What scares me about growing old

[cindylulu]

that i might grow old alone and lonely. that's why if ever, between hubby and i, I want to be the first to die. coz i know he's strong and kaya nya. ako - can't make it thru life kung wala na sya. i may be financially independent kung tutuusin, but i'm emotionally dependent on him. kaya dasal ko, sana nga ako na lang kung sakali.

[chicafabulosa]

- That hubby won't find me attractive and worst find someone younger than me.
- What if we separate, who would love and take care of me.
- That my son won't love me and take care of me when I am old and weak.
- That I might die alone.

[angel_eyes_2nite]

what scares me most about growing old is that I will eventually see the fruits of my life...
If I fail to be a person who has served my purpose of living my life...
How I shared my life and how I lived it will be reflected in old age.

Like if I grow old alone,maybe I didn't care much about people and they never felt I loved them kaya when I reach a certain age di na nila ako kilala.

Yun na lang mindset ko while Im still young. Live most out of life and share yourself with others,for the people you meet on the way up will be the same people you meet on the way down.

[akaticzon]

Na hindi ko nagawa ang gusto kong gawin.. That I failed as a mother, wife, and as a person.

[kiz_me1109]

I'm scared of growing old ALONE...

[emily2008]

being bed ridden and nobody cares!!   

[sweetmamy25]

its not actually for me.. pero pinaka worry ko [textspeak!] di na magkanon ng kapatid daughter ko..
gusto ko when we grow old, me and my hubby.. iwant her to have siblings that she can always turn to
i dont want her to be alone

[miss resilient]

iyong tumanda ng walang pinagkatandaan..hehe

[minikeyklush]

to grow old alone  biggest fear ko talaga yun especially wala naman akong siblings and hindi ako ganun kaclose sa mga cousins and other relatives ko.

[vainjane]

wrinkles 

[goddessjem]

yung hindi namen natupad ni hubby ang mga pangarap namen..
wala kameng enough savings para sa pangangailangan namen..
mawala ang asawa ko sa tabi ko..

[kutingkulilit]

wrinkles!!! (haha)

well on a more serious note (tho serious ako talaga jan sa una, lol), as of now,i'm most scared about getting old without enough funds to get by (of course lahat naman tayo ayaw tumanda mag-isa, maiba lang hehe) ayoko na balang araw, aasa nalang ako sa mga magiging anak ko kung ano ang maibibigay nila... ayokong mammrobleme pa sila kung saan kukuha ng pambayad sa hospital, pambili ng gamot etc. sobrang takot ako na balang araw maging burden sa mga mahal ko sa buhay kaya ngayon palang (i'm 25) pinaglalaanan ko na yan.

[jk_1234]

- Growing old alone  that my kids might not look after me since they have their own families na tas my hubby will die first kesa s akin 

[ann08]

to grow old alone  biggest fear ko talaga yun especially wala naman akong siblings and hindi ako ganun kaclose sa mga cousins and other relatives ko.

parang same tayo ng situation sis. . yun nga lang may sister ako at may nieces and nephews but they are making my life miserable. inggit na sister! mas ok na ata mag isa kesa may sister na bad :/ minsan nakaka down talaga. nakaka stress. :/

[icee_star]

Natatakot ako para sa mga anak ko. Darating ang time na tatanda na rin sila, di ko na sila maalagaan at mababantayan. I just hope na lagi silang safe even without me by their side

[sprinkledust]

Growing old alone and not having good health anymore.

[LoSiNGGRiP]

^same here. takot din ako..

[glamorosa_09]

hmmm...

When I grow old, ayokong masabi sa sarili ko na hindi ko nagawa ang best ko.

[minikeyklush]

parang same tayo ng situation sis. . yun nga lang may sister ako at may nieces and nephews but they are making my life miserable. inggit na sister! mas ok na ata mag isa kesa may sister na bad :/ minsan nakaka down talaga. nakaka stress. :/

hay sis ann08, nakakalungkot isipin pero lets just trust God. I know na He knows all our agony and sadness. Kaya naten to sis  Aja!

[ayra11]

getting sick without enough savings for healthcare........