Husband has low sex drive

[barcode]

Agree kay sis Faina, I think related din sa health issues yung low sex drive ni hubby, well plus work stress din. But since we got married he has relatively low sex drive kesa saken, I want it everyday or at least every other day. But he wanted it once a week lang.

Is there something wrong with me if I wanted it everyday or every other day?

[TomHansen]

^ wala namang masama at di mo fault kung gusto mo araw araw pero kailangan niyong pag-usapan para magkaroon kayo ng understanding sa needs mo. Kailangan magkaroon kayo ng middle ground, kahit 2x a week sana. Ilang taon na ba kayo pareho? Bago ba kayo kinasal active siya? Nagtatake ba siya ng medication?

[janachen]

wife ko super low din ang sex drive
nung di pa kami married madalas kami mag sex as in. siya pa nag initiate
ngayon, nada 

Naku sir normal sa babae yan lalo pag may kids tapos may work pa.

[barcode]

27 and 29 lang now. Weve been active for 10 years. Got married 4yrs ago.

Minsan naman sis twice a week, pero pag ganun parang over na sa kanya, once a week lang talaga. Ang maganda naman he cant go a week without it, sure yung once a week.

Kinausap ko na sya and he said he cant do it everyday and there is no way its possible. Madalas din ako natatangihan at nasasabihan ng hurtful words kaya napapaisip ako kung ako ba yung may problema.

[TomHansen]

Though bata pa kayo ang tagal niyo na rin pala so ayun na nga siguro yung sinasabi nilang nagkakasawaan(siya) kapag matagal na sa relasyon and not necessarily na ikaw ang dahilan. Wala namang problema sa iyo dahil ginagawa niyo pa rin naman once a week, siya ang may problema kung napagsasalitaan ka pa niya.

Mabaligtad man ang sitwasyon ang sex hindi automatic dapat palaging dalawa kayong matatapos, maraming paraan siyang pwedeng gawin basta gustuhin niya lang.

[barcode]

Ayun na nga yung masakit na katotohanan. Nagkakasawaan. Ayaw mo man aminin pero totoo noh?

[AlexaAlly]

1st try to seduce him. Talk sexy with him. Don't be in a hurry to penetrate, look at the nude bodies of each other and do have a creative mind to seduce. You can touch the sexual organs of him. Play with them. Let him also do the same.

Have a bath before sex. That feels fresh. Try to give him a blow job and don't show your hesitate face to him so that he turns off. Even if you feel hesitation in performing any act ,don't let him know. Try these following steps.If that also doesn't work consult a sex therapist or a sexologist and get a testosterone level check of your husband.

the last the last step used to consult a sexual logest but before that try to figure it out why he is not having a good sex drive. And at last consult a sex therapist or a sexologist.

[Ivelle14]

10 years married. We tried lots of sex positions, we tried porn, and okay naman for both of us. Problem is, sobrang madalang ang sex... as in he can go on for 2 months straight na walang sex. He's always busy sa work, and watching his fave tv shows. Whenever i initiate our lovemaking, sometimes i get insulted and humiliated pa na para ba kong sex addict na walang ibang nasa isip kundi sex. I feel alone, i feel stupid, i feel unpretty.... 

this is sad. kinda same with me.

[nhie]

Same with us. Back when we were bf/gf super active ng sex life namin, but now that we're married swerte na ang twice a week, minsan once a week lang worst is once every two weeks 😪 3yrs married but we're already 12yrs together, we have a 3yr old baby girl. Minsan ako na [textspeak!] nagiinitiate ng move pero matatanggihan pa 😔 I feel like deprived and unloved. 💔

[kaisha]

I'm experiencing this now... problem is, i don't know how to open up to him..
i'm pretty sure, walang ibang girls.. =(