More than a decade of loneliness..what to do???

[defraudedheart]

thank you all for the advise, suggestions and comments...i'll pary for this one..please bear with me..

[p0isonIvy]

i would suggest for you to read up on 'pick up' para magkaroon ka ng refresher on interacting with women. go to sites like girlschase, read 'the game' by neil strauss. based din sa kwento mo kulang ka sa confidence at medyo nice guy ang vibe mo, I'm not saying na kelangan mo baguhin kung sino ka..but kung wala lang napapala by being yourself for 10 years, then diba it means you've got to change something

^ helpful ba talaga for guys yung mga "pick up" lessons na yan? i feel these things only teaches gasgas moves or worse, teaches men how to be assholes.

i think regardless of whether TS has game or lacks self confidence or whatever, it will still boil down on the receptivity of the girl. call it attraction or spark. you can teach someone what to say or what to do, but you cant teach real connections.

kung hindi ka pa confident sa skills mo, try going out sa clubs on weekends to work up on your social skills and talking to women.

^ for practice, yes. but dont expect to meet your future bride in clubs. people who go there are only looking for an easy lay.

TS stop pursuing her. Yung sinabi niya na friends muna yun na yun. Sayang time mo sa kanya.
Pag pinakita mo sa babae na sobrang gusto mo siya sasamantalahin ka lang.

^ there. finally someone said it.