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Miss Taken

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Re: bullying in the workplace
« Reply #20 on: October 29, 2015, 06:00:11 am »
Kapag nasa work, I usually stay quiet or kung makikipagbiruan man ako dun lang sa mga kaclose ko talaga and not the newbies. Sa situation kasi ni TS, mukhang pikon yung new officemate nila kahit na malakas din naman pala siyang mangasar. Much better kung huwag na lang patulan or sabihin niyo sa kanya next time na bawal ang pikon, atleast may disclaimer na kayo di ba lol
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Re: bullying in the workplace
« Reply #21 on: October 29, 2015, 07:53:04 pm »
Hm, for me medyo mahirap sya ijudge kasi minsan merong work mates na nangaasar ng ganun to help you learn, partly siguro they want the newbie to realize yung routines talaga nila ganun. Di lang siguro nila narealizew na offensive kay newbie yung ginawa nila

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Re: bullying in the workplace
« Reply #22 on: October 31, 2015, 11:58:13 pm »
Sumbong agad ang newbie???
Naku layuan nyo na yan... Mapapahamak lang kayo jan,
Hi and hellos nalang.

I was also bullied sa work nuon.
Wala talagang kumakausap saakin
Pag lunch ako lang.. May isang guy talagang
Ipinamukha sakin na di mo alam to??? Minsan gusto ko
Na siyang awayin pero nagtimpi lang ako kasi bago lang ako
Saka na pag tenured na,
Mga ganon. Tapos nung nagkainuman after shift...
Lumabas yung totoong bully, funny me,
After that, kinakausap nako ng lahat.
Tapos si bully guy. Nagkagusto pa sakin at naging kami pa. Hahaha
Ewww..

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Re: bullying in the workplace
« Reply #23 on: April 05, 2017, 12:39:20 pm »
I have been bullied in different jobs from all directions -- sometimes by the boss, other times my colleagues, the client, or even my subordinate.  There were times I fought back, sometimes I just kept quiet, and one time I quit.

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Re: bullying in the workplace
« Reply #24 on: June 24, 2017, 12:05:28 pm »
Ako usually umiiwas ako sa mga nang-bubully. Kaso sa huling work ko (abroad), yung fellow Pinoy pa ang nambubully sa kin. Di naging maganda yung experience ko dun. Ayun, after 8 months di ko na matiis. Sumabog ako. Sinigawan ko na siya, sa workplace yun. Tipong wala na ko pakelam kung buong 2nd floor dinig boses ko. Natakot na siya. hehe... Ingat na siya sa binibitawan niyang salita.  :P

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Re: bullying in the workplace
« Reply #25 on: August 25, 2017, 05:10:18 am »
Monday -
Tenured girl 2: oh uwi ka na? iiwan mo na si (partner) dami pa ginagawa...
Tenured girl 1: oo ngaaaaa
Newbie: wala na ko gagawin eh...

Tuesday -
Tenured girl 1: wow ang aga mo ha
Tenured girl 2: naks bumabawi
Newbie: bakit masama na ba pumasok ng maaga?

Tuesday afternoon - kinausap ni manager (mainit na agad ulo) si 2 girls (nagsumbong kasi si newbie bakit daw siya inaasar ng ganoon). No offense meant, literal na nangaasar lang naman yung 2 girls kay newbie, na natutuwa sila para kay newbie dahil maaga makakauwi, LOL... si newbie naman mapang asar din pero pikon pala...


Is this an example of bullying? Simpleng asaran gone wrong...

Have you ever experienced being bullied in your workplace? What happened and what did you do about it? Please share your stories, firsthand experience or the ones you've witnessed... TIA!



haaaay buti ka nga sis yan lang

ako dito sa abroad nasabihan sa harap ng maraming staff na "I'd rather go home than to work with this girl"


feel ko minsan siguro kasi maporma din ako at naiinis sila sa presence ko... di ko na tuloy alam ang gagawin eh mukhang ayaw din naman nilang umuwi...

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Re: bullying in the workplace
« Reply #26 on: August 29, 2017, 09:19:37 am »
Lumalayo ako sa bully, not because ayoko mabully but because ayoko madamay sa pangbubully nila sa ibang tao. Baka mawalan pa ako ng trabaho. Sa work ni hubby, may ganyan din, dalawa sila na nag-aasaran na medyo umabot sa green jokes. The following week, nagfile na si officemate 1 ng reklamo against officemate 2, filing it under sexually inappropriate behavior. Ayun, tanggal si officemate 2. That is how fast it is, kaya I'm always careful on what to say at work.

 


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