation that he's sure he won when he married me. naks!!!

[acee]

i think so.. he has this collection of my pictures in his wallet. ilang palit na rin siya ng wallet yet di pa rin niya inaalis kahit pinakaluma kong picture don.

he places our family picture in his office desk.

he always tells his friends that he will ask for my opinion firts.
mega asikaso din niya ako pag nag visit kami sa parents house niya. pag sa bahay namin ang tamad-tamad naman.
he would always tells his siblings to ask me for opinion, as if alam ko lahat..

dami pa... isip pa ako.

[mlee]

Yes!!

 - to friends and family! he gives me a lot of credit for being the best wife in the world.

[greenpease05]

Yes, he sees me as a person na I won't have any problems talking with people in all walks of life.   Uy di ako nagsabi niyan ha siya kahapon lang.

[Pattybee]

Yes, he tells me that himself I also overhear him talk about my accomplishments with his family and friends.

[judarlair]

Yep, absolutely. He even thinks I'm better than him. But I think we just complement each other. He would tell his family and friends about me. And I will just find myself surprised once the people he told about me asked me about my accomplishments and even how I was able to reform my bf. 

[chinita_charm]

he does..101% sure of that

[DrQuinn]

Good thing all the people here are feeling that way (their husband's or bf's were proud of them)

[freeswan]

Yes!!! i heard him brag about me with his friends and most especially his family. sinasama niya ako sa mga lakad niya kasi proud daw siya pagkasama niya ako. pero lately sinabi niya sa akin na proud siya sa aking sa pagbbudget ko, halos mangiyak-iyak ako dahil natouch ako sobra..

[beaupink]

yes. he said im beautiful daw kahit sira daw ulo ko mahal na mahal niya ako.

[ms.libra]

yes!magkaibigan pa lang kami he would show my college newsletter (where i am the editor-in-chief)to his family, friends and relatives and would brag that i will be her next gf, also lahat ng gatherings nila kasama ako and would treat me her queen...kaya pati tuloy relatives nya parang pinagsisilbihan na rin ako back then.ngayon mag-asawa na kami,very proud pa rin siya sa mga accomplishments ko sa corporate world and even now na SAHM na ko would tell stories sa mga colleagues nya how i manage our shop and rear our beautiful child all in one.

[aquacharly]

Yes.  We run the company together, the employees know he may be the President but I have the last say on their tenure and salary increases.  He is likewise proud that when it comes to hard decisions,  the employees know I will not flinch at hindi ako aatras.

With regards to colleagues -- he is proud to say I likewise have an MBA degree, like him.  also, he tells them we get along fine coz there is just a small difference in our IQs.  He is proud of me too when he meets former colleagues of mine in government, and they speak of me in glowing terms -- super smart, competent and never corrupted. 

More important,  pag tinatapatan sya ng big investment or disbursement decisions of people within our company or industry --  he will always say he will discuss it with me 1st.  And if the release is okay,  he says it is up to me when it will be released because I am the one investing idle funds and deciding on the cash flows.  So there, I know he is proud of my competent financial management.   

[^kaedee^]

can't feel that he is proud of me...eversince naging kame (we are 6 years together na)...most of the time feeling ko kinakahiya niya ko...hindi niya ko sinasama sa mga gimik niya or out of town...if ever magkita kame sa gimikan...wala man lang siyang kusa na lumapit saken...and kung sasama na ko sa kanya siya mismo lalayo

lagi pa niya ko kino-compare dun sa mga kilala niya na sexy mommy...e sa totoo lang underweight na nga ako...ano pa bang gusto niya di ba?!

pag sinasabe ko to sa kanya sabe niya hindi daw siya aware na ganon siya...   

and kapag ina-ask ko siya if proud ba siya saken pabiro niyang sinasabe na "oo"...but i feel like sinasabe niya lang yun para matuwa ako...

[aquacharly]

^ Sis KAEDEE,  no offense meant but emotional abusers start that way -- they chip at your self esteem/self confidence.  Please be more alert.  While in the early stages, emotional abuse can be stopped.  Seek out a competent counselor who can teach you ways to keep it from escalating.  The frightening thing about emotional abuse is that it generally develops into physical abuse.

Take care, Sis and always be proud of yourself.  Do not believe/let anyone convince you otherwise  ----   that you are not worthy enough.