Have you ever, or willing to, date a guy with a history of violence?

[j.adore]

Why?

Bakit ang mga babae lagi iniisip na pwede nila baguhin ang mga lalaki? Love is NOT all we need.

[Purple_Power]

^Exactly the point ewan ko ba kung anong klaseng pantasya yan? Alam naman na by default violent na sila. Tapos kapag sinasaktan parang tinatanggap lang nila at binabalewala. Ilang beses mo nang sinusubukan yung babae na tulungan mong salbahin wala andun pa rin pasok pa rin sa relasyon na violence naman rin ang kahahantungan.

Decision pa rin ng lalake yun kung gusto niyang magbago hindi yung babae ang magpapabago sa lalake.

[etxetera]

Never why would I.

[cindy_rella]

NEVER!

[mindiegirl]

I have recently had a friend who is very vocal before that she will never allow a guy to hurt her physically. Pero her recent bf is ganto and nalaman nalang namin after so many months na nagtitiis sya. Same question as all of you have, why would she allow that to happen? When I asked her, the reason she said is at some point, she is blaming herself kung bakit nagiging violent ang bf nya sa kanya. Thinking na pag nagbago sya sa pgiging nagger eh hindi na sya sasaktan. Well, she changed but he didnt. Good thing hiwalay na sila.

Siguro sometimes when you are the one in the situation, parang nawawala ka na din sa right reasoning. At least in my friend's case.

[numfarlorne]

No, A guy like that does NOT respect women as people and use them as punching bags, your friend does not want to be the woman he escalates his violence to.

[red_yesha]

syempre hindi! nakakatakot kaya! 

[mysterioza_me]

NO WAY 

[pinkmoscato]

NO. I don't want to risk my safety noh. hehe

[miss resilient]

wow! gano ba ka violent? 

[tischarmedlife]

No. Never.

Just to share, I had an ex before na may history "daw" ng violence according to his ex din. At first, di ako naniwala kase super bait nun. Around a year of being together, he got jealous of my office mate and he got drunk, inaway nya ko nang bongga! He even punched his room's door and cabinet to the point na nasira ang pinto at nag-fracture ang kamay nya. Natakot ako and broke up with him because of that (and he's cheating too). Baka kase sa susunod na magselos sya or mag-away kami, ako na suntukin nya noh! 

[DeathToMondays]

Never, not even a guy with a history of committing verbal, emotional, and psychological abuse.