Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 8)

[budgetchic]

^ Sorry. It should be "Do you like me?" instead of "her". haha. Naedit ko na.

About sa walang malisya. Anong alam na? Paki-clear po haha

[misslovelyjoy]

I can relate to that selosong boyfriend coz I have a super duper selosong boyfriend. Haha. Nakaka-stress may bf na seloso pero dahil mahal ko iniintindi ko nalang. Hehe.

Just like the other girls, pag may ni-like akong post/pic ng guy nagagalit na bf ko. Pag online ako tapos di siya online he would always think na may kachat akong iba. One time nagpost akong selfie sa ig tapos may nagcomment na guy ayun nagselos na naman sino daw yun blah blah. Paranoid siya lagi. Malinis naman konsensya ko. Pero minsan ang hirap mag-explain sa kanya na ganito, ganyan kasi pag nagseselos at galit siya sarado talaga utak niya sa mga bagay bagay.

[TomHansen]

- What is the meaning of "medyo. wag mo masamain" when you answered the question "Do you like me"?

"Medyo" ibig sabihin hindi ka niya ganun ka like, nagpapa-cute lang. Safe na sagot kasi ang "medyo", ibig sabihin pwede niyang gawin yung advances niya sayo pero di ibig sabihin committed siya - so ingat ka sis.. OR maaari ring hindi ka niya gusto pero ayaw niya lang ma-offend ka kapag sinabi niyang "hindi".

Kapag sinabi ng guy na "wala namang malisya". Do you really mean it? This is about you guys (girl and boy) will stay in one room, overnight. Kasi mas tipid.

Depende sa guy at sa girl na kasama niya pero 95% merong malisya yan ang tanong is may gagawin ba yung guy once magkatabi na kayo. Sa case mo i think Meron lalo sinabi niya yung safe word na "medyo"..  #alamnathis

Kelan magiging malisya ang malisya?

Kapag iba na yung tingin mo sa tao, either like mo or "type" mo..

Niyaya mo lumabas si girl, pero marami siyang reasons. You said to her na, "kaya ko naman magtiyaga. Single nga kinaya ko." (7 years na single) Does this mean, he's really interested sa girl?

Interested kaya nga inaya ka niya ang tanong is anong klaseng interest yun, gusto ka ba niyang makilala bilang potential gf or gusto ka lang niyang maikama?

May nakwento si girl sa guy about sa classmate nyo nung high school (J). Nagtanong kung nagbabar ka, tamang shot daw. Tinanong ni guy "O anong sabi mo?" Sabi ni girl, hindi siya nag-iinom. Tapos nakwento pa na hinihingi ni J yung cp # nya. Tanong ni guy, "binigay mo ba?" Hindi binigay ni girl, si J ang nagbigay nagbigay instead. LOL. Then may pinakita si girl na screenshot about sa convo. Nagtanong si guy "sino namang magagalit ___?" kasi dun sa screenshot nag ask si J r nung hinihingi number ni girl, kung may magagalit raw ba. Sabi kasi ni girl dun sa convo nya w/ J... "meron siguro lol" Bale sagot nya kay guy, "kaya nga kung meron lol" . Tapos kinonfirm ni guy "hahaha at sino naman?" Sabi ni girl, "wala haha kunware lang"

Why do you think kelangan din nya itanong yun? Is he kinda bit jealous?

Hindi, natanong lang kasi part ng usapan niyo..

[saqqara]

Guys help naman please  Is it just me ? or am I assuming lang?  ganito kasi yan just two weeks ago this officemate went to my desk nasa 2nd floor kasi siya while I'm on the 1st floor, he was asking anong kanta yung pina patugtog ko and letting me search it through youtube pa viewing the video hanggang matapos and asking sino daw yung artist etc. etc. sometimes naman he's asking me saan daw ako nag se-search or nag w-watch ng movies? Do I watch ba sa cellphone?  Ewan ko I just find it nonesense kasi magaling naman siya sa mga techie stuff or electrical stuff engineer kasi siya bakit pa mag a- ask siya sa akin? 
 
