are u really over your ex?

[bunnycharm]

1 year na kaming break dahil inarrange marriage siya, ramdam ko parin yung sakit kasi first bf ko siya kaya nahirapan ako maka get over =p .. pero inenjoy ko na lang ang pagiging single. I travel a lot nag gym nag muaythai  lahat ginawa ko para hindi ko siya maisip.

[fidelity88]

yes! getting married soon with the right man.

[najine]

over in pain I think yes. not like nung simula na halos mamatay na ko sa sakit at galit.
memory wise? not yet but i will soon. very, very soon i hope.

[peppay]

I don't love him anymore, a lot of time has passed and moved on, but I don’t really understand why I feel this way. nag seselos ako, hindi sa gf nya but sa situation meron sila now. bakit kami hindi naging ganon
maybe, i'm not really over him, or may galit pa ko. i really don't know.

[mimiku]

^you had shared a lot of memorie together. Perhaps you are still attached to that and don't worry, a lot of people have the same feelings esp those who initiated the break-up. They don't love the person, but there is always that "what if" lurking behind their minds. Or some kind of miss the feeling of those happy memories. Most people, when they hear something of a major news about their ex (getting married, having a baby), they get upset momentarily.

[piatos]

nakakainis lang yung ex ko
kinasal na siya last month tapos ngayon nangungumusta feeling ko pinanglalandakan kinasal niya den ang ginawa ko na lang i replied him, ok lang ako, happy and contented tapos kunwari d ko alam oi kasal ka na pala congrats! Sa totoo lang happy naman na ako sa kanila kasi feeling ko love talaga siya nung girl.  Sa ginawa niya ngayon hindi ko maiwasan isipin. sana magdusa siya hahaha nakakabwisit lang kasi.

[TomHansen]

100% yes!

[chinablue]

^^sis piatos, yung ex mo parang he's adding insult to injury pa eh or pwede din to boost his ego. nabwiset din ako, haha. naku hayaan mo na siya. kakakasal lang niya, hindi ba dapat nakafocus siya sa wife niya, hello honeymoon stage pa sila. tama bang kontakin ang ex agad agad? some men are jerks talaga. sorry sis for the blunt word.

^bro tomhansen, good for you!

back to topic: yes na yes na yes!

[Miss Taken]

^^ Nice one bro!

YES. I wouldn't enter a new relationship if I still have feelings for my ex.

Mabilis talaga ako magmove on eh.. Plus, jackpot ako kay current boyfriend. The best!

[kvandenhaak]

100% yes!

Same here! Pero friends pa rin naman kami.

[mysterioza_me]

100% yes!

very good ka diyan bro

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yes na yes, with new boyfie na

[piatos]

sis chinablue, abnormal yun e 

[peppay]

lately, lagi ko sya naiisip, na hurt pa rin ako, dahil siguro nalaman ko ikakasal na sya kahit one year pa lang sila, na ganon nya kamahal yung pinalit nya sakin, na kahit sa dreams ko pumapasok sya, same scenarios, saying goodbye sya at ako daw nag ask ng one last hug. i guess, dahil wala kami closure na maayos, at dahil hindi rin kasi ako naniwala sa closure.

akala ko ok na ko, hindi pa pala, so, no, hindi pa ko over sa kanya.

[chengsen]

i hope so!hahah! im getting there na.. its been a year since we broke up, 11 years in a relationship. Mahirap, nakakabaliw ang pain for the first few months. ngayon, as i look back, happy naman ako at nasurvive ko ang "worst months". kapit lang..things will get better. 

[kim28]

6 months separation from husband and pregnant mukhang matagal tagal pa ang pag move on ko. Pero tanggap ko na yung reality na wala ng "US". Everyday natutunan kong mahalin sarili ko at anak ko.

[najine]

sis chengsen i can totally relate. things will get a lot more better. cheers to us!

sis kim28, sad to hear but you can carry on. para sa baby. wish you all the luck.

[gc.garcia]

Partly Yes and Partly No.

I'm in a really good place right now in my life and I have found someone new na. We're going for 3 years this year However I have this ex who I really fell in love with. Yes, there was badblood between us before but we eventually got over it. I mean in between the 6 years we parted, we would randomly get in contact with each other to say hi or ask how each other had been.

To make it short, I'm at peace with why and how we parted years ago. I've forgiven him with all the things that he had done to me and I have forgiven myself as well with all the things I let myself go through because I loved him truly. I have moved on with my life without him and I feel like he had too without me in his life. But of course, I might still have lingering feelings for him no matter how long time passes. I think I still might have the nervous and frantic heartbeat reaction if ever I see him unexpectedly. After all, I consider him as my one great love.