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Re: The TALK before getting married
« Reply #40 on: February 05, 2015, 09:55:41 am »
1. MONEY, MONEY, MONEY - We are both working. Binibigay niya sa akin lahat ng money niya tapos ako ang nagtatabi ng money. as of now, sa bank account ko muna, pero this weekend we will be opening joint savings and checking accounts. We are both lucky because we do not have anyone to support. Our parents are already established, still both earning well and still relatively young. Pareho naman kami marunong magmanage ng pera at hindi rin kami mahilig sa mga gadgets. Ang hilig lang niya ay books at ako naman clothes. Binawasan ko muna ang shopping kasi we will be simultaneously paying for the balance of my car loan at magdadownpayment para sa house namin.  Both of us already have VULs nung single pa kami, kaya mas confident na rin kami dahil sa insurance namin.

2. IN-LAWS - Wala namang problem dito. Mabait ang mga SIL ko, (2 sisters at isang lalaki lang siya sa family) mabait din ang MIL ko. Wala na [textspeak!]. Kasundo din ng husband ko ang mom ko.

3. WHERE WILL YOU LIVE - Instead of renting a place, we both decided na tumira muna sa family niya habang naghahanap pa ng bahay. Sa ngayon nakakita na kami, pero next year pa ang turnover kaya mga 1 year pa kami titira sa mother in law ko. Wala namang nagiging problema sa family ni husband kasi matagal ko nang nakakasama mga SIL ko at MIL ko dahil 8 years kaming mag bf before ikasal. Mababait sila sa akin even my MIL. Hindi naman pakialamera ang MIL ko.

Pros:

1.may maid na gumagawa ng lahat ng bagay for us.
2. car ko may naglilinis. wala kaming iniintindi ng h2b ko except magwork. Nagbibigay lang kami ng X amount sa mommy niya para makacontribute para hindi naman nakakahiya na freeloader kami. Kami rin ang nagpropose nito sa mom niya.
3. hindi ako masyadong napapagod kaya nakakabawas stress ang paguwi, balak na kasi namin magka baby na asap.

Cons:

1. wala kaming choice sa food
2. nahihiya ang hubby ko pag tinatanong siya saan kami nakatira.
3. nagtampo MIL ko ng konti when we told her that we are already paying for a house of our own. Nalungkot kasi siya. gusto niya dun talaga kami tumira.

Usapan namin my mom will stay with us sa new home namin. Okay naman sa kanya kasi magkasundo naman sila.

4. CHILDREN - mga 2 muna sa computation namin ng mga gastusin. pero as we go along kung kaya pa namin isupport gusto ko sana hanggang 4 kasi only child ako. prepared kami magpagamot kung kelangan man to have kids.

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Re: The TALK before getting married
« Reply #41 on: February 05, 2015, 11:25:44 am »
Wow.. how organised sis fionaapple :)
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Re: The TALK before getting married
« Reply #42 on: February 05, 2015, 07:38:03 pm »
^salamat sis belle_v2g. Ganun talaga kami ng husband ko, kahit nung mag boyfriend pa lang kami, pinaplano talaga namin lahat. :) maswerte din naman ako kasi mabait ang mga in-laws ko. May mga stories kasi dito minsan na hindi ok ang relationship with the in laws.

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Re: The TALK before getting married
« Reply #43 on: October 01, 2019, 03:43:30 pm »
I know this is an old thread but I will be getting married next year and i was looking for something like this. I consolidated infos from here and from the other links you posted. Thanks so much GT sisters!!!! Nice thread for b2b!

 


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