Author Topic: We've given up having a helper - stories, questions, motivations etc.  (Read 2207 times)

simang

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^^ good to hear that sis. where did you find your precious gem? :D

Found her on one of those facebook groups. Was very hesitant at first but i'm glad i took the risk.

^agree. Di mo na rin alam kung anong dapat ioffer para lang mgstay sila. In the end it's really up to them. If they want to stay, they will.
...all adventurous women do.

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Re: We've given up having a helper - stories, questions, motivations etc.
« Reply #21 on: June 14, 2019, 09:44:57 am »
Wala na kaming helper.  My kids are all grown up.   They can fend for themselves, clean up after themselves, help in cleaning the house so no need na talaga.

Bawas sa gastos - wala ka nang papaswelduhin, wala ka nang isang taong papakainin
Bawas sa taong pakikisamahan mo

Maswerte na rin kami at nakahanap kami ng yaya na tumagal din sa amin.  Medyo malalaki na ang mga anak ko noong umalis siya para magtaguyod ng sariili niyang pamilya.   Pero yun nga, kailangan mo pa ring pakisamahan para tumagal at hindi kayo iwan.  Nakakatakot na rin ang panahon ngayon at hindi ka dapat basta basta nagtitiwala.

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Re: We've given up having a helper - stories, questions, motivations etc.
« Reply #22 on: June 15, 2019, 10:20:08 am »
Posting on this thread to give a 2 year update lol -- We let go of our yaya 2 years ago when my son was 5 yo. It was a struggle at first, and the fact na bumukod pa kami. The salary went to paying half of the monthly rent, we got to discipline our son better (this was a struggle since noon  lagi sya kasama ni yaya). Hinde sya na miss ng anak ko surprisingly and tama kayo, ang laking burden na lift yun pakikisamanahan mo, isipin mo yung menu, hinde ka mag aaway at walang mang cchismis etc. May mga times na na mimiss din namin sya and the help she gave but as my son grew he became more independent. Hinde namin sinundan anak namin for personal reasons narin, but would be nice hinde gaano ka lonely si bb.

 


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