Biglang nag laho na parang bula

[young_maiden]

^ i second the motion. Wala na torpe torpe kung gusto talagi ng lalaki maging gf ka. Kung seryoso siya, malalampasan niya ang shyness or fear of rejection niya kahit walang push fron the girl na type niya. Kung pinapairal niya shyness niya, it means di pa malalim feelings niya.

To TS: move on. Buti nga iyong mag disappear na lang siya kaysa paasahin ka. Baka di lang talaga kayo compatible para sa kanya. Madami pa naman iba dyan na pwede mo makasundo at matatanggap ka.

[donzski_doinks]

Madali naman mabasa lalaki. They're not into mind games. If gusto ka nyan, hahabulin ka nyan.

I agree. Ako, karamihan talaga ng manliligaw ko kung hindi textmate e chatmate naman. so sa experience ko, kung gusto ka talaga ng lalaki, yan pa mismo ang gagawa ng paraan to communicate with you. may textmate ako dati,, after ng first meeting namin, aba bigla nalang dumalang magtext. kesyo busy sa work.. blah blah blah.. eh hindi naman ako bobita para hindi malaman na nagdadahilan lang sya so i stopped texting him na din.

si hubby ko, sa FB lang kame nag meet. after ng first meet namin, di naman sya nagbago sa akin. consistent pa din. so I thought he was really into me kaya ayun, binakuran ko na. haha

[snowhite_12]

Ang unfair naman nito..kung kailan ko gusto si boylet sa lahat na binigay at set up nila ito pa yung malabo. we communicate last night. Ngayon wala na. Hindi ako nag first move mag text because ginawa ko na dati 2 days after we meet. Haist.. i need to date another guy para makalimutan ko to.hehhehe! Joks!

[baliwsayo]

Lesson learned. Bago mo entertain ang thought na gustuhin yun lalake, kailangan madinig mo muna sa kanya na gusto ka nya. Otherwise, chill lang dapat, enjoy the company.

[Red Rack 21]

blind dates are a hit and miss thing. move on don't dwell and still meet other guys. maybe you don't have the chemistry to begin with.

[killbill]

Tama mga sinabi ng mga sis and bros. Don't expect too much lalo pat first date pa lang naman. And kung hindi mo maresist na maunang mag text sa kanya, change his name sa contacts to "Do Not Text" or just delete his number.

[pret_ty68]

A qoute from Oprah that goes like this:

"If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't, nothing can make him stay."

[argento]

TS got hurt kasi type na niya si guy 1st date pa lang. siguro may hitsura.

kaso hindi siya type ni guy. ganun lang.

[snowhite_12]

@argento actually hindi siya my type talaga.(chinito type ko)pero presentable Siya.parang my something na magaan ang feeling ko sa kanya  for the first time in my life.(dati mga na meet ko walang sparks hindi ko feel kausap)and ito kasi i prayed before we meet up a sign from God and it happened when we meet but..  haaayyy... ayoko ng mag analyze and think.. ill do something that i enjoy nalang para hindi na ako malungkot 

[pan.ian4ever]

Haha. I have experienced this. Yung guy eh naging bf ko pa kaso nawala din na parang bula.tapos ngayon,magpaparamdam at mangungulit after two years of being missing in action...may rason pa syang hindi naman daw kami nagbreak!

Nakakaloka!!!

[ece]

Hahahaha! Relate much to this topic. Pinakilala din lang siya ng friend ko, ayon ako naman na fall ng bongga, text-text, tawag-tawag.. Then one day, sabi nya kang, he'll have a drink with his boss, tawagan daw nya ako after. I waited. Hours turned to days, then weeks, months... NGANGA si inday. 😅😱😁😭

[Girltalker2]

Ang unfair naman nito..kung kailan ko gusto si boylet sa lahat na binigay at set up nila ito pa yung malabo. we communicate last night. Ngayon wala na. Hindi ako nag first move mag text because ginawa ko na dati 2 days after we meet. Haist.. i need to date another guy para makalimutan ko to.hehhehe! Joks!

TS, sana naka move on ka na.

Important lesson iyan, never fall to a guy who just shows interest. Yes he Iggy be interesting din, but use your head kung ayaw mo mag mukhang atat magka BF or desperate to have a man in your life.

Do everything you can to avoid falling. And I've mentioned several times na sa different threads, date mEn, don't commit. Don't look for just another guy. Look for guys! Diverted na attention mo, you won't be focus on one kaya you won't easily fall. Second, you'll get to know yourself more, ano gusto/ayaw mo - you will realise it is not about him being handsome, but it is in his personality and how he treats you. Lastly, you get to compare guys and along the way you can have your own checklist of an ideal guy. And if ever someone can meet all the non negotiable traits and perhaps 70% of the negotiable traits, then he should be the one 😉. (I put chemistry as one of the non nego hehe)

^ sis, in your case, you won't end up nganga if you don't wait around for him. Don't ever do that. Waiting for a while sa start is fine but I guess always have your own life at bahala sya sumingit and make time effort to get to know you. Kapag di tumawag, ok lang since you have a life naman. Kesa mag antay sa wala.

[snowberry]

Sabi nga there are a lot of fish in the ocean

[Girltalker2]

^ that's great to hear TS that you've move on!
True! Lots of fish in the sea! Puede na sea sis, parang ang laki kasi pag ocean lol!

[pandalicious]

Relate na relate naman ako! Lol! Ako nga halos one year ka-text/chat, niregaluhan pa ko ng expensive watch, tapos ayun nawala din. Dami nang excuses, at totoo madali naman mabasa mga lalaki, feel ko na ding wala nang interes. Sinubukan ko pa din text for a few days, eh lukewarm reply pa din, delete na ng number para hindi ko na panghinayangan yung "what could have been" at kung ano pa masabi ko.

[snowberry]

^ that's great to hear TS that you've move on!
True! Lots of fish in the sea! Puede na sea sis, parang ang laki kasi pag ocean lol!

haha sige na nga sis , sa sea na lang , kahit sa pond pwede na rin. I like you sis Girltalker2, parang may similarity tayo , feel ko lang hahha

[ece]

^ sis, in your case, you won't end up nganga if you don't wait around for him. Don't ever do that. Waiting for a while sa start is fine but I guess always have your own life at bahala sya sumingit and make time effort to get to know you. Kapag di tumawag, ok lang since you have a life naman. Kesa mag antay sa wala.

I waited for him, for his explanation kung anong nangyari. may respeto ko sa kanya eh' kala ko kasi iba siya. he did called, after 3 months. naniwala naman ako sa paliwanag nya, ako pa talaga ang nag tanong kung gusto pa nya ituloy ang nasira naming relationship. i'll give him another chance sabi ko. wag na daw. okay. fine. bye.