And just last week lang kumain kami mga officemates sa labas while I was in the restroom, siya pa naglagay ng rice sa plate ko,just found out nung pagbalik ko sa table they were teasing us,  Bakit yung iba hindi niya nilagyan ng rice sa plate nila    yung nasa left side niya na admin supervisor namin na girl nagreklamo rin through joke    tapos yung isang kasamahan namin na across niya nagtatampo rin ba't siya wala? hehe at ako lang talaga ang nilagyan ng rice.  He's the mysterious quiet type kasi ,he hardly talks though pero if nasa baba siya or mgakalapit kami siya naman nag initiate naman siya asking to look at my phone ganun? anong model daw  or he tells mamaya daw punta siya sa desk ko to download pirate bay or mga torrent sa pc ko so that he can download movies eh naisip ko ba't naman sa pc ko eh nasa baba ako at may laptop siya.

  Anyways as days go by I kinda like him na dahil siguro sa mysterious aura niya or ano ewan ko ba nakakinis huh  and sometimes nakikilig naman ako kasi whenever he goes home ahead eh nag buh bye siya or telling me na "Tara uwi na tayo" or "Lets go" sinasabi niya yan kapag ako lang nasa baba pero if may ibang tao hindi siya nagsasalita dretso lang siya palabas sa door at uwi nah  lol weird    Bakit kaya ganun siya? is he just being nice po ba? or ganun lang talaga siya?
  He doesn't do eye contact that much rin  pero yesterday while nasa meeting kami we were standing I looked at him and he looked away lol ano kaya yun?  Help naman guys pls. na confuse na talaga ako hehe 
 Thanks po.

[yhen88]

^ maybe he likes you sis, kaso torpe sya.  hindi niya alam pano niya sasabihin or humahanap pa siya ng magandang tiyempo.

[badw33d]

let me scare the sh*t out of you, maybe he's a killer.  bd joke, yes. Like what yhen88 mentioned, maybe he likes you and just torpe. Then again, this kind of behaviours, are the ones you gotta watch.

[saqqara]

^^ Thanks sis yhen88 and bro badw33d yun pala yun hehe  lol its confusing nga kasi sometimes nga he talks to me sometimes parang wala lol eh ako na loloka na rin ba't ba ganun?sobrang torpe naman hehe. Hindi naman ako nag b-bite. 

 

let me scare the sh*t out of you, maybe he's a killer.  bd joke, yes. Like what yhen88 mentioned, maybe he likes you and just torpe. Then again, this kind of behaviours, are the ones you gotta watch.

^ maybe he likes you sis, kaso torpe sya.  hindi niya alam pano niya sasabihin or humahanap pa siya ng magandang tiyempo.

[ohcmon]

^ Basta huwag muna aasa until he says anything. May mga lalaking ganyan, pa-kilig kunwari pero hanggang dun lang

[keejac21]

^^Oo nga, looks like torpe siya. And di niya alam paanong diskarte gagawin niya sayo.
Wag muna ma-fall. 

[simang]

If a guy likes you, you won't be confused. If he's sending you mixed signals, it may mean he doesn't like you enough yet to pursue you.

Ang paniniwala ko walang lalaking torpe. Ang lalaking torpe, sila yung hindi pa sigurado sa feelings nila. Pag gusto ka kasi ng lalaki, he will let his feelings known to you. Walang confusion.

[piatos]

@piatos, kahit naman magpakita siya ng napakaraming signs kapag wala siyang sinabing gusto ka niya ibig sabihin wala sis, wag mong masyadong isipin baka magkagusto ka sa kanya kakaisip mo hehe. baka type niya lang lipstick mo or curious saan mo nabili make-up mo.   Ex niya ba talaga baka hindi naman or ex pero inaayos na nila relationship nila. Ok lang namang makipagkita sa ex basta maayos ang breakup niyo and both of you are still not in a new relationship. Excuse me pero may nangyayari ba kapag nagkikita kayo ni ex mo?
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bro, hindi kami nagkita and the last time i heard about him kinasal na siya after 1 month ng kasal niya nagmemessage ulit.  hindi ko na lang pinapansin.

