opinions anyone?

[Project60]

Sis, i hope you don't get offended. Kung parang decided ka naman na hindi na maghanap ng work - bakit di mo nalang pauwiin na si yaya or something? Syempre nakikitira lang kayo diyan kaya meron at meron masasabi ang in-laws. Yes, nakakaraos kayo financially pero imagine the savings din naman (no matter how small) if you get a job or if you just do what the yaya does. Pwede ng pang mutual funds yun! hehe or pwede na kayo makabukod ng mas mabilis with the savings.

Sa job - I'm a recruiter for 8 years and siyempre ang may employment gaps medyo mas matagal makahanap ng work pero if there's a will makakahanap at makakahanap ka din kaya lang baka you have to start from entry level uli because of the tough competition. It may not seem worthwhile pero nobody ever started sa taas na agad diba? You really have to start from the bottom and work your way up unless dami kayo connections A job is better than no job ika nga.

If you want to keep the yaya and stay unemployed - that's fine pero try mo kaya mag sideline? online business, blogging - anything! mahirap din kasi umikot ang mundo mo sa bahay lang.... hindi sa tinatakot kita ha pero my sister in law umikot buhay nya sa kuya ko wala silang anak kasi may problem si babae na later on nalang nila nalaman after the wedding - after more than 10 years of marriage nag cheat si brother ko and my sister in law lost na lost sya not just financially. Wala silang anak pero since getting married she stopped working. Dati rin inis na inis kami sa kanya kasi we felt na ano ba yan, malakas naman, wala namang anak na inaalagaan puro asa sa kapatid namin samantalang yung bahay na tinitirhan nila is amin na din. Now naaawa naman kami sa kanya kasi ang sad, wala siyang anak, patay na parents niya, wala siyang career, di niya na alam ano ba gusto niya, skills niya, hirap na makahanap ng work lalo kasi may edad na at ang haba na talaga ng employment gap.

Sorry haba ng kwento. Think about it sis... Think practical.

[skela96c]

Be productive kahit nasa bahay ka lang. Kasi if I'm your SIL tapos we work our b#t+s off the whole day and pagdating sa bahay makikita kitang pachill chill lang, honestly, dadating ang point that I'd get pissed off.

I'm curious tuloy, so how do you spend your  day everyday? 

Good that your husband can support you financially. Pero, extra fund wouldn't hurt. 

You don't necessarily have to get an 8-5 job. But atleast be productive. It's also for your own personal growth.