What I think of women who are dating/married to younger men

[topone]

may expiration daw ang love,just give it 1 to 2 yrs and you'll see whats the real score between the 2 of you..if a woman if stable enough to meet the expectation of his partner,then they would last longer..may mahirap ba na older woman na binubuhay ng young man???

i have to disagree. To answer your last question. Of course!   There are housewives out there na older kesa sa husbands nila at yung "younger husbands" ang tumatayong provider sa family.

I hope you're not implying na kapag older ang women, it follows na sya ang bubuhay sa partner nya?? Not necessarily so. 

[apple_384dips]

hi topone,[textspeak!] meron nga--and theyre the lucky ones..pls dont get me wrong, i hav witnessd kc sa officemates ko (pati sa showbiz db)several bf/gf relationships na hanggang dun lang..its either yong guys ng-eexplore pa ng mas masasandigan or kapag nging successful na ang mga guy partners nila bigla nalang cla iniwan--it hurts db..and yes, it doesnt follow na older ang bubuhay!..

and yes beautifuldreamer, i agree with you!!!

[pookie]

don't know why its such an issue
men date/marry girls young enough to be their daughters so why shouldn't women be able to do the same?

[alterego]

 just fine. I wouldnt mind if she's my relative or friend.

 carry nya lang.

[hotbabe]

I too have a younger man  . He tells me that he likes the sense of maturity and stability i bring into the relationship, let alone my wisdom due to a lot of experience in a lot of different aspects of life 

[anziaski]

I don't really see anything wrong with it,  my fiancee is 6 years younger than me.  We've been together na for 2 years and are planning na to get married on year 2008. 

when weren't together pa, sobrang awkward and it took me a lot of time before i decided to get into a relationship with him, pero contrary to what i thought, ok naman relationship namin.

What's important is that you grow together.

wag mag-dominate just because you're older and don't baby yer guy, just because he's younger.

 

[TheRedTentSpa]

I say, GOOD FOR THEM!

It's the logical thing to do, really--since men generally live shorter lives than women. Women who partner up with men of the same or almost the same age as themselves tend to become widowed early.

So if you fear widowhood, the smart thing to do would be to marry a younger man! 

[sahjane]

women dating younger men?

WAGI!!!

[blackpearl304]

don't know why its such an issue
men date/marry girls young enough to be their daughters so why shouldn't women be able to do the same?

Exactly!

Age has nothing to do with it. I used to date this guy who was several years older than I was and I swear he was the most immature bloke I had ever met! It doesn't matter if the guy is older or younger. As long as there's a connection, then go for it!

[josh_beau]

It's really sad that people think when they see a couple where the woman is older, they thought maybe it's only because of her money. I'm 40 my partner is 22. I'm not rich, i just have a decent job and my boyfriend would be graduating from business school next summer. When he's short of funds, of course I'd help him. But sometimes when I can't pay my bills, he would also give me money from his allowance. During our monthsaries where we celebrate it every month, he would ask extra money from his mom who works abroad and tell her that he would take me out for dinner or movies. It's a give and take relationship. And the good news is we're now one year and 9 months together and hopefully we would survive the 2 year expiration which some people say.

[crybaby]

Sakin okay lang din...age does not guarantee a person's maturity 

[kaoru_himura]

^ definitely said.. a man can be 40 but still think like an 8 yr old... however, the norms of the country is very conservative in that viewpoint... acceptance of a new culture is still hard for majority of filipinos.. i wish more people would be openminded about things..

[bambie_jhoye]

age is really does'nt matter...what's important in a relationship is you both love each other...
 

[chelleypie]

what should i think??? go!!! you know why guys go for women years older than them? the fact that women that age are securely. they know what they want, and they go for it. i don't see anything wrong with that.

[lyn]

My mama is 4 years older than my papa, yet my papa is more mature than my mama. My papa is the head too. 29 years married na sila. My papa's nanny who is a relative also is 60 years old when she married her husband who is 30 years old. And they are now 5 years married going 6. They are happy together. Take note: it's the men who has the money and insisted that they marry them.

Ive been surrounded with couples who differ in ages whether its the women or the men who has really big age gap. But their marriage life is great! So, I think there's really nothing wrong with age differences as long as you love each other.

[Nuanda]

hi! i'm 4 years younger than my wife. but when you reach 30 plus, it really doesn't make a difference.  in addition, even if you married an older guy, it would still be the same. i think most men don't outgrow their childish behavior. previously, i would stay up late to play online games and when wifey wakes up, "susutsutan" na ako nyan from upstairs (like a kid) at kulang na lang pitikin ang tenga ko he he. in the end, it's all about love and understanding. each one is unique (girls like bags and shoes - lots of it) and for as long as one doesn't forget about his/her assigned responsibilities, i think there should be flexibility in dealing with each other.

[mandee]

Considering that I am one of those women who is involved with a younger man....I neither say it is good nor bad...it largely depends on how one handle unusual situations such as this and how one can survive it....I for one believed that things happen always for a reason....whatever that is... to me, I try to make the most out of it while it's there...if it doesn't work out .... so be it.... I don't have too much expectations nor am I dreaming to marry this guy.... to me... let nature takes it's natural course then let's see what happens 

By the way am 51 and he's 33... according to him we are on almost 7 yrs now.... grabeee....kailangan na yatang palitan   

[beautifuldreamer]

Considering that I am one of those women who is involved with a younger man....I neither say it is good nor bad...it largely depends on how one handle unusual situations such as this and how one can survive it....I for one believed that things happen always for a reason....whatever that is... to me, I try to make the most out of it while it's there...if it doesn't work out .... so be it.... I don't have too much expectations nor am I dreaming to marry this guy.... to me... let nature takes it's natural course then let's see what happens 

By the way am 51 and he's 33... according to him we are on almost 7 yrs now.... grabeee....kailangan na yatang palitan   

wow that long.....i agree with you mandee i agree with you

[mavicganda]

Me I don’t understand the psychology of men prefer older women or older women prefer younger men.... I see them they just happen...though maybe there could be some reason why there’s an attraction between them...it could be that its more than physical attraction.... And men maybe injects youth to older women...

I am not young anymore and simple and yet he choose me over some younger women…he looks ok to me and we are on the same level as far as career is concerned….

I have a relationship with this a man right now and by experience on love and relationship he is far more matured than I am.... But when it comes to our career I am more matured.... Sometimes I am his guiding light.…since we have the same field and compliment each other….

 

Best wishes!!

[Aira3173]

this is not unusual. this has been happening even before only that more celebrities are coming out with their younger partners thus we are starting to focus on them. i've seen a lot of relationship in which the woman is older than her husband. there are some that failed din.