oo, kaya ayoko rin umaasa baka mali lang interpret ko sa da moves niya hhaha

^ That's normal. I would assume that the guy broke up with the girl while you broke up with your bf. Those who were on the receiving end of the bad news tend to not move on easily which is why they try to salvage the friendship and still hope to rekindle the "flame" in the future. In my opinion, you will do your ex a big favor by letting go of them instead of keeping them as friends. They can never move on if they still hangout with the ex who broke up with them unless they found someone else already.

i think so kasi single naman siya haha.  Si ex nakipagbreak sakin pero si guy nga ang nakipagbreak  sa ex niya

[anapatootiee]

Hello. Since sinasabi na ng lahat and/or biology na nature na ng mga lalaki na maging bastos or sexually aroused almost all the time, gusto ko lang itanong, paano ma-inlove ang lalaki? I mean, kapag ba nai-inlove sila parang mga nasa cliche movies na kinakikiligan ng mga girls or sadyang kakaibang arousal lang ang nararamdaman nila sa mga kinoconsider nilang "mahal" nila compared sa iba?

[kvandenhaak]

^Men sometimes are complicated to deal with. Yep, don't expect too much. Just enjoy whatever is happening. Ako ganon lang...masaya pa! LOL!

[red_yesha]

Girls normal lang ba tong nararamdaman ko?
1st bf ko to, so ayun, normal lang ba na gusto kong awayin yung bf ko? Last week ko pa to na feel, wala naman syang ginagawang masama sakin pero naiinis ako.
Ayun nagsosorry sya sakin ngayon sabe nya feeling nya daw naiinis daw ako sakanya.
Hays ayoko ng ganitong pakiramdam, parang ang topakin ko lately.
Is this normal?? or kelangan ko ng ituwid tong pag uugali ko? 

[junetwentythree]

^Been there, done that! Every week, every Friday to be exact, I'd pick a fight with this dude I was with. He called it the "Friday Bombshells" after awhile. No particular reason. I would just randomly come up with whatever just to rile him up. I told him I was testing him and his love for me. That he had to pass it in order to earn the badge of "honor" of being with me. Obviously, that's the dumbest thing EVER. I was just being an immature little prick.

I'm not saying you are. But at least you're recognizing that there might be an issue there. And no, it's not normal. Don't pick fights if it's not necessary. Unless of course you wanna be single again real soon. 

[simang]

^^it's common, but not normal, imo. Do something fun with your partner baka kasi wala na kayo masyado ginagawa kaya mo naiisip yan

[red_yesha]

^&^^ thanks mga sis! ewan ko ba topak ata tawag dito.
Iba iba ang ginagawa namin every week, like last week nagbakasyon kami somewhere. Ayun masaya,kakaiba.
Siguro dahil lagi kaming magkasama, Hindi kaya napapagod lang ako?Kelangan ko siguro ng time sa sarili ko noh?  This weekend nga di kami magkikita e, pero happy ako ,ang weird.
Ganito ata talaga kasi in my 24 yrs of existence ngayon lang ako nagka bf hindi pa ata talaga ako sanay na may mangingibig.
Siguro soon I'll get used to it. Nangangapa palang talaga ako ngayon 
Sige I will change, Mag sosorry ako sakanya kasi bigla nalang akong naiinis. kaawa naman sya.
Salamat ulit mga sis! 

[junetwentythree]

^ Ah, do you guys work together?
Yeah definitely give each other breathing space. I think that's important in a relationship. Especially for someone like you, who's pretty used to *having her own independence

[red_yesha]

^yes sis magkasama kami, pero hindi alam ng mga ka officemate namin ang tungkol sa relasyon namin. Ang nakakaalam lang about samin e yung family nya,family ko, bff nya, bff ko. tska GT?
Korek ka sis, mukang kailangan namin ng space once in a while. Salamat sa mga payo nyo,naliwanagan ang isip ko. Nag sorry na ako sakanya 

[junetwentythree]

^ Yeah. Office relationships can be controversial. So yes, best to keep it on the down low Plus, chismis lang yan And you don't want that.

Had to edit my ^^ post cuz I reread it and I was like wut?!  I meant... yeah. lel.

Well then, good to hear! And no problem