Cheap Men

[nut_ky]

of course for the first few dates ako talaga ang magbabayad, pero if I sense na hindi man lang sya magsuggest na makihati sa next few dates then I'd think twice on dating this girl...

keyword: "suggest" - it's really just the gesture

[chelvin26]

haha aliw tong thread na to.. i remember my ex bf way back.. i think mga first month pa lang namin yun.. aba kung makapagpalibre wagas! haha conjugal daw yung pera namin eh.. eh mas malaki yung sakin.. biruin mu kain everyday twice a day sagot ko.. school mate ko kasi.. tapos pag uwi.. sagot ko na naman pamasahe.. ang cheap talaga,, kapal ng mukha.. haha.. tapos pag wala na siya pera nangungutang sakin.. para may pambili ng luho niya.. ex: dvd tapes, collections, et.. grabe talaga.. ako naman si mapagbigay.. ayus lang sakin.. it doesnt matter naman kasi eh. as long na nakakatulong ako.. hahaha..tapos manonood ng sine.. kakain sa labas.. sagot ko na naman.. kapag monthsary.. naalala ko pa nung bday niya. nanlibre siya sa isang fast food.. aba kulang pera niya., nasa counter na siya.. bumalik pa sa upuan namin para manghingi ng pera.. er er talaga.. big turn off.. tapos ang lahat ng order niya pabor sa kanya kahit ako nagbabayad.. hahah


pero ngayon i have my bf.. we are 5 yrs and 8 mos.. i used to offer kasi na ako na magbabayad.. nakakahiya naman talaga pag lagi siya.. lalo pa at nagtatrabaho na.. marami na expenses na binabayaran,, eh we see each other everyday.. kumakain sa labas everyday kung saan saan.. kawawa naman yung guys diba.. kaya ako bumabawi sa gift,, o kaya nakikihati ako.. practicality na din, kasi pag ako naman naubusan ng pera sa kanya ako humihingi, tapos pag siya nawalan.. nagsasabi naman sa akin..

[abuanddiego]

There was this guy na matagal kong nakausap through chat as in for years yan and we've became really close. Then isa sa mga nakwento nya ay tungkol sa girls na nameet nya who took him for dinner  dahil client nya ito. At nung nasabi kong bakit ako kahit kelan hindi nya nainvite for dinner, ang sabi nya it's because I never asked, at kung gusto ko man daw lumabas kami dapat treat ko Then he said okay let's meet he even told me to choose any place I want dahil nga treat ko diba, but since he's from a different race and different religion, I asked him which place he wants to go, oh diba parang ako pa yung lalake, but in the end di rin natuloy dahil sabi nya ang dami ko daw excuses, pero alam ko sya ang talagang may ayaw. Then the last time we talked, I told him that I want to stop talking coz I felt that he is not serious and just playing with me. I told him that I will go from his life but he wanted me to stay he even said to meet that night once and for all to talk about things personally but I refused dahil alam ko baka magbreakdown ako sa harap nya knowing na nadevelop na ang feelings ko for him. Treat nya daw ito, pero sabi ko wag na lang because we might make a scene in public, at ito ang sinabi nya, "Who said we'll talk in public? We will meet in car." So ano namang masasabi nyo dyan mga sisterettes? 

[shelby]

There was this guy na matagal kong nakausap through chat as in for years yan and we've became really close. Then isa sa mga nakwento nya ay tungkol sa girls na nameet nya who took him for dinner  dahil client nya ito. At nung nasabi kong bakit ako kahit kelan hindi nya nainvite for dinner, ang sabi nya it's because I never asked, at kung gusto ko man daw lumabas kami dapat treat ko Then he said okay let's meet he even told me to choose any place I want dahil nga treat ko diba, but since he's from a different race and different religion, I asked him which place he wants to go, oh diba parang ako pa yung lalake, but in the end di rin natuloy dahil sabi nya ang dami ko daw excuses, pero alam ko sya ang talagang may ayaw. Then the last time we talked, I told him that I want to stop talking coz I felt that he is not serious and just playing with me. I told him that I will go from his life but he wanted me to stay he even said to meet that night once and for all to talk about things personally but I refused dahil alam ko baka magbreakdown ako sa harap nya knowing na nadevelop na ang feelings ko for him. Treat nya daw ito, pero sabi ko wag na lang because we might make a scene in public, at ito ang sinabi nya, "Who said we'll talk in public? We will meet in car." So ano namang masasabi nyo dyan mga sisterettes? 

Sounds suspicious.  At the same time he is putting the ball in your court by disclosing the premise.  That is one way for him to get some assurance that you are open or might  acquiesce to anything involving just the two of you.  It seems that your threat worked and he is rushing to fix it or at least get something out of it.  Just my humble opinion.

[abuanddiego]

shelby... thanks! I knew that there was something fishy going on that's why I've told him many times that I will just go from his life. But he kept on asking me to stay coz he won't let go of me daw coz I'm very special. He also apologized for everything and even promised that he won't hurt me again, I thought he wanted to fix things up, but he would always go back to his old self again and again. Anyway, that was our last conversation, coz I knew from the moment he said those words that he is just one piece of s***, it was sad lang coz I thought he was sincere, sayang din yung years I've spent for him, sana sa right guy ko na lang ibinigay diba? But that was the past and I've learned alot from that experience, it helps alot na alam mong naging honest and faithful ka with the person all these years kahit na sya pinaikot ka lang, at least I can move on with a clean conscience

[_katelicious_]

My bf now used to be a little cheap haha   I almost let him go because of that.  When I offered to pay for our movie or drinks when we first had our date, I was really testing if he'd accept.  Coz if he would, and he did, I would consider it a major no-no.  So I was really shoo-ing him away, I already had an experience with a cheap guy after all.

Eventually, he learned to be more of a gentleman, and he proved to be better in a lot of ways.  He respects me in everything, we are even working on a business together. He is super galante now that in on our anniversary, he gave me an iphone, and before that, we went on a trip abroad at his expense 
I'm now preparing to give him something uber nice for December.